CuriousLeo's - Members of the Week

[gatorvol64]

This week's Members of the Week are CuriousLeo's . We are glad to have them in the spotlight this week.

Swingers Board interviews are a way for us to get to know each other better. It is a way to acknowledge just how wonderfully varied a community we are. Every Sunday, a new interview will start and the old interview will be locked. Be sure to stop in and get to know them better by asking them every nosey, intimate, personal question you can think of.

Try to ask only one question (or group of questions) per post, to make it easier for the interviewee to answer the questions, and also to allow for others to ask their questions.

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Also, please keep in mind that any answers you post are viewable to complete strangers. There is some risk in that. Again, all questions are optional.

We'll start each interview with a few overview questions to get things started:

Gender (if not a couple):
If a couple, which one primarily posts:
Age(s):
Birthday(s):
Location:
Relationship status:
Swinging for how long?:
Prefer to swing with:
Biggest Pet Peeve:
Brief Intro:
Picture (if you feel comfortable sharing one):
Website (your own or one of your favorites):

[CuriousLeo's]

If a couple, which one primarily posts: He does, but she reads a lot too!
Age(s):Him 31/ her 29
Birthday(s): 8/8 and 8/11 (Hence the Leo's)
Location:Burbs of Philly (go PHILS!)
Relationship status: Married 6 years together 11
Swinging for how long?: Just began the open discussion about a month ago. Had one or two cam sessions.
Prefer to swing with: other loving couples
Biggest Pet Peeve:Rudeness. Where have all our manners gone?
Brief Intro: We met in college, nearly the first week. He new at first glance we'd be together. She thought he was the most beautiful person in the world. We got married 5 years later. He got a job in education, she's in direct marketing. Neither of us love our jobs, but then we work to live, not live to work. The best part of our day is when she walks in the door after work. The two dogs and he greet her with tons of kisses and tail wagging. Our children are our two springer spaniels Henry and Jr.

[CuriousLeo's]

I guess we're boring......

[fun4Ds]

Oh no, your not getting off that easy.

Have you ever been/lived in Arizona ?

[CuriousLeo's]

LOL! I knew that would get someone to bite!



As for Arizona, we have been. We went to Vegas for a vacation a few years back and took a bus trip to the grand canyon, at the Hualapai(sp?) indian reservation. I think now, they built a skyway/walkway out over the canyon there. When we were there it was shear rock wall, and no fences, we really enjoyed that trip! Traveling up through all the Joshua Trees was truely awesome for us East Coasters.

[JustAskJulie]

You said so far you've just had a couple of cam experiences... do you plan to go beyond cam and actually meet people? And if so how far do you hope to go and what fantasies do you hope to fulfill?

[BiloxiCouple]

How do we get ya'll naked?

[gatorvol64]

What started the open discussions?

Vol

[CuriousLeo's]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

You said so far you've just had a couple of cam experiences... do you plan to go beyond cam and actually meet people? And if so how far do you hope to go and what fantasies do you hope to fulfill?

We do plan to meet people some day. Since this is so new we will go very slow. Everyone on this board seems to be so understanding and supportive we may just get there sooner than we had thought.

[CuriousLeo's]

Originally Posted by BiloxiCouple

How do we get ya'll naked?

One pant leg at a time

[CuriousLeo's]

Originally Posted by gatorvol64

What started the open discussions?

Vol

It's somthing that He always thought was an interesting situation, but felt (from how he was raised) that it was bad and naughty and wrong.And he was ashamed of his secret.
She had an affair and when he found out he forgave her immediately and decided that the only way to fix anything was to put everything out on the table and be completely open and honest with each other and to share this with her as his deepest and darkest secret. He now new hers, he felt she needed to know his to be able to move forward.
She has a very open mind and didn't think his secret was all that terrible, in fact, probably very normal. He found this board and shared it with her and here we are.
we are more open, more honest, and happier than we have ever been.

[ncmd_couple]

Do you two consider yourselves "The cup is half empty" or "The cup is half full" kinda people?

Also, I too am a Leo. What is it like having two under the same roof?

[CuriousLeo's]

I , Mr Leo, am definetly a "half Empty" guy. I have been my whole life. I find that If I expect, and accept disappointment ahead of time, I am pleasantly surprised when things actually do work out right. I have lived that way for as long as I can remember.

She will need to answer that one for her self.

As for 2 under the same roof, it is quite difficult at times. We both are always right, and the other is always wrong. We dont give up easily, we usually fight like lions,But that just lends to fucking like lions too! The best thing is the open-ness we have been finding, it allows us to try and talk through our fights now instead of lunging directly for the neck!
Because we are both this way, it also means we both understand each other a lot better. Its all how we handle the info....and that is an uphill battle!

[CuriousLeo's]

Originally Posted by ncmd_couple

Do you two consider yourselves "The cup is half empty" or "The cup is half full" kinda people?

Also, I too am a Leo. What is it like having two under the same roof?

I, Mrs. Leo, am a "half full" kinda gal. I figure, if your half way there, fight to get that god damn glass to overflow. At least I know I did my very best to get it there. And if for some reason it doesn't go that way, I at least know I did my best. Blah blah blah... (Why do i feel like i should be wearing a bikini and tiara?)

As for two leo's under one roof....most times we give and take "the stage" (being a leo, i'm sure you know what i mean). However, I don't think either of us would have it any other way!

[rpu3]

Where was your avatar photo taken?