Member of the Week - JustAskJulie

[ownerspet]

Originally Posted by Hot Raleigh Cpl

Ownerspet, what were the toughest -- mentally and emotionally -- aspects for you from the time Julie first mentioned it until after your first time?

Mental and emotional tough times. Well I think it would have to be getting past the preconceived perceptions of what I thought the lifestyle would be like and the people would be like. To pin point anything beyond that is really not possible for me. I think we always have so much going on that the tough times might have been overshadowed by other things in life. Ok, one of the tough things for me, was realizing that my wife was ok with me making out or being with another woman. I guess the fear hung in the back of my head that she might freak out, even though she had more experience that me in the lifestyle.

[Sico_tiko]

great, when it comes to swinging, Do u have certain conditions i mean the other male partner of the couple has to be with condoms? and do u accept cumming inside or not and what about oral sex????

[JustAskJulie]

Originally Posted by Sico_tiko

great, when it comes to swinging, Do u have certain conditions i mean the other male partner of the couple has to be with condoms? and do u accept cumming inside or not and what about oral sex????

We do intend to use condoms for full swap and have been trying out various brands to find one that we both like. As for using condoms during oral, I don't require it and never have. The only man who gets to come inside my pussy is Pet.

[fun4Ds]

How do each of you feel about FMF FFM FFFM play ?

Is it something that might happen, has happened, or hope to have happen, If everything happens at the write time ?

Is it exciting, challenging ?

[JustAskJulie]

Originally Posted by fun4Ds

How do each of you feel about FMF FFM FFFM play ?

Is it something that might happen, has happened, or hope to have happen, If everything happens at the write time ?

Is it exciting, challenging ?

I started to answer this a bit differently but then I realized that all of the combinations you listed are multiple female. I'm bi so I'm open to any of those possibilities should the right women come along. I've been in those situations in the past and would do them again.

[sweet_tna]

I'm actually glad you're stepping up to the hot seat. Being one of the newer members, it's fun to learn more about ya'll who've been around here longer.

If someone wrote your biography, what would it be titled?

If it were written as a fictional novel, in what section would it be found?

=)

[JustAskJulie]

Originally Posted by sweet_tna

I'm actually glad you're stepping up to the hot seat. Being one of the newer members, it's fun to learn more about ya'll who've been around here longer.

If someone wrote your biography, what would it be titled?

If it were written as a fictional novel, in what section would it be found?

=)

Going for the hard questions?!

title: "sometimes you get what you want"
Section: the clearance rack

[cplnuswing]

What cartoon character do you each identify with or relate to the most?

[JustAskJulie]

Originally Posted by cplnuswing

What cartoon character do you each identify with or relate to the most?

For me it would be Goofy & Taz...

[ownerspet]

Originally Posted by cplnuswing

What cartoon character do you each identify with or relate to the most?

Deputy Dawg... he's a little slow... sorta my speed.

[gatorvol64]

What small things do the two of you do for each other that tells the other they are special? Little notes? Voice mail messages? The little things are what get me. I always notice when Gator or Tech open my car door. Things like that or something that lets me know they think of me when I'm not around.

Vol

[sweet_tna]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

Going for the hard questions?!

title: "sometimes you get what you want"
Section: the clearance rack

Absolutely!

But I highly doubt your story would belong on the clearance rack. Perhaps 'Fantasy' . . .

=)

[Alura]

Double post. Sorry.

Mr. Alura

[Alura]

Thanks for all you do, Julie.

Over the years I've been impressed with your entrepreneurial spirit. What drives you?

It seems to me that often folks who choose not to have children would have made the best parents. Other than screaming ones, how do you and pet feel about kids?

Mr. Alura

[JustAskJulie]

Originally Posted by gatorvol64

What small things do the two of you do for each other that tells the other they are special? Little notes? Voice mail messages? The little things are what get me. I always notice when Gator or Tech open my car door. Things like that or something that lets me know they think of me when I'm not around.
Vol

The day we first got back together Pet sent me this card in which he covered every inch of white space with writing. We were together over that weekend and he evidently mailed it on Saturday because I got the card on Monday. Throughout the time we were living seperately we both sent cards back and forth to each other and he eventually took the cards I had sent him and made them into a shadow box.

We still do the cards, just not as much.

We do send text messages to each other, voicemails are more commonly used for actual information.

One day I got in my car and found it papered with little sticky notes telling me all the reasons he loves me.

He opens the car door for me, which I love. But I take a lot of grief over it from some of our friends and even from him on occasion. So lately I've been getting out of the car on my own.... then I get grief from him for not waiting...lol.

Originally Posted by Alura

Thanks for all you do, Julie.
Over the years I've been impressed with your entrepreneurial spirit. What drives you?

It seems to me that often folks who choose not to have children would have made the best parents. Other than screaming ones, how do you and pet feel about kids?

Mr. Alura

What drives me? Accomplishment. Feeling like I've done something. I also like to see my rewards directly tied to the work I put in. If I'm working my ass off and seeing no reward at the end, or it doesn't matter how hard I work the rewards are the same, I see no point in continuing to work hard.

There are hundreds of reasons why I don't want kids... I think of a new one every time I'm around one! They aren't all bad and I do think if it was something I wanted to do I would probably make a better parent than some. I think most of the kids I encounter are just spoiled and given everything and never taught that you have to work hard to get things in life.

All in all, I will admit I'm just too selfish to be a parent. I like my life. I like the freedom to go out and do things, to travel, etc without having to find a sitter or drag a kid along. When we go someplace like a theme park and I see parents than brought their kids along I have to ask myself WHY would they do that? In the end no one gets to have fun. The kids are too small to enjoy half of what is available and the parents can't enjoy it because they have the kid in tow!