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About Sonja&Brett

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  • Birthday 04/12/1942

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple - M/F
  • Location
    Foot Hills of High Sierra - 45 miles to Sacramento
  • Interests
    Going to nudist resorts and outdoor stuff like hiking, biking, and hanging at the beach.
  • Occupation
    Publisher
  • Swinging Experience
    8 years

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  • Favorite Club(s)
    Freedom Acres

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  1. Fun things, you shouldn't have to work at. If you think it's work, drop the activity be it swinging, skiing, snorkeling.
  2. Just awesome. I never know for sure what's in my wife's mind. I talked her into going to an on-premise club. She was very skeptical, but was willing to give it a try. After that 1st time, dancing hot, watching, cumming on the spa jets, and screwing in a semi-private cubicle it is she that generally says "Let's go to the club." We've been going for over 10 years. The club, by the way, is Freedom Acres in Southern California, near San Bernardino. She still hasn't agreed to full swap or a MFM, but does dance with other men and let's them touch her ass and boobs. Recently, after an erotic day at the Sea Mountain Nude Spa, near Palm Springs, she got into the spa and reached an orgasm on the jets. The men in the hot tub were all watching. You could tell that she loved the attention. Then we went to dance in the lounge area. There's a round bed in the middle of the dance floor. Several couples were fucking on the bed while we danced. Without warning, she pulled me down onto the bed, with a fucking couple on either side, and said,"Fuck me hard." I did. So, who knows? Where will the next turn take us. Whatever, Freedom Acres and the Sea Mountain Nude Spa certainly electrify our sex life.
  3. Deep throated for the 1st and 2nd time, I'm writing to share the awesome mind blowing experience with you. In particular, I'm writing for those of you who have never done this before. I'll tell you about the 1st time, which was wonderful, and then, hold on, read further, I'll tell you about the 2nd time, which blew my mind. A little background. We've been married 40 years. We have sex less often, but it seems that when we do have sex we think that it's better that ever. Sonja is adventuresome when it comes to trying new sexual things. She loves trying out new sex toys that I buy. Her favorite one is the sex swing that I bought a few months ago. Sonja doesn't want to "swing" but short of that we go to lifestyle clubs. She loves dancing really sexy, having me pull her boobs out of her dress and suck on them while dancing. One of her favorite things to do is to cum on the jets in the spa, and enjoys it the most when men are watching. Okay, now for the deep throat experience. I'd been surfing porn on the Internet. Viewing porn gets me horny for Sonja, and she loves good porn. Several days ago she asked me to find some porn with older people, not teenage Barbie Dolls. So, I'm surfing pornhub.com for mature and find this amateur video of a 40's something woman going down on a guy. I'm guessing his cock was at least 8". It was long. All you see is his cock and her from head to her shoulders. She smiles at the camera. Then she opens her mouth wide and slowly goes down on the cock. Down, down. I've seen plenty of porn where women are giving blow jobs, but none handled a cock like this. Sonja gives good head on me, but never anything like what this woman was doing in the video. She has his whole cock in her mouth and throat. Slowly, up and down. No gagging.No making faces. Just a delicious smile. He cums in her mouth and she continues taking the big cock all the way into her throat while cum runs out of her mouth and down the cock. That night to get into the mood for fucking, Sonja is wearing a top that shows off her boobs and drinking wine. I pull up the deep throat video on my laptop and start it up. Sonja watches intently. Keeps sipping the wine. Comments how incredible it is what the woman is doing. I turn off the computer. Sonja asks if I would like for her to try that on me. Absolutely. I stand up. Take off my shorts. My cock is half hard. Sonja gets down on her knees in front of me. I tell her she can't use her hands, just her mouth. She puts her hands behind me and lightly caresses my thighs as she opens her mouth and takes in my semi-hard cock. She sucks, licks. My cock gets hard. Then she opens her mouth as wide as she can and slowly puts her head towards me so that my cock is in her mouth, the back of her mouth, then her throat. With only about an 1 inch of my dick not in her mouth, she begins to suck, then pull back to just the tip, opens her mouth wide, and takes me almost all the way back in. For you guys who have had BJ's but never a real deep throat experience, believe me, it is nothing like a BJ. What I found interesting was that the pleasure was unlike anything I'd felt before but I didn't feel the urge to cum. After about 5 minutes, I told Sonja that I needed to fuck her. Before we got started she wanted to know how close she had come to getting me all in. I told her all but an inch. Then, Sonja gets on her back on the floor and puts her industrial grade vibrator to work. After several orgasms she tells me to fuck her hard. Now for the 2nd time. The next day I find on the Internet, it's amazing what you can find on the Internet, you wouldn't find this in a library, I find an honest to god 2 page guide on how to give "Deep Throat." I tell Sonja what I had found. She reads it with great interest. As the day goes on we talk about having a real fuck fest in the evening. Around 6 PM I get out our sex swing. Hang it from our open beam ceiling. We watch another porn video. Drink more wine. I describe for Sonja my plan for the evening. I will get in the sex swing. She will lie on the floor, use her vibrator on her clit, and when she starts to cum, take the dildo and fuck herself with it. She loves the idea. Now, I'm in the sex swing, lying back, my legs straight and out to the side, my cock resting but tensed for action. Sonja, starts the vibrator. Moves it against her clit. She closes her eyes, pulls at her nipples. Her breathing quickens. I'm loving it. Her body begins to convulse, shake. It goes on for at least 30 seconds. As the contractions ease, Sonja finds the dildo at her side, and slowing pushes it into her wet pussy. Now, with the dildo deep, she applies the vibrator again. My cock grows hard as a rock watching this. The shaking begins again and this time she begins fucking herself hard with the dildo, screaming while her orgasm increases in intensity. She relaxes her body on the carper. Sweat covers her tits and forehead. She opens her eyes and gives me a hungry look. We have a chair between my legs. Sonja sits down, grabs my ass in her hands, and picks up my cock with her lips. Slowly she takes me in. She licks and sucks on the tip of my cock. Then, pulls me further into her mouth with her hands on my ass. This is the sexiest, hottest view I've ever had. With her eyes she tells me that she wants my cock deep in her throat tonight. And, deeper my cock goes. Now it's in her throat. She sucks. Her throat muscles massage my cock. I thought last night was awesome. This feeling is incredible. The sucking, the massaging, goes on. Her hands squeezing my ass an keeping me pulled into her mouth. Where last night I thought she could do this indefinitely without me cumming, not tonight. I yell, "I'm going to cum." Rather than pull her mouth off my cock, Sonja intensifies what she is doing. Her way of saying, "Go ahead. I'm loving it." My orgasm is so intense I scream, and scream again. The more I shake and yell the more Sonja devours my cock. She is like an animal who hasn't eaten for days and now has a big piece of raw meat all to herself. I can't cum anymore. My cock goes limp in her mouth. She lifts her head. Smiles at me with her mouth closed while letting a tiny bit of cum run out of her mouth, over her lips, and down her chin. "I loved it," she says.
  4. My wife also refuses to share her fantasies. She regularly uses her vibrator when I'm not around. I've asked her what she fantasizes about when she is masturbating. Nothing, she says. "I just get into the feeling." Maybe so. I just need to get a vision in my head to cum. I'd thought that if she did have a fantasy, we might get to the point where she welcomed acting it out at a swing club. We do go to swing clubs. Both of us love the erotic atmosphere, and have great sex in the private rooms. When I've suggested having sex in the more open areas, she has said no. This is interesting to me because she loves to cum on the jacuzzi jets, and doesn't care how many people are in the hot tub. This situation changed on our last visit to the Sea Mountain Nude Spa in Desert Hot Springs. There were 8 couples in the spa pool. We had been drinking for several hours. My wife switched from sitting on my lap to facing the jet. She positioned herself on the jet and told me to play with her ass. While she worked the jet on her clit she looked around to see if people were watching. When she began to cum, I fucked her ass with my finger. After several powerful orgasms, she turned to me and said,"Did my ass like your finger?" "Oh yes," I said. Next she said,"All the guys were watching and smiling." She saw that the DJ was playing some club music in the playroom. "Let's go in there and dance," she said. As the beat became hotter, 3 couples laid down on the round bed. My wife pulled me down on the bed and pushed my head down between her legs. All of the other women were being eaten by their their partners. My wife was worked into a frenzy, and said, to my complete surprise, "Fuck me!" I quickly entered her. Looking at the other couples on the bed, I saw that all were fucking. What a turn on. My wife loved it. We went back to our room where she gave me a great blow job. We haven''t talked about this experience. She apparently likes to separate the reality of what she likes to do when she has a buzz from how she feels when sober. I just hope that our next trip to the Sea Mountain will bring us even more adventure.
  5. We love going to nudist resorts and getting naked at a nude beach, but does that make us "Nudists.?" I don't think so. I say this only because it seems that there is an ideology attached to the statement, " I am a nudist." You just think it feels great to be naked in the great outdoors, and that people should be free to recreate in the nude in certain places. It doesn't mean that we want to attend meetings naked.
  6. I've used Viagra and Cialis. My next test is with Levitra. I switched to Cialis because I felt that the Viagra wan't reliable. The Cialis seemed to be more of a guarantee that I wood get an erection when I wanted one, late in the evening after some tequila and hot dancing. However, I believe the real secret is taking the drug on an empty stomach, hours before eating, drinkinng, and partying. Also, have tried two of the Internet "natural" enhancers, found both to be totally ineffective. Both came with money back guarantees, and I got my money back.
  7. My wife gives great head but doesn't swallow. Doesn't bother me a bit. Several times she has sucked me off twice without spitting out my cum. I kinda like it when she finally lifts up her head and gives me this mouth closed smile before she spits it out.
  8. Sonja loves going to the club but has always said 'no' when it came to swinging with another couple. So, you can understand, the evening I'm about to describe came as a complete surprise to me. We've been going to the club for years. I had to talk Sonja into going but once she got a taste of the erotic atmosphere, she was the one that often said, 'Let's go to the club.' Still, she said that the allure of the club to her was the sexy atmosphere. She would never consider swinging. However, there were several times in the past when another guy asked her to dance and on the dance floor with the guy she rubbed her body against his. One time, a guy had her boob out and played with her nipple while they danced. But that came to nothing. I mentioned it to her when we were driving home. 'That guy was playing with your tits. Did you enjoy it?' 'I don't remember that. Are you sure?' And that's the way it went for a number of years. Still, in the back of my mind I remembered how Sonja was always hesitant when it came to sex but once she got a taste of it she loved it. When we were dating, she said that we wouldn't have sex until we were married, but we had pretty hot petting that was just short of fucking. Then one night, after we'd had a few drinks, I got into her pants. It wasn't anything spectacular. The next morning she said, 'Did you fuck me last night?' I said yes. She said that she felt I had taken advantage of her because she was drunk. However, later in the day, she asked if I had any rubbers on me. I said that I did but hadn't used them in the heat of passion last night. That evening, with no drinks, she said to me, ' I want you to fuck me now.' I did and she fucked like she was starved for it. And that's the way it has been. I suggest something new. She balks. We finally do it and she loves it. The first time I ate her pussy she said that she was disappointed in me and that I had taken advantage of her because she had a few drinks. The following evening she asked if she could suck my cock. So, that sets the scene. She says, 'No, I don't want to do it and then when she has had a taste, she craves it. Never the less, when it came to having sex with another man, she was adamant that wouldn't happen. I was reconciled to going to the club and enjoying the sexy atmosphere and the hot sex that Sonja put out after being on the dance floor for a few hours. The night that I'm going to describe to you took place after Sonja had lost about 20 pounds and was really proud of how great and sexy she looked. She wore to the club a tight black dress with a push up bra that shoved her great tits up into a position where they were begging to be kissed. We danced to the hot music. After we'd been at the club for a few hours, another couple asked if they could join us at our table. All the other tables were full. Sure, we said. After several sets, the guy asked Sonja if she would like to dance. She agreed and went onto the dance floor with him. That left the gal and me at the table. This situation has occurred several times in the past but I've always been too shy to ask if the woman wanted to play. This time was different. I'd made up my mind that if presented with this situation again, I'd be more assertive. Lucritia had her hand on my thigh. I put my hand between her legs. She widened them to give me access to her pussy. Wow, I thought. Where can I go with this? If Sonja isn't into this, the night will be over. While I caressed Lucretia's thighs and occasionally touched her shaved pussy, I saw that Sonja was enjoying her dance with Daniel. He had her tits out of her push up bra and was playing with one of her erect nipples with his fingers. I asked Lucretia to dance with me. We went out onto the dance floor and soon had Sonja between me and Daniel. Lucretia was behind me, dancing close and squeezing my cock in my trousers. I had taken a Viagra an hour before and my cock was swollen hard. I was behind Sonja and had my hands around her and on her tits. Daniel had moved his right hand down between her legs and Sonja was dry humping his fingers. Wow, how hot can it get? I thought. Is this the night? When the dance ended we went back to our table. Lucretia said, 'shall we get into the spa?' Sonja loves the spa and likes to cum on the jets. Had Lucretia suggested that we go to the party room and fuck, I'm sure that Sonja would have said no. But the spa was quite another thing. We went to the spa and disrobed. Sonja has always been reluctant to bare it all on the dance floor, but at a nudist resort or in the spa at the club, she readily gets naked. In the spa we talked for awhile. You know, small talk. Who you are? Where do you live? Then Sonja turned around to face the side of the spa and position herself over the jet. I was behind her as I always am when she wants to cum on the jets. As she pushed up against the jet, I played with her ass. When I could see that she was totally taken with the powerful jet against her pussy, I did something different. I climbed out of the spa and sat down in front of her so that she could suck my cock. We've done this at home in our own spa, but never at the club. She loves to have me cum in her mouth while she is coming on the jet. The added touch tonight was that I motioned for Daniel to get behind Sonja while she sucked my cock. When Sonja really gets into the orgasmic mood, the rest of the world disappears. Tonight was no different. She took no notice that Daniel was now behind her while she sucked on me and gyrated against the jet. I couldn't tell what Daniel was doing behind Sonja. I could see that his hands were under the water and appeared to be playing with Sonja's ass. But I could see that Sonja was coming to a peak. Her sucking became animal like. Up and down on my cock her head bobbed. I exploded into her mouth and she still kept sucking and rocking on my cock. Ordinarily, after I'd cum in her mouth, Sonja would look up with a grin, spit out my semen, and ask if it was good. Not tonight. She kept on sucking and now literally banging her pelvis against the wall of the spa. Finally, with my cock still in her mouth, a spasm shook her entire body. Sonja backed off from my cock and pushed Daniel's hand away from her ass. The whole time this was going on, Lucretia sat beside Sonja in the spa with a look of great envy. Well, that's it, so I thought. Sonja has cum and now she probably wants to go home. We'll pretend that she never knew that Daniel had been playing with her ass and who knows what else. Lucretia, though, had been left out of the fun and said, 'Let's go back to the play room.' I knew Sonja wouldn't go along with this suggestion, but, to my surprise, Sonja agreed. Walking back to the play room, Daniel and Lucretia were in front of us. Sonja said, 'I won't let him fuck me, but I would like to suck his cock while you fuck me. I was dripping with anticipation. A fantasy was about to come true. I'd like to have Daniel fuck Sonja and I fuck Lucretia, but fucking Sonja while she sucked Daniel's cock would be okay with me. Sonja's revelation didn't come as a complete surprise to me. There have been times when we've been drunk and screwing that I've told Sonja I'd like to watch her fuck another guy. She has always replied that she wouldn't do that but that she would like to hold another guy's cock while I fuck her. Well, we're about to do that. Except that she has already said that she'll suck Daniel while I fuck her. Daniel and Lucretia are an average looking couple. But, they do have a sense of humor and have shown that they are fun to be around. If I saw Lucretia on the street, I doubt if I'd get a hard on looking at her. Still tonight, her full lips and wet pussy that I've played with have made me very horny. In the play room, all of us drop our towels. Sonja looks like she has drifted into another world. How do you start this dance? We've never done this before. Sonja lies back on the mattress and I start to kiss her on the lips. My right hand drifts down to her crotch. Lucretia and Daniel are doing the same dance. My passion rises and I lose sight of what Daniel and Lucretia are doing. As I play with Sonja's pussy, I feel another hand. That hand, like mine, is pushing Sonja's pussy lips aside. Both hands are now at work in her pussy. I rise up to watch this work of hands. Lucretia takes this opportunity to start sucking on Sonja's nipples. Sonja is writhing on the mattress. I've never seen her so hot. After a few minutes of this attention from the three of us, she begins to say, 'Fuck me. Fuck Me.' I pull Daniel's hand away and get in position to shove my very hard cock into Sonja's dripping wet pussy. The whole scene is beyond description. I never thought I'd see this happen. I'm slamming my cock into Sonja and she is screaming, 'Fuck me. Fuck me harder.' Her hands are on my ass and she is pulling me into her. The heat of this scene is too much for me and I dump my load into her way before I feel like I'm finished. Even with Viagra, my cock is shrinking and Sonja is saying, 'No. No. I want to be fucked. Don't stop. Please don't stop.' But my dick is shriveled up and without my intention, it just comes out. Daniel, though, is there with his hard on. I'm out no sooner than he has pushed me aside and he is pushing his dick into Sonja's pussy. Sonja has her eyes closed and is saying, ' Yes, Yes. Keep fucking me. Fuck me harder. Oh yes, fuck me harder. Don't stop. Don't stop.' My eyes stare in awe at what is happening before me. Daniel is fucking Sonja. She doesn't seem to know it. She thinks it's me. Or, she is pretending that it's me. Lucretia is bent over Sonja's tits and is sucking first one then the other. I catch my breath and then take charge of one tit while Lucretia focuses on the other. Sonja rarely cums when I fuck her. She generally needs a vibrator to get her off. In the heat of this passion, though, I can feel her body begin to tense. She is going to cum. My god, she is going to cum. Her body is shaking. She is sweating like she was running a marathon. Her body becomes a series of spasms. Daniel jams harder as Sonja screams, ' Harder, harder.' Then it's over. Sonja must have cum several times. I've seen her do this on her vibrator but never from fucking. She lies there exhausted. Sweat glistens on her body. Poor Lucretia, Daniel is spent and so am I. She'll get none tonight. But she does look happy. Sonja opens her eyes and reaches out her arms to pull me down beside her. We snuggle and Daniel and Lucretia say goodbye and hope to see us again. On the way home, Sonja says, 'I don't want to do that again. It was great. But I really only want you inside of me.' Hmmm. I wonder. She said that the first time I fucked her. ‘I liked it,' she said, 'but I don't want to do it again until we're married.' Then the next night she fucked me like a mink. Who knows? Is this a onetime adventure or are more to come our way?
  9. Well, we've been to two clubs in California, Freedom Acres and the now closed Four Palms. Never heard of the towel thing. At Freedom Acres in the nightclub area people are 99 percent clothed. Afew women will get bare on occasion but have never seen a totally naked man in the nightclub area. Now, when you go to the spa or playrooms, you get naked or may wear a towel. There is absolutely no pressure to do anything and everyone is super polite.
  10. We've only been to two on premise swing clubs and loved both. Freedom Acres is the club we attend the most. Both Sonja and I agree that the people at FA are very respectful of your space. Of course we can't speak for every club, but our experience has been wonderful.
  11. My wife and I have made the same observation at the club, Freedo Acres, we go to the most. In fact, we think that the term "swinging" is outdated. It's too retro. We think that it keeps people away who would really enjoy the freedom without the hassle that you get at a place like Freedom Acres. It was the "swing" connotation that took a lot of talking on my part to get my wife to go. But now my wife is often the one who suggests we go to the club. We do not swap partners but we love the club, the erotic atmosphere, and have great sex there. In fact, I'm not so sure that my wife wouldn't go along with some playing with another couple under the right conditions. But the fact is that people respect your space at Freedom Acres.
  12. Before the Internet, I thought swinging went out with the 70's. Then. through early message boards I found that it not only existed but seemed to be growing. And then my mind was really blown when I learned there were places like Freedom Acres. I wanted to check it out. Sonja said that no way was she having sex with a man other than myself. But she does love having sex with me and really gets going when she is horny. Via some e-mail exchanges with people who had been to swing clubs, Sonja grew comfortable with the idea that we could go to Freedom Acres and have some great erotic fun without her being hassled or annoyed by guys who wanted a piece of her. But it took awhile for me to screw up the courage to make the required phone call as a couple to get interviewed and schedule a date for going to the club. Sonja was very skeptical about the whole thing but agreed to participate in the call and to go to FA. At the club we were amazed by the eroticism of the place and just as amazed at how polite and considerate everyone was. Near midnight, Sonja was worked up to a frenzy and was letting me take her breasts out of her dress and suck on them while we danced. To my surprise, she led me to the jacuzzi where she came repeatedly on the jets and then to one of the private rooms where we screwed. I have to admit that I wasn't much of a lay that night. Repeated erections while dancing and then the jacuzzi left me pretty limp. We've been going to clubs now for about five years. Sonja still doesn't want to add a couple to our play. But she is the one that often says,"Let's go to the club. I'm horny." The other night, during a long session of sex at home, God bless Viagra, Sonja said,"I'd like to have a guy suck my tits while you fuck me but he can't put his dick in me." Well that hasn't happened yet, I don't even know how to make it happen. But we've come a long ways and it all began with exchanging information with other people on the Internet.
  13. Size isn't just about how it feels in the vagina, it's about looks, too. Most men like to see big boobs but big boobs don't have anything to do with how well a woman can screw. By the same token, many women love to see a big cock. I know I do. I like it even better when they're dripping with excitement. But I know that once that cock is inside me, it's how the man fucks me and not the size that matters. Sonja
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