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A big Swingers Board welcome goes out to all the new members who took
the time to introduce themselves this past week: 4myhunny, hotcpl069,
usnbend, Dienekes, bohun, remiered, imfreeman3, misterbee,
swinger2008, luv2try, RM_93, nauticouple, caprablack, swingorbust,
orlgasmic1, mdcpl4swing, yhungry, mrs69, metalcoat, j_noff2000,
twisted2828, SBharleycpl, karaokesinger, more_more_more, loveme38,
debandsteve03, peachesncream, cherylgirl, KingOllie, SecretAsianMan,
cutesexy_drew, PretyHateMachin, the_other_man, fircracker_4_2,LoveUbye,
mywifeforyoumi, soft parade, hornycouple420, Swingtown,
SlfRighteous1, Damini&Down, real4us, SoftSkin, jlff, jakesteeded,
want2tryus?, LetsDoThatAgain, Dee612, Yumyum, funman, OhioNewComers,
yogee, tryitonce, Durandal and Katze30..
In
"Hello, thank you, and
I need advice/help
QUICK", sweetsexyCTclp
posted that even
thought the female
half has experience
with swinging, the
male half does not and
they are on the verge
of their first
swinging experience
together. He is very
nervous, excited and
scared and would like
to know what to expect
his first time. In
"Good on Phone, but
a-hole in person?",
4myhunny posted that
she is worried that
even if they were to
hit it off with
someone through emails
and phone
conversations that
they might wind up
being an a-hole in
person. She asked how
many have had people
sound great on the
phone but were
horrible in person. In
"Troubleshooting",
caprablack posted that
they are interested
and curious about
swinging and wonder
what is the best
avenue for a young 20
something discreet
couple to enter
swinging. In "Need
Help", swingorbust
posted that they are
new to swinging and
have a few questions,
a couple of which are,
how do you find local
swingers and how do
you select a couple.
In "First Meeting
EVER!", loveme38
posted that they are
meeting a couple for
the first time and it
will also be their
first time meeting any
couple. They asked
what should they
expect and do you just
chat and wait for a
conversation to arrive
or just see where the
hormones take you. In
"One has to be dragged
to swinging, but they
you can't drag them
home", hungry3luv
posted that he came
across a funny saying
about it was the
husband who drags the
wife into swinging and
the wife is te one who
has to be dragged
home. He wonders what
everyone thinks about
the truth in this
statement. In "My wife
has a theory", hubnher
posted that his wife
has a theory that it
would be safer to
attend a local club as
it would seem that
most of the local
swingers go to the
club further away. He
wonders what others
think of this.
In "How to start with
wife?", nforcerx.x
posted that he would
like to swing with his
wife and is looking
for tips on how to
suggest it to her. In
"Shaking the
foundations of a
relationship",
cplnuswing asked those
who are curious about
swinging but concerned
it could shake the
foundation and
permanently alter
their relationship,
what way would it
alter it. In "Is this
a sign?", JoCoCpl
posted that fortune
cookies he and his
wife received after
their dinner foretold
of them having new
friends in their life
and something
different coming,
which they found
interesting and weird
as they will be
spending the weekend
with friends and there
has been talk that it
might lead to their
first experience. In
"Wife open to swinging
while in the head of
the moment",
lovingscots posted
that in the heat of
the moment his wife is
open to swinging but
closes down
afterwards. He would
like suggestions on
helping her along to
be open about it. In
"Question?", lb4u1952
posted that he is a
single male in his
late 50s and wonders
if he is too old to be
included in swinging.
In "Letting the wife
fly solo", eve99
posted that his wife
has made contact with
an old boyfriend whom
she will be staying
the night at his house
while traveling, he
wonders if it's a good
idea to let her play
alone with him or not.
In "Need some Expert
advice. Looking to
start swinging",
Moose998 posted that
his wife brought up
the idea of swinging
and that she would
like a FMF threesome,
he would like to watch
her with another man
and wonders if he
should take it slow
and have a threesome
with another woman and
see if would lead to
bringing in another
couple for both of
them to enjoy.
In "Being bad?", mrs69
posted that her and her
husband have been swinging
for a couple of years but,
she has been meeting the
women of the couples they
have been playing with alone
and her husband does not
know about it. In "Too much
text messaging?", laprincess
posted that her and her
boyfriend have found a
female for a third but, she
is concerned that the other
woman may be too interested
in him as she is constantly
text messaging him. She
wonders what the normal
rules are for this and if
she should be concerned.
Newlythree said, "We went to
the party", and had a good
time however, while in a
room with two other couples
for play, they felt it was
more like a sports event
than an erotic one and
asked, how can you raise the
sexual tension in group
play. In "Issues with my
friend who is playing
without her husband",
lil_darlin posted that a
friend of her's seems to be
talking a lot and seeing the
male half of a couple that
they have played with, this
concerns her because her
friend's husband does not
know what she is doing and
she feels by introducing her
to their play couple
friends, she has encouraged
her to cheat on her husband.
She's not sure what to do.
In "Cumming in her mouth",
ktimephoenix wonders how do
the guys handle letting a
woman know that he's about
to come when he's receiving
a blow-job. In "Having a
couple over after the
toddler goes to bed?",
newbieswinger wonders how
others view swinging while a
toddler is in the house
asleep.
In "Ladies, Do You Watch
Your Man?", mrfunfan
posted that his enjoys
thinking about and
watching his wife have fun
with other men however,
she does not like watching
him or thinking about him
having fun with other
women, he wonders if other
women feel this way and if
so does it change or do
you really like watching
your man. In "Swinging
disaster", mywifeforyoumi
posted that with her
husband's permission, she
stayed the night with man
that told her it was okay
with his wife as she was
going to be away, she
later found out that his
wife knew nothing about it
and is now threatening to
divorce him. She has
apologized to the wife but
wonders if there is
anything else she should
do. In "Why can't some
understand", 2bares4u
wonders why some can't
understand that they don't
want to play with black
people. In "Crying after
orgasm", nhcpl1968 asked
if it is normal for some
women to cry after an
orgasm. In "Should I warn
him and if so...how?",
awesomecplmn posted that
they have a date with a
couple coming up and she
wonders if she should warn
the man that she is a
squirter or just let it
happen. In "House
Parties", bill_n_lana
posted that they were
invited to a house party
by a couple they have
played with many times.
During the evening, while
she was talking to the
hostess, the hostess told
her she had a problem with
her husband and didn't
really want to play with
him, she's not sure why
they would have invited
them to their party if
they had a problem with
them. In "Co-Workers",
Swingtown posted that his
wife has a colleague at
work who has made hints of
his interest in kinky sex,
they wonder if it's a good
idea to invite him to join
them in some play. In
"How to Respond",
JustAskJulie posted that
while they were at a club,
the met another couple
they discovered they had
met before and had decided
not to play with due to
the fact the other couple
was married but not to
each other. While in
polite conversation with
this couple, they were
told that problem was
solved so, they spent some
time with the couple only
to find out later that the
problem wasn't solved.
Now, this couple has
emailed them on SLS
stating enjoyed spending
time with them. They are
not sure if they should
respond to this couple
telling them why they
really don't want to see
them anymore or just
ignore the email.
In "Kinkier than thou",
socolais posted that he feels
we each have our own unique
definition of kinky. He asked,
what are your kinks that sound
exciting to try when the time
is right. Interested-05
asked, "what mistake outed
you?", what mistakes have
people made that have outed
them and how do you avoid the
same mistakes. In "Swinging
in Television-compiling a
list", JustAskJulie posted
that she is trying to compile
a list of television episodes
that feature or mention
swinging as well as movies and
asked for help in listing
shows and episode titles. In
"Movies about swinging?",
hungry4luv asked if anyone
knew of any movies that
portrayed swinging in a
positive light. In "Do
swingers have a higher libido
than nonswingers?", iapr
wonders if you think in
general that swingers have a
higher libido than nonswingers
on a per capita basis and do
you think that there is a
public perception that we are
hornier and more sexual in
nature than vanillas.
SW_PA_Couple asked, "What is
your greatest difference in
age for a sex partner?",
what's the greatest age
separation between you and a
sex partner.
In "Funny thought",
bbarnsworth posted that he
has a sarcastic sense of
humor and while thinking
about being in bed with a
couple where the male half
is quite tall and he was
going down on the other
males wife, asking him 'How
you grow so big eating food
of this kind'. In "Are you
Lucky in swinging?",
JustAskJulie asked, do you
consider yourself luck in
swinging and do things just
seem to work out. In "I have
no idea where to put this",
mr_n_mrs_oz posted that her
and her husband are trying
to conceive and wonders if
it's a good idea to risk
swapping. In "Progressing
sideways", newlythree posted
that due to some less than
enjoyable experiences her
and her husband have decided
to slow down and be a bit
more picky with the partners
they choose as up until now,
she has not been having a
good time in swinging. In
"What is drama???",
newlythree posted that she
is having a hard time
grasping the concept of the
no drama in swinging. She
has encountered a few women
who seem to complain about
their husbands prior
relationships and personal
issues which to her
constitutes drama and
wonders if her expectations
of what is acceptable
conversation is too high. In
"Am I jaded?", sexcupid
wonders if anyone else ever
wonders if there are couples
involved in the lifestyle to
just 'pawn off' their
partners on others. In
"Protecting your private
pics/photos", 2insandiego4u
posted a link to a site that
could possibly help you with
this type of protection for
your computer. In "Swinging
and Politics", amid wonders
how most swingers feel about
mixing/talking politics with
other swingers. In "MrsVan
just can't keep a straight
face", VanHlebar posted
about two different
situations where his Mrs's
was having a hard time
controlling her facial
features and laughter that
when certain things were
brought up about swinging in
a non-swinging situation. He
wonders if anyone else has
the same problem. In "Any
Photographers out
there...question for you",
LoveUbye wonders if anyone
has any suggestions for an
on-line printing studio that
specializes in nudes.
In "Have you ever wondered what it would be like to
just stumble upon just the right couple?", cocpl2007 posted that
they have been actively looking for just the right couple but feel
that they are looking for something that not many fellow lifestylers
are and wonder if there are other couples out there who limit their
play to one or two couples. Newbieswinger said, "It's been two days
and I can't email on SLS", and asked if this is normal being a free
member and how long before you're not new anymore and can send
email. JustAskJulie posted a poll question in, "What's the bonus
for you?", what is your swinging priority, friendship first with sex
the bonus or sex first with friendship the bonus.
In "Regular SINGLE Playmates", 2insandeigo4u would like to hear from
couples who have a regular single playmate, male or female, about
how it's been, if there are any problems and if you'd do it again.
In "Single women", jlff posted that she is a single woman and would
like to go to a club but feels nervous about it and asked any of the
single women on her if they could give her some advice. In "Seducing
a vanilla single female (as a couple)?", CallMeLoki is looking for
effective ways that he and his wife could seduce a single vanilla
female. In "The Single Male - Swinger??", SecretAsianMan wonders
what is it that differentiates a single male in the lifestyle from
any other red-blooded male looking for a sex partner.
In "Female ejaculation = pain", an
Unregistered Guest posted that after her and her
husband try having her achieve a squirting orgasm, she
has pain the next day, she wonders if anyone else has
experienced this. In "To tell or not to tell?",
odwalla wonders if someone told you they had had an
MRSA infection would you avoid them like the plague,
even after they were healed and if you had this
infection, would you tell a play partner. In "Group B
Strep", K&JIntimates wonders if you knew you were a
carrier of a bacteria like Group B Strep would you or
should you inform potential play partners. In "Couple
admitted positive - now what?", des1re06 posted that a
couple admitted they were positive for genital warts,
she wonders if you would advise your immediate play
group to avoid them, since they're obviously not
taking themselves out of the game and are still
showing up at swing events. In "Condom dangers",
PaulKing posted some studies that he feels prove
condoms are dangerous to use. VegasLee posted a
poll question in "Would you go to a club that required
STD Testing".
TM
06-08-2008 until 07-09-2010
