Member of the Week - redgirlwithfrec

[gatorvol64]

This week's Member of the Week is redgirlwithfrec. We are glad to have them in the spotlight this week.

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Gender (if not a couple):
If a couple, which one primarily posts:
Age(s):
Birthday(s):
Location:
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Biggest Pet Peeve:
Brief Intro:
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Website (your own or one of your favorites):

[redgirlwithfrec]

Gender (if not a couple): Definately a F/M Couple.

If a couple, which one primarily posts: Male with most posts reviewed by her.

Age(s): F 35 and M 33
Birthday(s): 2/21 and 10/8 You can go figure out the years if you really want to

Location: East Stroudsburg, PA

Relationship status: Married

Swinging for how long?: a little over a year
Prefer to swing with: With other couples. Still holding out for the elusive Unicorn

Biggest Pet Peeve: People that don't respond to emails even with a polite no thank you

Brief Intro: our profile on sls really says it all. It is one of those storybook profiles. Go check it out, we are sure it will start lots of ???s here. But we feel we are a nice couple that pretty much gets along with everyone we meet. Still a little shy though when we dont know anyone so this should help to pull us our of our shells.

Picture (if you feel comfortable sharing one): Plenty to see on SLS

Website (your own or one of your favorites): we tried to start a blog but just couldnt keep up with it.

[BiloxiCouple]

How do we get ya'll naked?

[2insandiego4u]

What has been the best experience you've had so far in the lifestyle? The one moment or encounter that was great for both of you?

[redgirlwithfrec]

Originally Posted by BiloxiCouple

How do we get ya'll naked?

Well first of all there has to be some chemistry. When we first started we were alot more wild than we are now. Not that its any less exciting but we have alot more self confidence now and it gives us a chance to make sure we are with people we want to be with other than just the first Joe Schmoe that comes our way.

But if we hit it off, theres a good chance you see us naked sooner or later.

[redgirlwithfrec]

Originally Posted by 2insandiego4u

What has been the best experience you've had so far in the lifestyle? The one moment or encounter that was great for both of you?

They are all good in their own way. but the best ones are usually house parties where we get to meet a few nice people and get to have multiple experiences in a single evening.

Probably the best moment was when we went to our first m&g, we were both so nervous about going in but we had such a great time when we left we said this was for us. That night we had some of the best sex of our lives.

[2insandiego4u]

Great profile on SLS - gave us some ideas for ours!

How long have you two been together? Who introduced the idea of swinging? How was the idea introduced?

[JustAskJulie]

Ok, first off.... your Mrs, looks like she could pass for early teens at times... has that ever caused you any issues (swinger or not)? Or what is the best story you have related to the age she is vs. the age she appears?

Second, I've never met an introverted redhead... it's just not possible (says a redhead) so how did it happen that she's so shy?

[redgirlwithfrec]

Originally Posted by 2insandiego4u

Great profile on SLS - gave us some ideas for ours!

How long have you two been together? Who introduced the idea of swinging? How was the idea introduced?

Thank you, Our profile was definately an evolution. Still has its dwarbacks due to length. Can't be sure how many people actually read it all the way through.

We've been together for almost 14 years and married for almost 12. Me(The male) probably had more to do with the introduction of swinging. We had a few very soft swing experiences when we were first married mostly due to alcohol consumption. There was never any jealousy involved with the 2 occasion but if nothing else it started fantasies for the both of us that went on for years.

About 6 years ago I brought up the idea of going to a local club down in FL where we used to live. She thought about it but didn't think it was something she wanted to do at the time. Then about a year and a half ago she put me up to a bet to lose some weight. I was just diagnosed with Diabetes and she thought a prize of a FMF would encourage me to follow through with my diet. Anyway I was losing weight not really because of the bet but because I needed to. A few months later, we were in bed having sex and fantasizing about being with another couple and she was really into it, moreso than usual and the next day when we were no longer in the heat of the moment I asked her if she wanted to try it and to my amazement she said yes.

Me, not wanting to waste time found a local m&g, we were hooked and the rest was history.

[redgirlwithfrec]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

Ok, first off.... your Mrs, looks like she could pass for early teens at times... has that ever caused you any issues (swinger or not)? Or what is the best story you have related to the age she is vs. the age she appears?

Second, I've never met an introverted redhead... it's just not possible (says a redhead) so how did it happen that she's so shy?

We just got up to bed and she has already conked out but will answer this one together tomorrow.

Tell me about it though. Every redhead I have ever known other than her has been feisty. maybe its whats different about her which makes me love her even more!!!

[2insandiego4u]

We noticed that you've posted quite a lot of certs on your SLS profile. Has anybody asked why you have some many? Do you think it is a hindrance to post so many certs?

[redgirlwithfrec]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

Ok, first off.... your Mrs, looks like she could pass for early teens at times... has that ever caused you any issues (swinger or not)? Or what is the best story you have related to the age she is vs. the age she appears?

Second, I've never met an introverted redhead... it's just not possible (says a redhead) so how did it happen that she's so shy?

First off thank you for saying I look like I could pass in my early teens. It has not been an issue except for being carded once in awhile for drinks but otherwise not a problem.

It's very possible for a redhead to be shy because I am very shy at first but once I get to know you I open up. Im just not typical and/or predictable

[redgirlwithfrec]

Originally Posted by 2insandiego4u

We noticed that you've posted quite a lot of certs on your SLS profile. Has anybody asked why you have some many? Do you think it is a hindrance to post so many certs?

We have been asked before and it seems to be both a blessing and a curse. Unfortunately the first thing people think especially newbies is that you have slept with them all and that is sooooooo far from the truth. Actually we are still friendly with each and every person that we keep on our cert list. We usually see most of them at the local M&Gs that we go to on a regular basis.

[LFM2]

I always ask the vanilla questions! hehehe

What kinds of books do you read?
What kinds of movies do you enjoy watching?
What's the last movie you seen in a theater and was it any good?

[redgirlwithfrec]

Originally Posted by LFM2

What kinds of books do you read?

For her none on the books front. She reads alot of magazines. Home improvement, baby stuff, and cooking

Him, horror and Sci fi. Clive Barker RULZ

Originally Posted by LFM2

What kinds of movies do you enjoy watching?

Anything end everything. Comedy, SciFi, Action, Horror but horror has to be good and scary not campy. She enjoys more of the romance stuff than me.

Originally Posted by LFM2

What's the last movie you seen in a theater and was it any good?

Indiana Jones and Narnia double feature both met our expectations although we set them really low for Indy.