This weeks member is JandC78

[LFM2]

This week's Member of the Week is JandC78. We are glad to have them in the spotlight this week. You can view their profile in the link. Sorry, I put it up a day late!!

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[JandC78]

Sorry, I am a little behind too.

a little about us.

I am the male half, I mainly post on the site. I am 35, she is 32

We are located in West Central Indiana, have been married for 12 years, and are new to the lifestyle. We are a same room swap couple.

So far our biggest pet peeve had been getting contacted by people that either turn out to not be what they claim, or are 1,000 miles away and telling us how sorry they are they are so far away, after talking to them for a few days.

We really started talking about swinging about 6-8 months ago, then never really did anything to test the waters. Just talked alot and really got to understand how each other felt about different things. Then we decided to start talking to people and see if we hit it off with anyone, which we did and meet up with and had a wonderful time.

We got to do somethings that we could not have done alone, and have a few more things that we are really hoping to get to do.

If you want to know more, just ask, I will try to get on here in the morning and later in the afternoon for the next week.

JandC

[bbarnsworth]

Who brought up swinging first, and how did that conversation go?

[JandC78]

Originally Posted by bbarnsworth

Who brought up swinging first, and how did that conversation go?

You know to tell you the truth, I can not say. It almost seems like it was a mutual thing. We were driving and talking and texting and the idea of bringing other people into our sex lifes just kind of came up. I think the fact that neither of us really knows who brought it up first is what is making it work for us.

There was a little nervousness from both of us as we talked, but after a couple of days, and some searching online we really had some fun, then stopped looking for a couple months and thought about things. When we talked again about it we both knew that we wanted to at least try. There was still some nervous going when we meet someone, but after talking to them for hours, we were ready and just went for it.

[LFM2]

I think I ask more vanilla questions than swinging questions.

Do you two grow a garden?

What kind of movies do you like?

[JandC78]

Do you two grow a garden?

No not at this time.

What kind of movies do you like?

The wife hates movies, if she watches half a dozen in a year I would be shocked. I on the other hand will watch just about anything, but prefer war and action movies.

[fun4Ds]

What music do each of you listen to or favor, artist or song ?

Favorite foods ?


Fun4ds

[SW_PA_Couple]

Have you children?

[SecretAsianMan]

Favorite hobby (outside of swinging & sex)?

Favorite swinging / sex activity?

Favorite unfulfilled fantasy??

[JandC78]

What music do each of you listen to or favor, artist or song ?

She listens to mainly Pop, and some country.

I am into more 80s music and some country.



Favorite foods ?

Probably have to be Chinese, and Pizza for both of us.

[JandC78]

Originally Posted by SW_PA_Couple

Have you children?

We have a total of 5 children of all ages. and one grandkid.

[JandC78]

Originally Posted by SecretAsianMan

Favorite hobby (outside of swinging & sex)?

Favorite swinging / sex activity?

Favorite unfulfilled fantasy??

I am a computer person, so I spend a lot of my spare time on one, and when not doing that I like to watch movies. She mainly just like hanging with the kids and going shopping.


I would have to say, I like group play. She does too, when she is the center of attention.


I would have to say, I would like a 3-4 couples group play session with everyone touching everyone else. She would like to have 3-4 guys at the same time. Like I said, she likes to be the center of attention.

[bbarnsworth]

If someone asked the two of you five years ago (or, some years before the first conversation about swinging between the two of you) what you thought about swinging, what would have been your (both of you) reaction?

[SW_PA_Couple]

Originally Posted by JandC78

We have a total of 5 children of all ages. and one grandkid.

I am impressed by this. Five children and you still have time for yourselves. Wonderful!

I'm glad you were the Swingersboard members of the week.

~Michael

[JandC78]

Originally Posted by bbarnsworth

If someone asked the two of you five years ago (or, some years before the first conversation about swinging between the two of you) what you thought about swinging, what would have been your (both of you) reaction?

Really, I am not sure, the thought has always been there. I honestly think that if we had the open communication back then that we do today, We probably would have started back then.