Member of the Week -- Rahul_Neekita

[LFM2]

This week's Members of the Week is Rahul_Neekita. We are glad to have them in the spotlight this week.

Swingers Board interviews are a way for us to get to know each other better. It is a way to acknowledge just how wonderfully varied a community we are. Every Sunday, a new interview will start and the old interview will be locked. Be sure to stop in and get to know them better by asking them every nosy, intimate, personal question you can think of.

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We'll start each interview with a few overview questions to get things started:

Gender (if not a couple):
If a couple, which one primarily posts:
Age(s):
Birthday(s):
Location:
Relationship status:
Swinging for how long?:
Prefer to swing with:
Biggest Pet Peeve:
Brief Intro:
Picture (if you feel comfortable sharing one):
Website (your own or one of your favorites)

[Rahul_Neekita]

Hi, all, We are thankful to Julie and whole SB team for extending us a chance to be interviewed.
Gender (if not a couple):
If a couple, which one primarily posts: Male Part-Rahul
Age(s): Rahul is 37 and Neekita is 34
Birthday(s): Rahul was born on some day of Oct. Neekita of Jan.
Location: City: Any City, State: Gujarat Country: India
Relationship status: Married
Swinging for how long?: Know the concept for last 2 years, but experience in swinging is NIL.
Prefer to swing with: Intelligent, Down to earth, Educated, Gentle and Clean couple.
Biggest Pet Peeve:
Brief Intro: We are well educated, both in Job, good in look, down to earth, gentle and couple who can laugh innocently on any silly/funny matter. We have 2 lovely kids. YES, we do know about the swinging concept for last 2 years, but have not yet succeeded in finding a good pair of our age group yet. But still we are eager to make a leap. We feel stuck in hard liner social conservativeness and twin faces towards sexual matters here, so it is seems very difficult to indulge ourselves in swinging. If any couple of foreign region traveling to India, we would like to advice them to be in contact with us, so that we could make it.
Picture (if you feel comfortable sharing one): Sorry.
Website (your own or one of your favorites): Swingersboard.com

[sweet_tna]

Hi, thanks for taking a turn in the spotlight this week.

What are your hobbies?


=)

[Rahul_Neekita]

Hobbies particularly of Rahul are: Being an engineer, YES technical matters, Technology, freak of gadgets, stick and surf on net, world political affairs and YES having interest to know about some/few undisclosed but powerful countries and their histories like former USSR, Chinese Mainland, Iran, North Korea etc.
For Neekita: Reading stories, Novels, Crafts and designing, Travel, to watch discovery and National Geographic TV. She loves to make delicious Indian dishes.

[bellsandwhistle]

How did you meet?

[lizandtom]

Having no experiences yet, what do you think your ideal swing experience may be and what interests you both about the lifestyle?

[JustAskJulie]

Have you ever been to the US?

If you were each to ever write a book, what the book be about?

[Alura]

I was in India in 1971, unfortunately just before the war with Pakistan, so my stay was cut short. After about six weeks in Kashmir I had to start back to Europe.

Where did you two study? Have you traveled outside India? What is your opinion of the Temple of Love at Agra?

Mr. Alura

[Rahul_Neekita]

Originally Posted by bellsandwhistle

How did you meet?

Our marriage story might be quite interesting to you. Here it is:

Her parents talked to my parents through mediator in June 1996 and proposed to meet for having a look at each other, means I and Neekita. After 2 weeks we all went to her city and stayed at her home for half a day, taken lunch there. My and her elders talked with each other, I and Neekita meet each other at her home, talked for a while about our interests and some silly matters (I think so now). Then we came back to our home and after a month I consented to marry Neekita. On my consent, our engagement fixed by our parents, It took place on date some date of Aug. 1996. Then we started and enjoyed meeting each other once/month and lot of talking on telephone everyday. However she was not allowed to move alone outside with me and also no allowed to talk much with me on phone. Finally we got married on date some day of 1997. This is called arranged marriage, Most Indian weddings takes place by following such procedure. Now from few years, Boy and girl make an affair and get married, after too much opposition from elders of both OR their consent, whatever it might be.

[Rahul_Neekita]

Originally Posted by lizandtom

Having no experiences yet, what do you think your ideal swing experience may be and what interests you both about the lifestyle?

Hi, Good question. Nice to meet you.
Having no experience yet, we think that our ideal swing experience might be in future with some good couple like you (What I felt by reading your interview), and yes it might start with soft acts. Because hard liner activities might not be possible for Neekita. But we think that once we get chance and successfully got into full swinging, We may continue it with our full efforts.

We are interested in meeting peoples from various parts of the world. Mean, we do not want to keep our involvement in the lifestyle confined to 1-2 couples from local, but I think we must meet lifestyle people from all race and region of the world.

[Rahul_Neekita]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

Have you ever been to the US?

If you were each to ever write a book, what the book be about?

Hi, Julie, Thanks again for considering us:
No, we have never been to US.

About book writing:
We never thought of writing a book, but the answer would be:
Rahul: About anything you say.
Neekita: About anything you say.

[Rahul_Neekita]

Originally Posted by Alura

I was in India in 1971, unfortunately just before the war with Pakistan, so my stay was cut short. After about six weeks in Kashmir I had to start back to Europe.

Where did you two study? Have you traveled outside India? What is your opinion of the Temple of Love at Agra?

Mr. Alura

Nice to see you Mr. Alura and happy to know that you were in India. Do you know?, Once upon a time, the Kashmir was called "Heaven of the India". But now terrorists from Pakistan have ruined all image and completely disturbed the god's beautiful creature. However now it is being protected by Govt. expending much and many tourist started to tour their since last few years.

Rahul studied in engineering college in state Gujarat and Neekita studied in science college in state Gujarat. We never travelled outside india.
My opinion about Temple Of Love at Agra (It is called "TajMahal") is it is the best human created Temple in the world by Mughal Emporer Shahjahan in the memories of his beloved Mumtaz. Its the best piece of Muslim and Hindu Influenced artwork crafted in marble (Sangemarmar).

[Alura]

My memory is faded. I wasn't thinking of the Taj Mahal, but of a "Love Temple" which has sculptures throughout showing people in sexual positions, twosomes, threesomes and moresomes. I believe it's quite ancient. Perhaps it's in another city?

Kashmir is one of the most beautiful places I've seen in the world. Dal lake was wonderful, the water crystal clear. No motorboats were allowed in the area where the houseboats were. We were only able to travel around the lake by shikara (Sp?). It was wonderful, though, to slip silently along the lagoons created by the rectangular man-made islands with the trees forming a tunnel overhead, sipping green tea and thinking we were in heaven.

What part of India do you live in? I saw little except New Delhi, the Punjab, Jammu and Kashmir. I'd love to return when there was no threat of war.

Mr. Alura

[SW_PA_Couple]

Do you like to go out together to see movies? If so, name a few recent that you liked.

~Michael

[Rahul_Neekita]

Originally Posted by Alura

My memory is faded. I wasn't thinking of the Taj Mahal, but of a "Love Temple" which has sculptures throughout showing people in sexual positions, twosomes, threesomes and moresomes. I believe it's quite ancient. Perhaps it's in another city?

Kashmir is one of the most beautiful places I've seen in the world. Dal lake was wonderful, the water crystal clear. No motorboats were allowed in the area where the houseboats were. We were only able to travel around the lake by shikara (Sp?). It was wonderful, though, to slip silently along the lagoons created by the rectangular man-made islands with the trees forming a tunnel overhead, sipping green tea and thinking we were in heaven.

What part of India do you live in? I saw little except New Delhi, the Punjab, Jammu and Kashmir. I'd love to return when there was no threat of war.

Mr. Alura

Yes, Your memory missed somewhat, but still you remember the most about your living here in india, which is appreciable. Tajmahal is a sign of Shahjahan's intimate love towards Mumtaz. The love temple you mentioned is called "Khajuraho". This place is in state Madhya Pradesh. You may search and find lot through Google.
YES, Dal lake is very wonderful place, and you written correctly "Shikara".
We live in State Gujarat (Western India). Our state is very progressive state in terms of industrialization. Regarding threat of war, I would like to clarify that, there is no threat of war in India at all. However recently, Bombay terrorist attack was horrible, but it may not be a reason for any tourist desirous to coming to India, because, overall it is safe and nice place to see. We always welcome tourist. In spite of being a nuclear power and reached to moon, you may see our leaders always talking about piece, That is our humbleness. We again would like repeat our invitation to come to India and enjoy India.