So my partner and I have been in an open relationship but are thinking of seeing how swinging is for us. In the past, we've had procedures about safer sex where we always use condoms for oral, vaginal, and anal sex. We get tested twice a year and like to exchange recent test results with new partners. This is on the careful side of what is pretty standard practice among the non-monogamous folks we know.
But as I've been reading these forums, it seems like that's not at all normal for swingers. Would asking about test results with new partners be considered rude here? What safer sex precautions do most of you practice?