Hello guys, long time reader. I'm the male half of a happily married couple. I enjoy reading the posts here from time to time. I enjoy some of the posts but other posts scare me.
My wife and I have been married for 13 years. We have always been faithfull and have a very trusting relationship. Our sex life is good, not as frequent as we would like, but fun.
Over the last 3-4 years I have had the fantasy of sharing my wife with another man. The fantasy developed slowly, at first I dismissed it because it freaked me out a little. When I first told her she was against it and it freaked her out a little as well.
Over the years we have discussed it many times. Some times it playes out during sex and we both enjoy it. She has opened up to the idea and it turns her on as well. Occasionally I will write long stories where she gets to enjoy two men. The tall tales really turn her on.
We are at the point where she has agreed that she would do it. In fact, we were talking to friends about swinging one night and she openly admitted to that she would enjoy having sex with two men at once.
Just the fact that she likes the idea is a turn on for me. However, we have not taken any steps what so ever to pursue an adventure. We have decided that a stranger would be best to avoid any problems afterwards. If it didn't work out, then we don't lose a friend. Plus, it gives us more privacy.
I am not a jealous man. I enjoy watching her flirt and she knows it. She has flashed her breasts and this turns me on. I love it when she dresses in revealing clothing and guys make comments. Her confidence has grown since we first met and this has allowed her to show more cleavage than ever before.
My biggest fear is that one of us will chicken out during the act or I will suddenly freak out once I actually see another man inside her. I also fear that one or both of use will have huge regrets afterwards.
We dipped our toes into the water one night after a party when another couple stayed behind. She sat between us two guys on a couch while he rubbed her pussy through her jeans and massaged her breasts under her bras while I kissed her. Both me and his wife cheered him on. In fact, she took a pic of the action that was quickly deleted.
She let him do it for maybe 10 seconds before he pulled away and we laughed it off. I know it wasn't any form of a threesome but it did validate the fact that seeing another man touch her turns me on.
The other couple are friends and they both know of my fantasy to share my wife. They have enjoyed a couple of FFM threesomes so I know it didn't bother his wife to see him touch mine. I must admit, it still gives me an erection thinking about it. Even though we all had a good time, we have no interest in having a sexual relationship with them. I think that night things got a little crazy and we had some stupid drunk fun. We have since been with the same couple but nothing happened other than a little flirting.
That is about it in a nutshell. Sorry for such a long post.
I think we may be ready but why rush things. We both agree that it may probably happen some day, when and if everything falls into place.
At least we can both enjoy the fantasy with no risks.