Member of the week - havefuninsun

[gatorvol64]

This week's Member of the Week is havefuninsun. We are glad to have them in the spotlight this week.

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[havefuninsun]

Hi All! Well -- to answer the preliminary questions ...

We are a couple and Ms. Fun normally posts. She turned 38 last month and Mr. Fun is 42 and he's a summer baby. We're located in Central Virginia.

We met online in May of 2005 and started talking about swinging in August! Mr. Fun had a little bit of prior experience, and I had lots of fantasies. We were married this past summer.

We had our first experience in Feb/March of 2006 ... it was so awesome! I was so nervous, mainly of how it all would truly make me feel. I prayed I would have no jealousy issues -- although the ideas and the chats as we were meeting people were hot as hell, you never know how you're going to react until the time comes. I'm pleased to report that everything went well.

Most of our experiences have been with other couples. I would more describe myself as bi-social -- I'm not really curious anymore, 'cause I know what it's about. I do enjoy the ladies, but I REALLY enjoy the men! We've had some fmf experiences too.

We've also been very lucky in those who we've met. We have had some odd experiences, but no real bad ones. We've run across those men posing as a couple, but once they're sniffed out we just don't deal with them. We've also never played with folks who were just flat out flakes. I guess if I had a pet peeve is it's OUR inability to have as much time for fun as we would like. So when we answer questions about whether this is a lifestyle or hobby -- it's truly a hobby for us. I feel like if it were a lifestyle, swinging would be as much as a priority as grocery shopping and work, ya know? We all look at that differently, I know.

We enjoy each other immensely. We love spending time together. We are so intune with each other on so many levels, and have a wonderful sexual energy. We respect each other; I love being his woman and he loves being my man. (Please don't get out the barf bags -- LOL!)

You can find us on SLS under the same name. For some reason, clicking the link doesn't take you to our profile -- must be how we have it set up.

But fire away! I love answering questions!

[sweet_tna]

Glad to have ya'll as the MOW. What are your OTHER hobbies?

=)

[havefuninsun]

Other hobbies -- well ... we like wine ... Did you all know that Virginia has over 100 wineries? Well, I didn't either until a few years ago. When the weather is nice, we like to pack a picnic lunch and head to the Virginia mountains and enjoy the day. We have a few non-vanilla couple friends we hope to enjoy this activity with this year. In fact, at a party not too long ago (our first house party! whoo hoo!), we met a couple who's Mrs. works at one of the Virginia wineries. So -- what a great excuse to make the road trip.

We like real estate. We don't own a bunch of real estate (just our house), but we love to go through open houses and get ideas for a future home or how to fix up the house we have (it needs some love). We'd love to be in a position financially to flip houses, but only once the market gets better again. However, I am glad to see the prices leveling off ... it's been ridiculous!

We are both scholars of life. We enjoy reading and educating ourselves on ... well ... anything.

So we haven't been able to enjoy a lot of other hobbies these days either! LOL!! Hopefully, work will calm down some and we can enjoy more things.

[SW_PA_Couple]

You two are an example of what's best in The Lifestyle and are into it for all of the right reasons. I'm sure you are careful. You seem, for example to value your privacy. Why then would you characterize yourselves in your SLS tag line as running with scissors? Is there a story in this?

Michael

[havefuninsun]

Hi Michael,

Boy, you tagged us pretty well -- have you had practice with this? LOL! We do value our privacy, you're right.

Runs with scissors? Well -- I picked that because we've always been told running with scissors was dangerous ... something that is risky, or something you're simply not supposed to do. So the tag line represents our "rebel" attitude about not doing what society thinks is the safe, or right thing to do. And -- it just seemed catchy.

We just try hard not to put anyone's eye out. wish scissors ... and other things ...

[fun4Ds]

Whats the most daring/risky place, you have ever had sex.

[havefuninsun]

Originally Posted by fun4Ds

Whats the most daring/risky place, you have ever had sex.

On my back steps.

I had a little bungalo when Mr. Fun and I met ... it was in the country in a little one-stoplight town. My house backed up to a busy road, as well as a pizza joint (made it too convenient when I didn't feel like cooking ...)

Well one night, we were playing around in the kitchen, and Mr. Fun said "I dare you to fuck me on your back steps" ... and he didn't even have to triple-dog dare me. I'm such a 'ho.

I love the feeling of getting caught. I'd love to have sex in a dressing room ... I haven't QUITE got Mr. Fun to do it, though... but I'm working on it.

[JustAskJulie]

You characterize yourself as bi-social. Are you attracted to females? Do you perform oral on women? Or are you just open to bi-women since they are so common in the lifestyle?

[LFM2]

Since I'm such a book and movie lover, I always ask this!!

Favorite book?

Favorite movie?

Favorite meal?

If you could meet anyone, who would it be and what would you talk about?

[rpu3]

And since I work to go on vacation (three days and counting!), I have to ask:

Best vacation you've had?

Right now, what would be your ideal and/or dream vacation?

[havefuninsun]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

You characterize yourself as bi-social. Are you attracted to females? Do you perform oral on women? Or are you just open to bi-women since they are so common in the lifestyle?

When we first started talking about swinging, what I really wanted was to find another female for a fmf -- because I have always felt an attraction to women and wanted to experience what that was all about. I LOVE receiving oral and attention from any tongue that is willing to ablidge -- LOL! And I also find that I enjoy going down on a woman too. What is interesting is that a lot of men think because we have the parts we should know instinctively how to do the pleasin' too -- but as well all know, each one of us is different, so I'm still learning how to make a woman feel good.

I guess by "social" I mean that bi play is not required; in fact, at the house party we were at, I was a little disappointed in myself for not joining some of the girls in a girl-orgie of sorts -- but, I was having a little bit of sensory overload, taking it all in. Next time -- I'll be there.

I was lunching with some vanilla girlfriends on Saturday, and one mentioned all the padding in her bra -- I reached over and grabbed her boob to see. I have to remember where I am sometimes ... LOL! Thankfully, she laughed and then grabbed mine.

[havefuninsun]

Originally Posted by LFM2

Since I'm such a book and movie lover, I always ask this!!

Favorite book?

Favorite movie?

Favorite meal?

If you could meet anyone, who would it be and what would you talk about?

OK -- so some of these answers may embarrass me more than anything else! I haven't had the pleasure of pleasure reading in a while, but when I have an opportunity, I love mysteries. I used to be an avid Patricia Cornwell fan -- she's a local, and a lot of her stories she places right in my back yard, so I can actually SEE the locations when she describes them. Pretty cool! I've also been a John Grisham fan, even some of his non-law related books (The Painted House was really good).

Favorite movie? Grease. Yes yes yes -- I hear you laughing. When I was a little kid, we had the soundtrack -- I memorized every word to every song, even when I didn't understand what they were all about ("...the girls will cream for Grease Lightening..." -- I had no idea what that was. LOL!).

We're big LOST fans ... we have so much fun trying to figure it all out. It's definitely a series that you can't miss one episode or you get completely lost ... no pun there, huh? I'm also an HGTV junkie. I'm gonna win that dream house next week in the Keys ...

One of my favorite foods is Sushi -- I only discovered Sushi since meeting Mr. Fun. I've had california rolls, but nothing more brave than that before meeting Mr. Fun. He's taught me how to eat it. I also love all japanese food and most asian food (there is a hole-in-the-wall Vietnamese restaurant in town I love -- many time I'm the only white person in there, so I take it that it must be pretty authentic). There really isn't a lot of food I *don't* like, which can be an issue ... sigh ...

[havefuninsun]

Originally Posted by rpu3

And since I work to go on vacation (three days and counting!), I have to ask:

Best vacation you've had?

Right now, what would be your ideal and/or dream vacation?

Oh I am so jealous!!!

Best vacation has to be last summer when we went to Key West and New Orleans. We ran off and got married in Key West -- didn't tell a soul. We flew into Miami, rented a convertible, and drove to KW. Now -- it was a great adventure, but next time we'll fly directly. We rented scooters and had a blast ... loved doing the whole tourist thing. I'm a beach girl; Mr. Fun is not such a beach guy. But he enjoys the warm weather, etc., so Key West was about a perfect combination for us.

New Orleans was great too -- OMG the food! I had Alligator for the first time in N.O. (uhm ... tasted kinda like chicken -- LOL).

What was great is that we had everything about planned and paid for, so we did exactly what we wanted to do and didn't sweat the details. And it was all about us. It was so great!

We'd love to visit an adult-only resort, either in Mexico or the Caribbeans. There are so many places I haven't had the opportunity to visit -- can you believe I've never been to New York? That is just plain sad. I'd love to visit Nashville, Maine, California ... so many places. I have a check list

[two4youinswva]

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