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About breakfast4four

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  • Birthday 05/12/1965

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    Thumb, Michigan
  1. Thanks to everyone for replying. I certainly appreciate that everyone will react to this situation differently. What works for me and mine might not work for you and yours. Here's what we decided as a couple to avoid an issue going forward. First, when it's the first time with a new couple and most certainly if one or the other is feelig the least bit concerned as was the case that night we play same room only. We like to tryto be flexible for couples who prefer separate room only but in this case I would insist same room for that first time or no playtime occurs. Secondly, I get that many men experience this. I'm not a new is to the situation. I am new to having the other female seem disinterested and unconcerned by what was happening with her husband. Apparently unbeknownst to me it's happened a few times in a row before that night and they already had a game plan set up. However their game plan would not have been our game plan.if the situation was reversed and it was my husband I would have gone over to the bed and very slyly madeit girltime Since I know she was bi and she showed an interest and desire for girl time. This always perks up my man when issues have occurred. So that would be what I would do because it also gets me in earshot of my husband and I can whisper a keyword we use when in need. All of this of course is what would or does work for us individually and as a couple. In the end if I offended the male by asking my spouse for assistance in including me? Well I'd feel badly but going home on a positive note win my husband is more important than any lay.
  2. If two couples are playing and one of the guys has problems getting or staying hard, should everything stop for the purpose of allowing the ladies to assist the male in need of some assistance? Or should the couple having no issues be allowed to continue while the other couple attempt to save the evening? In my mind, I feel (and have in the past with my own spouse) come over and either played with the female (which in my experience gets all the men worked up lol) or offered to help my husband along with things I know he definitely enjoys. I never leave him until I know he's 'good to go' and if I can't arouse him then I will beg of on some alone time to reassess the situation and be certain he's interested in trying again or calling it a night. I ask because recently this situation occurred for us. Unfortunately, even though my husband was fully aware that something was amiss on our bed in the hotel room, he was enjoying himself so much with the other lady he simply could not stop to address mine obvious situation. Also, I was a bit disappointed in the other female as I would never put another male above the needs of my own husband. My husband feels awful that he didn't stop and check in. But it got me wondering. What does everyone else normally do in this situation???
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