2insandiego4u - Members of the Week

[gatorvol64]

This week's Members of the Week are 2insandiego. We are glad to have them in the spotlight this week.

Swingers Board interviews are a way for us to get to know each other better. It is a way to acknowledge just how wonderfully varied a community we are. Every Sunday, a new interview will start and the old interview will be locked. Be sure to stop in and get to know them better by asking them every nosey, intimate, personal question you can think of.

Try to ask only one question (or group of questions) per post, to make it easier for the interviewee to answer the questions, and also to allow for others to ask their questions.

Try to keep this thread about the person being interviewed. If you want to comment about things you discover you have in common or just elaborate on a response, pm them and make a new friend or start a new thread about it. This is intended to be a friendly thread, so please don’t ask anything in a purposeful attempt to get a heated debate. Of course, nobody is required to answer a question that they do not want to.

Also, please keep in mind that any answers you post are viewable to complete strangers. There is some risk in that. Again, all questions are optional.

We'll start each interview with a few overview questions to get things started:

Gender (if not a couple):
If a couple, which one primarily posts:
Age(s):
Birthday(s):
Location:
Relationship status:
Swinging for how long?:
Prefer to swing with:
Biggest Pet Peeve:
Brief Intro:
Picture (if you feel comfortable sharing one):
Website (your own or one of your favorites):

[2inSanDiego4u]

Gender (if not a couple): Couple

If a couple, which one primarily posts: He posts most of the time, both read the forum

Age(s): Her - 41, Him - 43

Birthday(s): Her - November, Him - June

Location: San Diego, CA.

Relationship status: Married

Swinging for how long?: 6 months

Prefer to swing with: Couples and singles

Biggest Pet Peeve: The fakes and flakes we run into online

Brief Intro: We're a married couple, together for 23 years, and relatively new to the lifestyle.

Picture (if you feel comfortable sharing one):

Website (your own or one of your favorites): SwingLifestyle (Swing Lifestyle), Swingersboard, TheSwingSite (TSS), SwingerZoneCentral, Adult FriendFinder (AFF)

Let's get it on!!!

[JustAskJulie]

Did you get your shirt? Was it worth the wait?

[2inSanDiego4u]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

Did you get your shirt? Was it worth the wait?

Hi Julie! We did get our T-shirt and we are excited that it is a BLACK shirt! We were expecting white. It was definitely worth the wait! The Mr. will be wearing it to a big meet n' greet event next month. We have to keep the shirt hidden at home because our teenager is always "borrowing" shirts from our closet.

[sweet_tna]

Hey ya'll! So . . . If you were a superhero and could choose your superpower, what would you choose and why?

=)

[SecretAsianMan]

I wonder if it's possible that we know some of the same people in the lifestyle in the San Diego area...

[fun4Ds]

We noticed you prefer meeting people in a casual settings over clubs.

Where is your prefered place to play ?

[2inSanDiego4u]

Originally Posted by sweet_tna

Hey ya'll! So . . . If you were a superhero and could choose your superpower, what would you choose and why?

=)

Him: Invisibility. The ability to be sneaky and eavesdrop on any situation is a turn-on, not to mention sneaking into the bank vault!

Her: The ability to read minds, so she can always know what everybody is thinking! She says so she can find all those dirty like-minded people out there!

[2inSanDiego4u]

Originally Posted by SecretAsianMan

I wonder if it's possible that we know some of the same people in the lifestyle in the San Diego area...

It's always possible, it's not a very big town by most standards. However, we are relatively new to the lifestyle (only 6 months in) and don't know too many people yet. Our friends network on AFF is public if you're inclined to check it out.

[2inSanDiego4u]

Originally Posted by fun4Ds

We noticed you prefer meeting people in a casual settings over clubs.

Where is your prefered place to play ?

It is true, we prefer to meet couples and singles in a casual setting first to see if we all click. Usually it is for coffee or at a restaurant for drinks, depending on the other party's preference. If we decide to take things to the next level, we'll usually plan a date and get a room at a local hotel. We prefer a hotel room over our house or theirs. We find that we're more relaxed in a hotel, plus "hotel sex" is great!

[gatorvol64]

With the four of us, it is usually divided on preferring movies or books. What about with the two of you? And the genre of each, the movies or the books, can be widely varied.

Vol

[2inSanDiego4u]

Originally Posted by gatorvol64

With the four of us, it is usually divided on preferring movies or books. What about with the two of you? And the genre of each, the movies or the books, can be widely varied.

Vol

We are both readers and also both love movies as well. She likes romance novelists such as Nicholas Sparks and Nora Roberts, among others. He likes Cormac McCarthy and James A. Michener, among others. As far as movies go, again it is varied. She prefers the lighter side, such as romantic comedies and "chick flicks". He prefers dark dramatic/weird/Sci-Fi movies such as Pulp Fiction, Dark City, and many of David Lynch and Stanley Kubrick's films.

[slevin]

Mac or Windows?

[2inSanDiego4u]

Originally Posted by slevin

Mac or Windows?

Well, both. In the house are 2 PC desktops, 2 PC notebooks and 1 Macbook. The Mac is one of the newer Intel-based models that can also dual boot Windows. The desktops are rarely used any more.