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  1. So he was honest to the end. We would have considered that a red flag ourselves. If you feel a bit used then thats what you feel - it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. But it is still true that he was honest to the end and you knew his plan of action so now he has taken it you can't really blame him. C'est la vie
  2. Our advise would be to get it out in the open. People are always saying communication is the most important aspect of this lifestyle. I agree with northindycpl that she hasn't told you her feelings on the subject yet. Open discussion is the only way to go. MrSC - I have felt in the past that previous partners have 'gone along' with my interests (sexual or otherwise) on the grounds that I will lose interest in it eventually and therefore avoid confrontation by saying "no" directly to my face. Talk about it - a frustrating relationship is worse than no relationship in our opinion. Oh - we forgot if you feel the need to cheat - discuss those feelings or begin to think how you can both move on. The longer you wait the worse it will get.
  3. Really it's true!! Labiaplasty is the official term (type it in to google and see what you get!) And Anal bleaching I think is the laymans term as no plastic surgery sites mention it by this name but it really isn't a myth. I saw it on another programme called "cosmetic surgery live" on Channel 5. Maybe the original poster can forward on links to the poor girl in question After all he has approached the subject - the least he can do now is offer a solution - ha ha
  4. This is indeed just pigmentation but people are becoming more aware of it as porn leaves very little to the imagination these days. The difference with porn starts is its their job and just as they are having their boobs done, hair removed by laser, lips injected with cologen, labia reduced to look 'neater' (half the time looks just plain weird to me) they are also having 'anal bleaching' which is why you now see that winky pink hole more often on film. Its not usually pink in my experience. IMHO porn starts are like the fast food of sex - great on occasion but you couldn't live on it! Ditto to everyone else - I can't believe you were so insensitive!!!
  5. It already is here in the UK - we think its a measure to try and reduce abortion here.
  6. my two cents... Enemas make you dribbly (euwww). Don't do it too soon after you have been to the toilet. Don't do it when you need the toilet. Lots of foreplay - you'll soon know if you need to divert your partner elsewhere simple really good health in general: Keep the fibre in take up and drink loads of water
  7. it's bound to take time to build up the trust again. Give it time - but it depends hown much you've got to give.
  8. I've never had your finger up my ass so can't comment but I will say that for me, its not this act alone that makes you feel gay but really understanding the physical pleasure of being penetrated certainly gives you a better understanding of both women AND gay men. That new found understanding, common ground with gay men (or women in general) isn't something most straight guys ever thought they'd have, so it raises new questions about what they might[i/] like, and ultimately their sexuality. I've never been in any way homophobic (i've lived in gay areas of the UK for most of my life), I've flirted in clubs with guys who have thought me to be attractive (returned the odd wink or smile etc) but never ever considered any guy on guy action with anything other than "euwww" until after my strap-on initiation. The association of your anus as a pleasure zone is one thing (the 1st step????), the association of penetration another.
  9. On giving strap on head... Its a power exchange I think. Recieving head is a big visual kick, the way her face changes shape, the (dare I say it) submission, or wish to please is a huge turn on (for me). So maybe he wants you to experience it. On feeldoe... ...mmmmm On the subject in general... It's so taboo. We talked about it after a late night TV show and went into London together to a (mainly lesbian) shop that fitted my partner with hers. The whole situation still makes me feel a bit strange / nervous. For me its about giving up control mostly. I like being on top (only way to use the feeldoe without the extra help of a harness) while she wanks me, but having your hips grasped and being F**&%$ is an experience that I think makes me as a bloke a far more considerate and uderstanding straight lover. I would say though that since these experiences I have given more consideration to the question "am I bi?". My answer is who knows. I'll find out one day I'm sure.
  10. This is IT. I doubt she (his wife) knows anything about this and he's trouble - unhappiness breeds and if he's in an unhappy marriage guess what he'll do to yours. I'm not saying its intentional but I wouldn't want him near us. The reason people seem to want to meet is that the online stuff is too easy and too intimate too early. AND there's less percieved risk "it's only online" is a dangerous excuse that sits in our minds. There's too much room for deception. My advise - wipe a clean slate discuss your fellings - agree to diagree if needed - Kill the online stuff and get to some parties. Meet with couples, face to face and only couples until the trust is back by the truck load. Then you are both on an even footing (both has the same to lose).
  11. Foot fetish has one of the largest followings apparently but it doesn't seem to fit to well in the scene from our limited experience. I believe that it is not the feet that do the job but the act of worship and submission that is the turn on but this manifests itself in the body part or object involved (such as shoes stockings or high heels etc ass-worship???). I wouldn't consider myself a foot fetishist but many a time when pampering my SO kneeling in front of here giving her a foot rub it has turned towards some toe sucking and or toe job as foreplay. Not something that I could focus on entirely but the sensations make a pleasant change once in a while. There is in the UK a foot fetish party scene though if you think that it this that you want to focus on primarily. The scene in general seems pretty FemDom though.
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