Member of the Week - Malachista

[gatorvol64]

This week's Member of the Week is Malachista. We are glad to have her in the spotlight this week.

Swingers Board interviews are a way for us to get to know each other better. It is a way to acknowledge just how wonderfully varied a community we are. Every Sunday, a new interview will start and the old interview will be locked. Be sure to stop in and get to know them better by asking them every nosey, intimate, personal question you can think of.

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We'll start each interview with a few overview questions to get things started:

Gender (if not a couple):
If a couple, which one primarily posts:
Age(s):
Birthday(s):
Location:
Relationship status:
Swinging for how long?:
Prefer to swing with:
Biggest Pet Peeve:
Brief Intro:
Picture (if you feel comfortable sharing one):
Website (your own or one of your favorites):

[Malachista]

Gender (if not a couple): I have the girl parts (and I love them)
Age(s): turning 27 next week (eeek, I'm getting old)
Birthday(s): August 11
Location: Switzerland (*wonders whohas guessed that already*)
Relationship status: single (sometimes happy about it, sometimes not)
Swinging for how long?: 2.5 years
Prefer to swing with: willing males
Biggest Pet Peeve:chances all the time

I like to read a lot and spend way too much time in front of computers

[2inSanDiego4u]

Hello Malachista! What is the swinging scene like in Switzerland? Are there a lot of swingers there?

[Malachista]

I made a calculation that on the last New Years Eve about 1500 people must have visited a swingers club (that is if 2/3 of the numbers given out by the clubs are real)
This number surprised me as rather high
(the biggest swinger add site claim to have 60 000 accounts that were active in the past 6 months... thats about 1% of the population)

[JustAskJulie]

Do you consider it swinging when you are having sex only with single males?

[fun4Ds]

Ever had sex with foreigner's ?

[Malachista]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

Do you consider it swinging when you are having sex only with single males?

yes
IMO there is a diffrence in single guys you meet at a normal bar and single guys you meet at a club.
The regular guys often just want to stick it in and get off as soon as possible, while the club guys will take time to pleasure a woman - esp. if they want to be regular club guests who have a great reputation
(and if a club guy turns out to be a "fastfucker" you can push him off the bed and just scream "Next!!!" to get something better )

Originally Posted by fun4Ds

Ever had sex with foreigner's ?

yes
as far as I know they included Germans, Frenchmen, Italiens, Dutch, a Croat, a Brazilian, a Scot, a Finn and someone from an Arabian country (I think it was Morocco)
I guess I am wider shagged then travelled!

[2inSanDiego4u]

As a single female who frequents clubs, what is the wildest thing you've done or been involved in?

[gatorvol64]

Do you have any favorite movies or books?

Vol

[Malachista]

Originally Posted by gatorvol64

Do you have any favorite movies or books?

I read a lot of books - about 150 a year - so it is a bit hard to find list favorites. And sometimes a book you read a second time it looks less good if you already know what is going to happen.

In general I like well researched Historical books (too bad that most published books nowdays in the genre are just about a girl dressing up as a guy and following her true love into a foreigen place), fantasy with a twist (Last Rune Series) or books that have some elements of a mind fuck

In the last year I really enjoyed "The Time Travelers Wife" and J.A.Konraths Jack Daniels Series. I also like the voluminous historical books by Ken Follett ( Pillars of the Earth and World Witout End) or the German Author Rebecca Gable (Wharingham Saga) or Diana Gabaldon (Outlander Saga and Lord John Series)

BTW, my favorite book character is Severus Snape from the Harry Potter Series


Movies I like and rewatch almost all the time include:
- Bedrooms and Hallways
- While you were sleeping
- A Knights Tale
- Wimbledon
- The Matrix
- From Dusk till Dawn

[Alura]

Hi, Malachista!

I'm happy to see you in the "hot seat." You are an interesting lady.

How did you choose your screen name?

How many languages do you speak? Do you come from the German, Italian, French, or Romanse-speaking region of Switzerland?

Do you enjoy motorsports? Switzerland is a drivers' paradise. I loved riding my motorcycle through your country. Do you drive? If so, what kind of car?

Judging by your taste in literature, I'd like to recommend The Alexander Quartet by Lawrence Durrell. In which language do you prefer to read?

Do you ski? If so, which resort do you prefer? I know... there are so many!

Please describe yourself.

Beer or wine with dinner?

Cafe au lait or noir?

What is your profession?

Mr. Alura

[Malachista]

Originally Posted by 2insandiego4u

As a single female who frequents clubs, what is the wildest thing you've done or been involved in?

That would have been a shower-take over
My favorite club has a big communal shower room, rather then separate stalls I've seen in some other clubs. It has 8 shower heads, so usually there are no more then 10 people in there. That one night it was packed with about 50 people, all naked, all wet and soapy, rubbing and touching everything they could get. (A bit like one imagines a darkroom orgy to be, just wetter and with much more light)
It was fantastic!

[Malachista]

Alura, you got some very interresting questions there, thanks

How did you choose your screen name?

I got it from out of a book.
It's the queen race of dragons.

How many languages do you speak? Do you come from the German, Italian, French, or Romanse-speaking region of Switzerland?

I speak Swiss German, German, English, some French (way too little after having to learn it for seven years in School, but it was never my language) as well as some Italian, Turkish and Finnish
I'm from the German part of Switzerland

Do you enjoy motorsports? Switzerland is a drivers' paradise. I loved riding my motorcycle through your country. Do you drive? If so, what kind of car?

I don't drive, don't even have a license. In my place I get around well on public transportation.
But I love to travel as a passanger in a good fast car in the mountains

Judging by your taste in literature, I'd like to recommend The Alexander Quartet by Lawrence Durrell. In which language do you prefer to read?

Thanks for the rec, I always love to get more books (and I always need to get more bookshelves as well)
I read about 60% in German and 40% in English
I also love audiobooks

Do you ski? If so, which resort do you prefer?

I did not have the chance to ski in about 10 years
But I really hope to get back to it


Beer or wine with dinner?
I prefer water or soda with dinner.
And I don't drink beer, and prefer champagne over wine

Cafe au lait or noir?
I don't drink coffee so my choice goes to hot chocolate

What is your profession?
I work in logistics

[yogee]

Hi Malachista,

Its nice to hear your words. I am happy at the way you are giving answers without being hesitant. I have 2 serious question for you. I like swinging as a lifestyle. I don't have any experience yet but I like the lifestyle to the extent that I want to find a girl to marry who can share and understand this lifestyle. So my questions is:

Is it possible to find a girl for me as a single guy to whom I can propose for marriage ?


What advice, if any, you have for a single guy like me, who is looking for a Swinging Wife ?

[JustAskJulie]

Do you ever play with couples? Are you bi-sexual/curious?