Suburbanites

We have not been there, but we have heard very good things about it from other couples, especially that it's very nice and CLEAN! Have been to other unnamed clubs in Chicagoland that are atrocious. And don't get me started on buffets . . .

I would be interested to know a little more about this, and why you feel this way.

CandA, you've received some very gentle, patient responses above. Consider yourself lucky for not getting flamed. But I'm a little curious as to what makes YOU such an "alpha" male. Are you a starting quarterback in the NFL, or did you play a little football twenty years ago in high school? Do you file a seven-figure tax return every year? Can you bench press 500 pounds? Do you have a ten inch cock? You said you were plugging away at the wrong job for over ten years - doesn't that fact make you a somewhat of a beta male? Personally, we do actually enjoy MFM's, but we have to laugh sometimes at the number of "alpha" males that are so lacking in self-awareness that they are downright delusional. And don't get me started on "male-led households." If my daughter ever comes home with a guy like that, he'll be promptly run over by this beta male's Prius.

All great advice above, and I have no position for or against sex workers, but the CPA in me would say that you're probably not getting a very good deal. The whole sugar babies thing implies that they just don't want a glass of milk - they want to keep milking the cow. Probably the best advice here would come from Charlie Sheen - "I don't pay girls for sex. I pay them to leave." Maybe your husband should take that advice.