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Sin D

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    couple
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    U.P. MI
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    professional
  1. if anything, swinging has brought us closer together....probably because of all the open communication. we feel we had a very solid relationship to begin with, and it has improved from there with over 5 years of swinging. most of our "vanilla" friends are in rotten marriages, or at least marriages we ourselves wouldn't want to be in.....as are some of the swinging couples we are aquainted with. but, for some odd reason, the people we know with the most secure marriages are also swingers. so, it has been our experience that it has improved the marriage.....but maybe 5-6 years isn't what some would call "long term."
  2. Hello Naughty's. Great post (again).....you guys rock!! As for the Taliban on here, we were surprised to read about their views on the "morality" of the situation. They must be kidding. Right? As open minded adults, and belonging to this site, this was the last place we expected to see somebody chastised or given a lesson on morality for a post. Like Taliban everywhere...shame on you. flamethrow
  3. I thought it was fair. Better than dr. phil's show. Interesting at least.
  4. Actively = 2 years. We would actually like to be more active , but it is a rural area and the closest club is 155 miles away.
  5. My whole family knows, thanks to one of my sisters betraying my trust. We've always talked with each other about everything, but for some reason she had to tell the whole family. Both of his brothers know, but they have all always been close....and all three swing.
  6. He was 22 when he started, I was 33. We are both in our mid-30's now. That said, we always wonder about the teens you see on some of the swinger sites. 18 and 19 seems pretty young to us....but everyone matures differently.
  7. Although I can, it is my understanding that the vast majority of women cannot. At least not from "penis-thrusting-in-vagina" alone intercourse. Does anyone watch "Talk Sex?" This topic comes up about every week, and Sue usually states a percentage of women who actually can....and it's pretty low.
  8. We refer to them as "straight"......as do most of our friends who swing. As in, "we went to dinner with a few of our straight friends the other night..." It seems to come up that way in conversation.
  9. In answer to Julie's inquiry and several of the posts....yes, I definitely think she's become a monster! I'm not certain it was my creation or not, but she blames it on me and swears that I'm The Devil. :evil: The whole story is much too detailed to post here, but she is definitely a hot sex-monster!
  10. For what it's worth.....we were involved in an identical situation with a single female a few years ago, but were manipulated into thinking that the whole thing was a misunderstanding. We were new to swinging at the time, and had spent a few months getting to know her and do things socially as well. So rather than give her the boot, we stuck it out. Well, not long after, I went to visit relatives for a week. The entire week I was gone she was calling several times a day trying to come over to the house to "get together" while I was away.....saying that I would never need to know or find out. I applaud my BF for not giving in to temptation (she was extremely attractive) and for telling me about it right away. We gave her the boot and ended the friendship. If a situation like your's came up again....we would terminate the relationship immediately! Nothing but trouble can come from this situation....and it is no "misunderstanding" on her part. Just our two-cents worth.
  11. I know how my relationship with my brother is, so......is it possible for the brothers to come to an arrangement such as alternating weekends at the club? Just a thought, but it seems as if that would smooth things over maybe.
  12. You are definitely cheating! Every couple that posts a personal ad will probably eventually have to deal with a married male replying to their post. the issue is, in a way, are you willing as a couple to enable his cheating for your own adventure? What if his wife finds out? What are the possible consequences to you if she does? You can justify it any way you like to yourself, but it's cheating...and the couples you are with probably view it that way also...they just assume that it's not their problem, it's yours.
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