Member of the Week - Slevin

[slevin]

Originally Posted by LFM2

And for those non swinging questions:

Do you have a garden?

What is your favorite meal?

Do you have a favorite movie?

Do you have a favorite book?

We have a garden, but you will never find me in it!

Favourite meal is BBQ Ribs, mashed potatoes and green beans

Favourite movie, well this changes all the time but lately I've had a recurring interest in: Crank, Get Carter and Almost Famous

Favourite book: not that I can think of, I go through spurts of reading a ton of books in a row, then periods of not reading much.

[slevin]

Originally Posted by CXXC

Do you prefer house parties, Clubs or "Dating" to find your playmates?

How would you rate your experiences so far, as a whole? 1-10, 10 being the best.

If either of you wanted to quit and the other didn't, Who would win?

What was the first word utterd by each of you after your FIRST playmates left the room/hotel room, house, etc...?

What keeps you in the lifestyle today?

We have never attended a house party, though I think they sound like a lot of fun. We've been to the club a few times, but we prefer to meet people outside of the club and go to a hotel for any fun.

Experiences so far I think range from a 1 to an 8. Most have been good, but we've had one great experience and one horrific one too.

If either of us wanted to quit, we'd quit. I think we'd talk about why one of us wanted to quit, but ultimately we'd quit if it came to that.

I think the first words might have been "Holy crap!" or "Wow". Can't remember though!

What keeps us in the lifestyle now? We have had a bunch of great experiences and we're not done exploring that yet!

[slevin]

Originally Posted by NCfuncouple98

I see you are getting a lot of questions! You will be busy answering away....

What kind of music do you listen to? Do you two have a song?

What's your favorite swinging experience and least favorite and why?

I listen to a lot of hard rock or punkish music; Alice in Chains, Suicidal Tendencies, Faith No More, Descendents, Minor Threat. But I also love great jazz and funk! Only thing I can't get into is country

Favourite swinging experience; meeting a fun laid back couple and ending up in a pile of bodies in a hotel room Least favourite? The time the other girl ran crying to the bathroom...I hope that never happens again!

[Katrina_]

Well I am totally a Scorpio but I guess yes on the Sagittarius side. I'd be very happy to learn that we are a perfect match, because that's what my heart has always told me

As for the timing of our wedding - Well... I'm really not sure why then. I think we felt were old enough then, on our own in a new city ready to start a new life together and it just felt right, and besides he asked! I wasn't going to postpone the fun now was I

[Katrina_]

You've been together a LONG time - so what made you decide to get married when you did?[/QUOTE]
Well I am totally a Scorpio but I guess yes on the Sagittarius side. I'd be very happy to learn that we are a perfect match, because that's what my heart has always told me

As for the timing of our wedding - Well... I'm really not sure why then. I think we felt were old enough then, on our own in a new city ready to start a new life together and it just felt right, and besides he asked! I wasn't going to postpone the fun now was I

[Katrina_]

Ok I can so respond to this one! Mr. Slevin is absoloutly 100% as steady in person as he comes across in text. That's one of the things I love about him. He calms me down; is always very practical and pragmatic and has always been that way. My friends can't believe it, but it's true. And the more people get to know him the more they realize that it's true he is just that cool! Ok so I'm blabbering on a bit so I'll stop it. But suffice it to day he is a rock and that's one of the reasons I love him. I was born into a crazy family dynamic and the #1 thing I love about my life with him is that it is free, open and honest. There is no drama in our house and I love it!

[Katrina_]

Oh right I forogt to answer what his common sense can be attributed to, I know this one for sure to... He is his grandfathers grandson through and through! (and he would be very proud

[Katrina_]

Slevin is.... geese this is hard!

You'll have to give me one more day on this one, I just wrote one sentence and it sounded way too gushie!

[Katrina_]

Slevin is honest and kind, has a strong sense of internal justice and is more loyal than anyone I know, he makes me laugh everyday and everyone we know loves having him around! He's the best!

[Katrina_]

Well, ok I might as well say it straight here! Slevin brought up having threesome thing a bunch of times and my first reaction was that he must have married the wrong woman! Ouch! They after he stoped pestering me and we actually had some good conversations I realized that he was coming from a loving place and just wanted to have some fun.
This took me a long time to realise.
That yes infact he had married the right person and it was because of that that he felt he could open up and have some fun and lead the life people dream about.
So, I eventually said to hell with it, let's give it a go! He has always been so patient, kind and honest (and persistant!) that I finally realized that yes he does really, really love me and just wanted to have some fun and foster a way for me to open up sexually.

So now...sex is just sex and lets go have some fun! We will always be married and lov'in it! I think if you are open to stuff like this then you are open to pretty much anything and I think the world would be a better place is more people were that way

[Katrina_]

Yes we have a garden and I love digging in it and making stuff grow. It's fun and I love it outside

My favorite meal is a tie between Slevin's BBQ steak and roast beef with mashed potatoes, yorkshire puddings and greens And I love key lime pie!

Movies huh? Not sure, I cry at everything.. so the Notebook I guess, but I like all the penis movies we have in the house too. Oh ya and I love James Bond!

And as for books along the same lines I love to read and get lost in things like the Born Identity. I love falling asleep and dreaming that I am a super spy Sad but true I am that person

[Katrina_]

Ya I'd agree with everything he just said. House parties sound realy fun especially if there were alot of people there. We've been to a club a bunch of times and that's fun to go swing yourself around a pole for a while, but to be honest I find the upstairs part a little grose. And no I'm not a germaphobe but IEW!

I kind of absorb all the energy around me so I prefer to play in a quieter place so I can consentrate so to speak. I'm just more comfortable with less people around.

And as for the first words, I don't remember iether, if it was me that spoke first it was problally something like, "FUCK!"

1 to 8 Sounds about right. We seem to iether have a really great time, or it totally tanks! I'm not big on that!

We are staying in the life because it's our kind of life. We are having fun exploring and that's just who we are weather swinging or not.

Oh ya and if someone said they wanted to stop, then we stop. Period. We'd definitly talk about it and why, but I think that's the only way to do anything really. If you truly object then that's just the way it is. We'd just move on and have fun in other ways. Totally no pressure

[Katrina_]

LOL ya that was bad!!! Totally crushed me! I felt terrible! Anyone crying and running to the bathroom rates at the lowest experience for me too for sure!

Best thing for me was the same, meeting a fun couple and collapsing in a hotel room together not wanting to stop

[Katrina_]

Right sorry I keep forgetting to answer some things. Opps! I suck, sorry people!

Ok, favorite music, I hate Slevin's angry music! I like Cold Play! Jazz and really everything, except maybe rap and country.