Member of the Week -- NCfuncouple98

[NCfuncouple98]

Do either of you have any special talents that you're proud of?
Hmm, sexually or non? I'll go with non - he's a master auto tech, can fix anything his hands touch. She's a great cook, and is good with computers.

If you could go anywhere in the world, where would you like to visit?
We've not travelled much outside the US - would love to go to places like Aruba, Grand Cayman, anywhere with sandy beaches and clear water.

Do you two have a song? Several, actually.
It's your love - Tim McGraw & Faith Hill
Never Say Goodbye - Bon Jovi
I'd Come For You - Nickelback (brand new cd)
All or Nothing - Theory of a Deadman

Favorite movie?
Together faves: The Notebook, Titanic, Sweet Home Alabama
Separately - he loves movies like Hellboy, Mummy, Underworld, things she won't watch with him

Favorite book/author? She's the avid reader - crime & mystery books like John Grisham, Jon Sanford, etc.

Hobbies?
We do like to camp & fish. She's a huge sports fan - mostly Nascar & NFL. He likes to build anything with horsepower (cars, go-karts,). She likes to scrapbook, cross-stitch. But since there are 3 kids, when we have free time now, we usually fill that time with having sex!


Favorite drinks?
He mainly drinks screwdrivers, her faves are vodka & redbull, or vodka & sprite zero.

Any favorite T.V. shows you watch?
We love to watch History Channel, Discovery Channel, National Geographic channel. There are not a lot of individual shows, other than One Tree Hill and CSI. (providing that Nascar or NFL are not on - those come first always!)

[two4youinswva]

Originally Posted by NCfuncouple98

She's a huge sports fan - mostly Nascar & NFL.

You certainly live in the right place to be a fan of NASCAR, since all the shops are less than an hour away. Do you make it over to Lowe's Motor Speedway during the races there? Go to any Panthers' games?

[NCfuncouple98]

Originally Posted by two4youinswva

You certainly live in the right place to be a fan of NASCAR, since all the shops are less than an hour away. Do you make it over to Lowe's Motor Speedway during the races there? Go to any Panthers' games?

Oh yes. We actually own spots for infield camping to both the May & October races. It's a family vacation twice a year, and the # of people going with us is growing each year! Will never sit in the stands again! My husband has a big red truck (I'm 5'1, and if I walk in front of it you'd never see me), and built a nice custom platform for race weekends. It's about the tallest platform in the infield thanks to the tall truck!

We've toured all the race shops and museums, too. This May 2 friends we've known since high school are coming out for the race, and Lisa will tour them through it all.

Lisa is from Philly, so a die-hard Eagles fan. However, I'll pull for the Panthers when they're not playing the Eagles. Last year Lisa and all 3 kids went to a game, and this year James went to his first ever NFL game. (We used to live in Denver, and Lisa took the boys to see Broncos games there occasionally).

[NCfuncouple98]

No more questions? So we're that boring?

Just kidding - we enjoyed the interview. Thanks to everyone that makes us feel welcome here, and for all the great advice that is given across the different forums. I don't think we'd be where we are with swinging if we hadn't found Swingers Board.

PS: After a month of sinus infections & bronchitis, Mrs NC is finally feeling healthy and we are going to the club tomorrow night. Can't wait!

[two4youinswva]

Originally Posted by NCfuncouple98

Mrs NC is finally feeling healthy and we are going to the club tomorrow night. Can't wait!

THAT'S the other question I was going to ask!

You have quite a few club options in the greater Charlotte and Triangle area. Which one(s) do you prefer to attend?

[NCfuncouple98]

The only one we've been to so far is the Estate, through Carolina Friends. Been there I think maybe 5 times now? Finally starting to meet people.

There are other clubs that are farther away, but we like the 20 minute drive. With 3 kids, difficult to plan an over-night trip, so Mr. NC always drinks light to be able to drive home.

Tonight actually ended up with the 2 younger ones having sleepovers elsewhere, and the older one (almost 17) not home til midnight. Now that would've been a night we could go a farther distance and spend the night, but it's all last-minute! Damn the luck!

He actually works every Saturday, and every other Sunday, so that forces us to keep things close to home.

Someday maybe we can venture to other clubs/venues.

[LFM2]

What are your favorite family traditions?

If both of you could relive one day of your childhood, what day would it be?

Who is more romantic, James or Lisa? Why?

What is the best swinging advice that you have ever gotten?

Can a couple be too much in love?

What are the two most sensitive parts of your body?

Do you enjoy sex toys?

[MrkLin]

Knowing what you know now - if you had it to do all over again, would you do it all over again?

[fun4Ds]

Thanks for letting us have this time to get to know you guys better !

If say for instance you picked up a pizza from the pizza place and were driving home with it.

Would either of you just have to have just one bite on the way home... or wait till you get there with it ?

[NCfuncouple98]

What are your favorite family traditions?
We live away from both of our families, so starting our own traditions has been fun. It gave us a chance to do things "our" way. Probably my favorite (Mrs NC) is Thanksgiving - no fancy china here since I'm the sports fan. Everything is done the night before and early morning. Everything is cooked in disposable foil pans, we eat on heavy-duty paper plates. Because MOM is going to watch football all day.

If both of you could relive one day of your childhood, what day would it be?
Can't answer for Mr. NC, and he's still at work. And I really can't think of anything on this one.

Who is more romantic, James or Lisa? Why? Depends on the definition of romance. Neither one of us is very good at planning spontaneous romantic events. But what I find romantic are the little things. He starts my car every morning, and by my purse is my filled coffee mug and a fresh pack of cigarettes. Every day, without fail. I buy his favorite foods, make sure he has things he likes. And we never leave the house, and I mean EVER, without kissing each other goodbye. That's what we find romantic.

What is the best swinging advice that you have ever gotten?
Everything we've read on this forum. But the two that have struck home with us are:

• Never swing with Vanillas!
• Each of us has the right to veto anything, and we each have to respect that decision, no questions asked.

Can a couple be too much in love? God I hope not.

What are the two most sensitive parts of your body? Mrs. NC, back of my neck, and boobs. Again, Mr. NC will have to answer later.

Do you enjoy sex toys? Yes, but this is still an area we need to venture further into. We don't own many yet, but are working on it! Mr. NC bought me my first dildo when I started traveling for work 75% of the year, what a thoughtful guy!

[NCfuncouple98]

Originally Posted by MrkLin

Knowing what you know now - if you had it to do all over again, would you do it all over again?

Absolutely. The things we have learned about each other, after knowing each other 19 years! Wow, there was so much that we never knew, so much we were just unwilling to discuss.

We are so much more open now, and so not afraid to tell each other every want, desire, fear, etc.

We love where we are at right now.

[NCfuncouple98]

Originally Posted by fun4Ds

Thanks for letting us have this time to get to know you guys better !

If say for instance you picked up a pizza from the pizza place and were driving home with it.

Would either of you just have to have just one bite on the way home... or wait till you get there with it ?

Pizza may not be the easiest example, but I can tell you that when we stop at any other fast food, Mr. NC is usually the first one to start digging into the bag! I prefer to wait until we get home - I like to savor the smell and wait and enjoy it when I'm at home relaxed. Not that I've NEVER stolen a few french fries on the way, I have! But typically I don't mind waiting.

[LFM2]

NCfuncouple98, thanks for being in the Spotlight and letting us get to pick your brain and get to know you better! You guys are wonderful!!