CyberMWC

As CyberWife said, someone would have needed an ambulance. I'm a very easy going guy. You almost have to be to be a swinger, but something like that... Like the Thing says..."ITS CLOBBERIN TIME!" *Evil Grin* CyberHusband

m & j, You had EVERY right to shoo the uninvited critter away! OMG, if it were us, Hubby would've killed 'em! I'm afraid to even THINK about running into the same situation that you've been in...YIKES!

At a local metropark on the nature trails there is a rest spot. It's a covered area with a half wall 3/4 way around. Benches line the inside and we made use of them.

Hhhmmm... On the nature trail at Kensington Metro Park, in one of the rest stop/observation area thingie right off the PUBLIC trail! It looked more like a public bus stop, open at one half and a half wall-half open at the other with a roof over it. There were wooden benches for sitting and relaxing all along the insides, and we did that, and MUCH more! When we were done with our "nature walk", we ended up at a nearby beach/picnic area and continued our adventure on into the water. We waded out as far as the lifeguards were, by then I couldn't touch bottom, but hubby could. I wrapped my legs around hubby (facing him), and soon after, he took advantage of the "situation" and we had sex with people swimming all around us! There were even two lifeguards (male & female) on duty, sitting on top of their surfboards about 5 to 6 feet away from us! They didn't say anything to us, not sure if they noticed or knew what was going on, but the wake movement around us was a sure give away, especially since it also reached them, bobbing their surfboards up and down on the surface of the water! It was SO erotic, I get wet every time I think about it! MMMmmmm.... :p

We're both 40, been together for about 5 years, and we've been exploring the lifestyle for about 3-3 1/2 years.

Interesting question... I would have to say, that it helped me get over the negativity of "Sex" from my past history. Our experiences in the lifestyle has made me feel much more comfortable on the topic of SEX. The world is SO SEXually deprived, it's not even funny. "Kinky"? Depends...What's kinky to one, may not be kinky to another. I think it's more like experiencing SEX out of your "comfort" zone. Expressing yourself SEXually, exploring fantasies beyond your wildest desires, and sharing the experiences with your Soulmate (BIGEST SEXUAL high)! As you further explore your SEXuality, you open avenues that you never had the nerve to try and experience. I think its pretty cool! It's like this SEXual high...You're enjoying SEX SO much, that you just can't have enough! I hate having "limits" on myself... Expand your horizons...SEXUALLY!