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DaveNSheila

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About DaveNSheila

  • Rank
    Swingers Board Addict
  • Birthday 02/11/1969

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Oklahoma City, OK. 73162
  • Interests
    Having fun whatever fun may be. Playing pool, bowling, darts, cards, games, very easily entertained
  • Occupation
    Massage Therapist,Dr. of MetaPhysics, Minister, Over all Wellness.
  • Swinging Experience
    4yrs

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    DaveNSheila
  • Favorite Club(s)
    Club Dreamers
  1. The service was yesterday and we saw the wife(made eye contact) and that was all. We knew them from the club and didnt exchange any info as ways to meet outside of the club. We left a card at the funeral home for the wife to get and put one of our business cards in it for her to call us if needed. From what we could tell we were the only ones from the swinger life there and we didnt make it known where we knew them from or anything like that. This is the first time having to sort of deal with this so not sure really how to go about it. I mean we understand death and the grieving process and all so wont do anything like that. We knew the couple and would socialize everytime we saw each other timing as far as playing was just off. Now well that is another story. We are hoping that the wife will call us not to play but to just chat and maybe we can build something out and away from the club. If not then hopefully we see her sometime eventually at a club and we can once again chat where everyone is comfortable. Thank you again all for your support and thoughts. D
  2. Thank you all for your support. Intuition I will let her know. We only knew their first names and knew them only in a club setting. We didn't exchange numbers or get real specifics about everyday life, we chatted a bit about everyday life but nothing real if you know what I mean. I am sure that it wont be mentioned about a swinger club it is an off premises club so everyone was dressed, been looking in the paper to find out any info as far as when the services are and all nothing as of yet. Found out that they were on a yahoo swing club group that we are on as well and that they live in the same city we do so they are fairly close to us. Thanks again to all for the heart felt sympathies, when I get the chance will let the surviving spouse know. D
  3. Hello all not sure really where to put this so thought General would be a good place to put this it is sad but also an eye opener. We had gone to a club this weekend and a couple we hadn't seen in a couple of months was there. We consider them friends and haven't played with them but have done alot of teasing among the four of us, timing just hasn't worked in our favor. We were all sitting at the same table pretty much just hung out together and having fun, they were very affectionate with each other which we hadn't seen in the past and the male half was sort of pushy in the aspect of trying to get his wife to go down on S and at one point had taken his wife's dress and told her she couldn't have it back until I had fucked her. We hadn't been to the club in a couple of months do to life and all, any way near the end of the evening the couple was joking around with each other chasing each other being silly and he said he had to take a breather. He sat down at a chair near where they were being silly and the next thing you know he is slumped over. He quit breathing and his heart stopped. 911 was called they came did what they could and he passed away he was only 43. We watched our friend die in front of us at a swinger club. I guess I am posting this to sort of let everyone know just how short life really is and to try and enjoy as much as you can while you still have it. Sort of in shock still but was glad to see them joke around and be silly with each other. D
  4. HEllo and Welcome to the board. Feel free to post any thoughts, concerns, comments, views, opinions, and ask any questions you may have. With your experience it will be a great bonus to the board by sharing. D
  5. Hello and Welcome to the board. Sounds like you have gotten some good advice. The biggest and most important thing you two can do is talk, talk, talk, and more talking. Keep those lines open. D
  6. I haven't had a problem with it, in fact I kinda like it at times I even want to go after a cream pie. D
  7. IF S is into the guy or the couple and I can at least get it up then ya we can play and I will take one for the team you could say. I know that if he doesn't excite her at all it wont happen no matter what. D
  8. I chose Wiccan Pagan. then again my signature says it all I admit to being a Witch Doctor. D
  9. Happy Anniversary to the both of you! Nah it wasn't unreasonable to send him packing. You all planned a time to meet and it wasn't fulfilled. Now mind you I understand that stuff happens and there are things that are just out of our hands, he was curteous at least and did call you to update you but after awhile you get to the point that with all of this happening it just isn't worth it and maybe should reschedule for another time. Glad that you and Mr. Intuition had a very enjoyable evening together. D and S
  10. We go with what is written more than the pics. Have to agree with one of the responses that G pics are nice. We rather see pics of faces even if the eyes are blocked than pics of anatomy. D
  11. NaughtyKitten. Liked your SLS profile. Very nicely done. Straight to the point. Tells us about you and what you are after. D
  12. Mr Utopian Couple said it best. The part about being able to see what she does to me from a different angle. When S and I have sex or make love when I am ready to orgasm she rolls her hips now that may seem small but so far she is the only one that I have been with that does that. She just naturally does it. So the first time we swapped it was neat to watch her body movements and to finally see how her body moves when she does what she does. I feel it and now I know what it looks like when she does that. That was the first thing for me about swapping. We both know that we have each others heart and no matter what at the end of the night or the end of the play session we are going home together. It is just fun a way to pass time and a different recreational sport. Now my think of different things and try to do different things all of which has to meet S's approval. Our thing lately has been driving along the Interstates naked and giving a show of some sort.. Ok sorry got off track and went off into left field. The emotions will be there and just ride through them sounds like you both know that you love each other and well talk afterwards and you will both see that you are still both there for each other. D
  13. For us and I didnt see it as a listing on the poll. For the male part I voted straight with no desires to be touched sexual by a man. Now with that I am not homophobic. I mean I have helped two couples experience a vag dp. so our cocks touched and rubbed against each other and I wasnt the bit freaked out. For S I put situationally bi only because she is exploring it at her own pace and well watched her kiss a gal and when we started she told me no way no how would she have sex with a woman yet alone kiss one. D
  14. For us we are on two different age cat. D is 36 and S is 34. D
  15. Hello and Welcome to the board for starters. From the way you described yourselves. We would probably play with you. Now I say that, that way only because we are into personality more than looks. If there is a spark then let the fun times begin. If not we would sit and chat and hang out and become friends and enjoy the evening. When I was single living in AZ I would go to one of the on premises clubs anytime I could. I didn't necessarily play every time but I had fun every time I went. The reason I had fun because I went with the attitude of having fun whatever fun may be. It might be nothing more than sitting in a hot tub and relaxing, playing a game or two of pool or better yet strip pool, or watching another couple play or sit back and watch a bunch of people play. The whole thing is don't get discouraged and check your own attitude. When you folks go out, go with the mentality of having fun with no expectations. Wish you both the best of luck. Btw if you are ever in the OKC, Ok area feel free to look us up.
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