Beaverz - MOTW #24

[jennandjamesinm]

This week's Member of the Week is beaverz. We are glad to have them in the spotlight this week.

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Gender (if not a couple):
If a couple, which one primarily posts:
Age(s):
Birthday(s):
Location:
Relationship status:
Swinging for how long?:
Prefer to swing with:
Biggest Pet Peeve:
Brief Intro:
Picture (if you feel comfortable sharing one):
Website (your own or one of your favorites):
__________________

[sexyshelby]

What brought to the board?

Why/How did the swinging discussion start?

~SS

[beaverz]

Question: No limit, you can ask anything.
Gender (if not a couple): I’m male, wife is female
If a couple, which one primarily posts: I do almost all the posting, she may join under another user name at some point. She doesn’t visit near as much as me.
Age(s): I am 41, wife is 38
Birthday(s): me – 12/22 her - 9/27
Location: Indy
Relationship status: Married over 17 years according to the state of Indiana. I don’t consider it official until we get married by Elvis in Vegas. We are living in sin.
Swinging for how long?: We currently are not swingers, it’s something we are not in any hurry or want to rush.
Prefer to swing with: Right now we think it would be easier to start with a threesome and go from there, but you never know. I’m straight (with a slight curve ), she is straight, but is more open to try new things. I also have discussed maybe going to a club in Vegas sometime.
Biggest Pet Peeve: Those that force their moral values on others.
Brief Intro: We are a simple couple that has been together for over twenty years. Or should I say “she has put up with me for twenty years”. There is something to the saying “opposites do attract”. Our family and friends didn’t think that we could make it together. I think we have out lasted them all.

We both hated our wedding. It was possible the worst day of our marriage.

We started a family very early on, way early. Our youngest will be going off to college in a couple of years. We feel we will be fairly young at that point and are looking forward to experiencing new things together.
Picture (if you feel comfortable sharing one): Sorry no pictures
Website (your own or one of your favorites): I’m all over the place, I really don’t have a favorite.

[beaverz]

Why/How did the swinging discussion start?
I have always openly discussed my fantasy of having a MFF, but never really thought of it as a real possibility. Over last few years Mrs. Beaverz has opened up and stated she is interest in a MFM and maybe a FMF. We started discussing the possibilities. It’s added a new dimension to our sex life.

What brought to the board?
After she started showing interest in swinging I started looking for information on swinging. I found a few other sites and couple of users groups, but nothing compared to this site. There’s a lot of information here and the members are very friendly and interesting.

[lovedoctor]

Welcome to the hot-seat!

Where would you go for the perfect vacation?

If you could swing with anyone, who would that be?

[beaverz]

Thanks for the welcome Lovedoctor!

lovedoctor: Where would you go for the perfect vacation?Good question! My wife and I would like to go to Italy (myself for the history – I have a thing for history). I would also like to go to New Zealand, mainly for the natural beauty. But for the perfect vacation I would have to say a secluded resort on a hot beach with nothing to do, with the Mrs. of course.

lovedoctor: If you could swing with anyone, who would that be?My main interest in swinging is to see the Mrs. in action. There is nothing better than to see her squirm and scream with pleasure and I would like to take it to the next level. Originally I only wanted to see her with other women, but I have overcome some issues and now I am open to either a man or woman.
Now that I earned my brownie points
Diane Lane does it for me, man would I like to…. Next question

[Thrax]

Mmmmmm...Diane Lane... facelick

[Thrax]

Oh, I'm supposed to ask some questions.

Italy or NZ as vacation destinations? I highly recommend both. Just give yourself lots of time in either place, of course. But what has been your favorite vacation so far? Where did you go?

What are your favorite foods/cuisines?

What logo/picture/phrase appears on your most treasured t-shirt?

Thrax
P.S. Diane Lane... facelick

[beaverz]

Thrax: Oh, I'm supposed to ask some questions.

Observations and comments are also welcome.

Thrax: Italy or NZ as vacation destinations? I highly recommend both. Just give yourself lots of time in either place, of course.

We are just now starting to travel without our kids and we look forward to the longer and more exotic trips.

Thrax: But what has been your favorite vacation so far? Where did you go?

The first time we were able to afford to take a family vacations was special. It was a trip to Myrtle Beach SC for 10 days.

Thrax: What are your favorite foods/cuisines?There’s nothing that beats a good juicy prime rib.

Thrax: What logo/picture/phrase appears on your most treasured ?This somewhat relates to my Avatar. A buddy (that I use to work with) and I would try to come up with slogans for t-shirts (we had to travel together and there was a lot of drive time). We came up with “Show me the beaver” with a picture of the little beaver coming out of the zipper. My buddy had a few of the t-shirts made, he thought about trying to sell them outside of the Indy Motor Speedway with all the other “show us you tits” stuff, he never got to do it. Yes, to be young and stupid again. I didn’t wear mine a whole lot for obvious reasons, mainly just to amuse myself. I’m not sure want happened to that shirt (I think some type of foul play).

I really don’t have a whole lot with logos or pictures on them.

[The Fuse]

Beaverz,

Sorry about your wedding. I know the old toast "I hope your wedding day is the worst day of your marriage" isn't supposed to mean your wedding shouldn't be fun. Congrats on your long relationship.

Questions:

Now that you have won the "Wife has problems and can't/won't have sex" thread timing contest, what contest are you interested in entering next?

You mentioned a dislike of people who push their moral values on others. Is that a backlash against a strict upbringing, or just due to a (laudable) individualistic streak?

Originally Posted by Thrax

P.S. Diane Lane... facelick

Originally Posted by Thrax

Mmmmmm...Diane Lane... facelick

I'd like to know what happened during the six minutes between these two posts .

[sexyshelby]

Originally Posted by The Fuse

I'd like to know what happened during the six minutes between these two posts .

LMAO
Too funny! Very good observation!

~SS

[beaverz]

The Fuse: Sorry about your wedding. We laugh about it now.
The Fuse: Congrats on your long relationship. Thanks


The Fuse: Now that you have won the "Wife has problems and can't/won't have sex" thread timing contest, what contest are you interested in entering next? I need to check with SexyShelby and see if she would like to go in half on a PowerBall Lottery Ticket.

The Fuse: You mentioned a dislike of people who push their moral values on others. Is that a backlash against a strict upbringing, or just due to a (laudable) individualistic streak?It’s more of the latter it’s a mentality that I have developed over the years. Some of it does come from certain family members, some comes from friends and some from dealing a lot with churches.

[beaverz]

I might be reaching here, but I think Thrax also has a thing for Diane Lane.

[sexyshelby]

Hmmm...PowerBall... Very tempting!
But didn't those factory workers just win the big one? I mean it would be kind of anti-climatic to win a small $2.5 Million...espeically after our HUGE prize here!

What would you do if you won the lottery?

~SS

[beaverz]

Sexyshelby: What would you do if you won the lottery?

I would call home and tell Mrs. Beaverz I just hit the lottery so pack her backs and no we are not taking a trip.

I just want her out of the house by the time I get home. Just Kidding, old joke.

I would make sure certain people around me were taken care of (some family and some friends) then the Mrs. and I would hit the road. We would like to end up in a place with a warm climate all year around we are not fond of the cold. I would like to end up the southwest somewhere, she wants somewhere near a beach. I would more and likely not work, I would find more hobbies.