Member of the Week -- lizandtom

[slevin]

Since you're in NY; have you seen the movie American Swing?

Also, my favourite members interview question: what does it take for a couple who's interested in you to get you naked?

[lizandtom]

Originally Posted by slevin

Since you're in NY; have you seen the movie American Swing?

Also, my favourite members interview question: what does it take for a couple who's interested in you to get you naked?

We might have seen it a few years ago, not sure. From your mentioning it we just put it on the Netflix que. We actually made it to Plato's Repeat in Lauderdale for two years (a few times) before they shut it down as a couples club.

For your second question if there's mutual attraction and a comfort level then we're good to go and it can be instant. I think while at one of the LT&T conventions at the Stardust in Vegas before they tore it down, our record from meeting new people at the pool party to all 8 of us hitting a room was 15 minutes. Then again it was 115 deg's in the sun, so any excuse for A/C was good enough ... j/k.

[2inSanDiego4u]

Do you prefer MFM, FMF or MFMF, and why?

[lizandtom]

Originally Posted by 2inSanDiego4u

Do you prefer MFM, FMF or MFMF, and why?

Out of the choices above we'd have to say MFMF because we're both into the sex equally. Liz is bi depending on the chem with the girl but her preference is men so she likes to keep very occupied, and I like to keep very occupied with women, so another couple works best for us. In a MFM there's the potential for me to get a bit bored, and in a FMF there's the potential for Liz to get bored. On more than one occasion we've hosted a girl and after an hour or two, Liz grew a little bored and went to do something else like watch TV or read a book so I just had some additional fun with the girl; there wasn't any drama or ill will, Liz just prefers men.

After experiencing different setups, together we prefer couples (1,2 or more), but when it comes to singles we prefer to utilize a hall pass, although it's very infrequent.

[bellsandwhistle]

What is the best MFMF position you have had the pleasure to experience?

[lizandtom]

Originally Posted by bellsandwhistle

What is the best MFMF position you have had the pleasure to experience?

Perhaps due to how recent it was and still fresh in the memory, we stopped off in S Carolina this past February during a road trip to FL to visit a couple who moved there, that we met met through friends about 2 years ago in NY. This couple fit us like a glove both personality and attraction wise. We lined up a sitter and they picked us up where we went for dinner and drinks. From there we got a room and the M 1/2 of the couple made sure to get a suite with 2 bedrooms. This was ideal because we were both completely focused on our playmates and the chemistry was overwhelming to the senses.

If you literally meant 'position,' I'd have to respond 'all of them' lol.

[bellsandwhistle]

Originally Posted by lizandtom

Perhaps due to how recent it was and still fresh in the memory, we stopped off in S Carolina this past February during a road trip to FL to visit a couple who moved there, that we met met through friends about 2 years ago in NY. This couple fit us like a glove both personality and attraction wise. We lined up a sitter and they picked us up where we went for dinner and drinks. From there we got a room and the M 1/2 of the couple made sure to get a suite with 2 bedrooms. This was ideal because we were both completely focused on our playmates and the chemistry was overwhelming to the senses.

If you literally meant 'position,' I'd have to respond 'all of them' lol.

LOL! I like your answer to both.Thanks for sharing.

[sahajacpl]

What made you get into the swinging lifestyle in the first place and who initiated the idea-him or her?

[lizandtom]

Originally Posted by sahajacpl

What made you get into the swinging lifestyle in the first place and who initiated the idea-him or her?

Intuition that she was bi curious, so suggested a vacation to Hedo 3. We've always been very sexual and she knew about H3, so instantly said sure, lets go. It's a natural extension of who we both are

[Chitowndk4u]

What is your advice for couples looking to get into this lifestyle?

[lizandtom]

Originally Posted by Chitowndk4u

What is your advice for couples looking to get into this lifestyle?

Hi, as rudimentary as it would seem, first define 'couples looking to get into this lifestyle.' What I mean by that is, there is a HUGE difference between both a M and F both curious about the lifestyle and how to start, versus one member having the curiosity and projecting or fantasizing that the other may too.

If you both have spoken about it and clearly communicated what it is you're interested in seeing, doing, as well as emotional ramifications, then the next step would be an outcome of you two putting your heads together and getting on the same page.

i.e. are you both wanting to jump right into full swap with a group of people, or as a first step meet a few people who are in the lifestyle for a drink or two, and just have questions answered? The range of what you should do to start in the lifestyle solely depends on what you two are fantasizing about, and your tolerance for envy and/or jealously. Of course reading through a site like this is great for information so make sure your SO reads it too. Many on here will be glad to help you get started after you've described your situation a bit more.

[NCfuncouple98]

When you're not engaging in playing music, what kind of music do you two listen to together? Separately? Do you have a "song"? If so, what song(s) and why?

[lizandtom]

Originally Posted by NCfuncouple98

When you're not engaging in playing music, what kind of music do you two listen to together? Separately? Do you have a "song"? If so, what song(s) and why?

We both like Led Zeppelin, the Dead, Allman Bros. from the last millenium, and contrarily due to the amount of Saturday nights we spend in clubs we listen to popular dance music on the radio. Unanimously = Led Zeppelin, Fool in the Rain as a favorite song.

[SW_PA_Couple]

I hope you enjoyed being members of the week. You're a fascinating couple.

[fun4Ds]

Originally Posted by lizandtom

We met at a club where I (Tom) was playing in a band, although you could say it really was during college. I don't remember what I was wearing, but Liz had on blue jeans, black penny loafers, and a high school letter jacket.

Kinda weird, I never know sometimes what tomorrow will bring. The morning I asked you this, I actually was in thought about the first time I saw Mrsfun. I found myself standing at a sun dial, later that afternoon. On this sun dial was a plaque that read "time effects all things, except memories" I just thought it was kinda cool that you remembered I'll bet Liz does too....

So you like Led Zeppelin . They were the first rock concert I ever attended.

Had you seen them preform ?

If not, who preformed at your first concert ?