member of the week - CubnAmy1995

[JustAskJulie]

This week's Member of the Week is CubnAmy1995. We are glad to have them in the spotlight this week.

Swingers Board interviews are a way for us to get to know each other better. It is a way to acknowledge just how wonderfully varied a community we are. Every Tuesday, a new interview will start and the old interview will be locked. Be sure to stop in and get to know them better by asking them every nosey, intimate, personal question you can think of.

Try to ask only one question (or group of questions) per post, to make it easier for the interviewee to answer the questions, and also to allow for others to ask their questions.

Try to keep this thread about the person being interviewed. If you want to comment about things you discover you have in common or just elaborate on a response, pm them and make a new friend or start a new thread about it. This is intended to be a friendly thread, so please don’t ask anything in a purposeful attempt to get a heated debate. Of course, nobody is required to answer a question that they do not want to.

Also, please keep in mind that any answers you post are viewable to complete strangers. There is some risk in that. Again, all questions are optional.

We'll start each interview with a few overview questions to get things started:

Gender (if not a couple):
If a couple, which one primarily posts:
Age(s):
Birthday(s):
Location:
Relationship status:
Swinging for how long?:
Prefer to swing with:
Biggest Pet Peeve:
Brief Intro:
Picture (if you feel comfortable sharing one):
Website (your own or one of your favorites):

[cubnamy1995]

Hello everyone! Here is our info to start out
Cubby (Primary poster) age 34
Amy age 32
Birthdays: Him-Oct. 20, her-Sep. 8
We live in Texarkana, TX
We have been together for 13 years, married for 12 and swinging for 5
We really don't have much of a swing preference. We pretty much go with the flow of whoever we are with.
Our biggest pet peeve is couples who don't understand how hard it is to schedule playdates around 4 kids.

Here's our intro:

We are an early thirties couple that has settled into a good family life, and are searching for our next adventure. He is the cute and sexy, but goofy and loveable guy who can always make you laugh. She is the the outgoing, life of the party country girl who has never met a stranger. We are very open-minded and willing to try just about anything once. We have a very, "why the hell not" attitude.

She loves to dance, he loves to play golf. We have 4 kids from 9 mos old to 12 years old.

We can't wait to answer your questions. Thanks for having us Julie!

[cubnamy1995]

No takers?

[Swingercast]

1. Where can I pick up a pair of sunglasses like yours?

2. What clubs, if any, do you visit?

3. Any big swing plans in '08? Travel, fantasy or otherwise....

4. Cub, have you ever got a hole in 1?

5. Amy, what's your favorite type of dancing?

Looking forward to hearing from you,

John

[JustAskJulie]

So just how hard is it to schedule dates around 4 kids?

Seriously, what is your preferred method of meeting couples? Do you only play with couples?

[cubnamy1995]

Originally Posted by Swingercast

1. Where can I pick up a pair of sunglasses like yours?

2. What clubs, if any, do you visit?

3. Any big swing plans in '08? Travel, fantasy or otherwise....

4. Cub, have you ever got a hole in 1?

5. Amy, what's your favorite type of dancing?

Looking forward to hearing from you,

John

1) Those are limited-edition Microsoft Paint specials! I can make you a deal.

2) We live reasonably close to the Lagniappe Chateau in Shreveport, LA, but have never been. We have started to party with Spa City Connections in Hot Springs, AR. Nice people.

3) As a matter of fact, we do. We are attending a big C4P weekend in Hot Springs April 19 & 20. This summer we are going to try to hit a club or two in Dallas, and possibly Menage's on our way up to visit family in Virginia.

4) No, but I have finished an entire case of beer in 18 holes.

5) (Amy) Lap dancing is always fun.

[LFM2]

1. How many boys do you have vs. how many girls?

2. How did you two start discussing being in this crazy lifestyle?

3. Favorite book?

4. Favorite movie?

5. Favorite drink?

6. Favorite Food?

7. Favorite music genre?

[cubnamy1995]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

So just how hard is it to schedule dates around 4 kids?

Seriously, what is your preferred method of meeting couples? Do you only play with couples?

Oh good Lord, don't get us started...babysitters run away.

Our preferred method of meeting other couples is any way possible. LOL

Well, we started with singles. Our first experience was an MFM, which was followed by a FFM. We have, however reached the point to where we would probably lean more to couples. The drama seems to be much less. But what we really like is GROUPS!

[cubnamy1995]

Originally Posted by LFM2

1. How many boys do you have vs. how many girls?

2. How did you two start discussing being in this crazy lifestyle?

3. Favorite book?

4. Favorite movie?

5. Favorite drink?

6. Favorite Food?

7. Favorite music genre?

Okey Dokey, here you go:

1) 3 boys and the baby is a girl.

2) My wife came home and during sex told me a wonderful story of her and her best girlfriend. Great story. Turns out it was true. Go wifey!!! From there, my imagination led us here. Turns out she likes it quite a bit. Plus, in all honesty we get off on the fact that we do something privately that others would consider "naughty." We like the whole secret society feel to it.

3) Favorite book:
Him--Anything by Tom Clancy
Her--"The Celestine Prophecy" by James Redfield

4) Favorite movie:
Him--Every episode of Star Wars except Episode 1. George Lucas cheated us on that one.
Her--The Fox and the Hound (Awwww. How sweeeeet)

5) Favorite drink:
Him--I have 4. Each for a different occasion. If I'm watching sports--Guiness, out at a vanilla club--Whiskey Sour, out at a swinging event--Parrot Bay & Pineapple Juice, pissed off wanting to get in a bar fight--tequila shots.
Her--Margaritas

6) Favorite Food:
Him: Prime Rib (medium rare) with baked potato, house salad with 1000 island dressing. That just made me hungry.
Her: Home-grown garden tomatoes

7) Favorite Music genre:
Him: Classic Rock
Her: Country

I think that covers it. Wait, Amy also wanted me to point out that she likes milk, which I thought was a stupid idea, but she is making me put in anyway.

[BiloxiCouple]

How do we get ya'll naked?

[rpu3]

A 9-month old? Wow...

With one that young, are you currently able/willing to play? I know, 9 months isn't as young as 2 or 3 months, but wow, with 4 children... where do you find the time?!?

[cubnamy1995]

Originally Posted by BiloxiCouple

How do we get ya'll naked?

Show up. LOL

[cubnamy1995]

Originally Posted by rpu3

A 9-month old? Wow...

With one that young, are you currently able/willing to play? I know, 9 months isn't as young as 2 or 3 months, but wow, with 4 children... where do you find the time?!?

We started playing again a few months ago. As far as finding the time, it doesn't happen often, but we decided a long time ago that we would have to make time. If we didn't, it would become all about the kids and we would lose us in the process. We may only get to go all out a few times a year, but we try to at least have a date night once a month. Sometimes that includes swinging, sometimes it doesn't.

We have to be creative at times, for sure.

[Sico_tiko]

When playing together which position do u like most?

[cubnamy1995]

Originally Posted by Sico_tiko

When playing together which position do u like most?

Hmmm...there are so many LOL

She really likes doggy, while I tend to get more bounce per ounce off good, 'ole fashioned missionary. But what we would really like is to be acrobatic in a big orgy.

That's the problem with this country. Not enough orgies going on.