MOTW #23 - Pinmonkey

[jennandjamesinm]

This week's Member of the Week is Pinmonkey. We are glad to have him in the spotlight this week.

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[Pinmonkey]

Question limit (as the interviewee you may limit the questions on a per post or per user basis if you wish): No limit.

Gender (if not a couple): Male

If a couple, which one primarily posts: I do. My wife is registered, but only rarely visits.

Age(s): I am 33, my wife will be 35 on Friday

Birthday(s): me - 1/4 her - 2/10

Location: Buffalo, NY area

Relationship status: Married

Swinging for how long?: I don't even know to be honest. I think it was right around the time I joined the board.

Prefer to swing with: I don't really have a preference. Single men, Single women, couples. (My wife isn't too big on the single woman thing though...)

Biggest Pet Peeve: Bad/slow drivers.

Brief Intro: My wife actually started us on this adventure. At some point she decided that she might want to be with a woman so she started looking. It then evolved into being with couples. We aren't what you would call active swingers... more like passive swingers. There is one couple that we've been with mostly. Are thinking of a single male but our schedules haven't worked out yet. We still concider ourselves to be novices because in all this time we really haven't seen alot of action. But that's fine. I let my wife handle it all. I figure I'm ready whenever, for whatever she is, so I'll let her call the shots.

Picture (if you feel comfortable sharing one): Most of my face can be seen in my profile.

Website (your own or one of your favorites): I don't really have an interesting personal site so I'll go with ESPN or www.hockeybuzz.com

[sexyshelby]

Hi Pinmonkey,

Are you a breast man or an ass man?

Just out of curiousity, why is your wife not into swinging with single women?

Thanks.
~SS

[Pinmonkey]

Definately a breast man.

She tried to be with a woman, and found that it wasn't for her.

[dragonblade]

What made you choose the name PinMonkey?

So you and your wife have kids?

How long have you two been married?

What is the craziest thing (besides swing if you think that's crazy :P) that you and your wife have done together?

~Blade~

[Pinmonkey]

What made you choose the name PinMonkey? Pinmonkey is the name of a one-hit-wonder country bad. I dug the song they had (barbed wire and roses) and it stuck.

So you and your wife have kids? No we don't have kids.

How long have you two been married? Three years in May. We've been together for 14 years though.

What is the craziest thing (besides swing if you think that's crazy :P) that you and your wife have done together? Hummm.... to be honest, I can't really think of anything too crazy that we did. Of course crazy is kind of a relative term. For instance some people might think that jumping out of an airplane is a perfectly normal thing to do, while I look at them and think they have somekind of mental imbalance. I mean, we used to have sex in her parent's partially finished basement, which was more stupid than crazy (we were 19ish) We've skinny dipped in her parents pool, but I don't think that's crazy, just kinda wild and erotic.

[LikeMinds321]

Hi Pinmonkey!

I like the shirt you're wearing in your profile picture. I can't imagine you wearing any other type of shirt. Do you still wear it? What color is/was it?

If you leave it up to your wife to find couples for you, does she know how to find woman with breasts you like? Or are breasts not all that important to you when finding a swing partner?

Who cooks better, you or your wife?

What are your favorite meals for breakfast, lunch, and dinner?

Do you shave your body, if so, where?

LM

[Pinmonkey]

WOW lots of questions!

I like the shirt you're wearing in your profile picture. I can't imagine you wearing any other type of shirt. Do you still wear it? What color is/was it? First thank you. That picture was taken at a company christmas party a few years ago. It's a gey shirt, that was probably a combination of silk/polyester. It's grey with black buttons. I wore it under a black pinstripped suit. I don't wear it much anymore.

If you leave it up to your wife to find couples for you, does she know how to find woman with breasts you like? Or are breasts not all that important to you when finding a swing partner? She knows what I like. Breasts are just breasts... I like them all so long as they aren't so big they can crush a beer can.

Who cooks better, you or your wife? I'd have to say me, but she is getting better. She definately bakes better. I love cooking.

What are your favorite meals for breakfast, lunch, and dinner? I don't eat breakfast much, but when I do, my favorite is a bacon cheese burger on a begal. Lunch is whatever... I'm not really picky. My favorite dinner is either a turkey dinner, or thai chicken.

Do you shave your body, if so, where? I shave my face and neck. (most of the time.) I also try to keep the boys smooth, and the grass mowed close.

[EvilMJ]

Hey Pin!!

Would you run away with me and participate in my strange adventures??.. I promise you will have lots of fun. I'll even let you in the van...

So tell me.... what fantasy do you have that you have yet to live out.

What do you do for fun?

Are you a morning person?? Favorite Colour?

Anything about you that you think I would appreciate (knowing I have a strange sense of humour)..

Come on Pin..spill it all!!

I just LOVE it that you are on the hot seat by the way!!

[jennandjamesinm]

Favorite Sport to watch? Participate in?

Were the Seahawks robbed or was it a combo of things?

The one habit that you have that drives your wife nuts?

The one habit that your wife has that drives you nuts?

Jenn

[Pinmonkey]

[b]Would you run away with me and par...[\b] yes. but only if you let me wear your underwear on my head.

So tell me.... what fantasy do you have that you have yet to live out. I would like to have that mfm threesome that the wife and have been talking about. A ffm would be good too.

What do you do for fun? I bowl. I shoot trap. I play videogames and watch hockey.

Are you a morning person?? Not when I first wake up. Give me a half hour to clear my head before talking to me.

Favorite Colour? Haha Canadians are so funny with adding that extra "u" in color. But it's blue.

Anything about you that you think I would appreciate (knowing I have a strange sense of humour).. I once ate a donut with hot sauce on it just because my brother said I wouldn't. In that same vain, one time we met our "friends" at a hotel that we later found out was also full of a church group. And after we all had had a good time, the other male said something about putting on my wife's panties, so I did and skipped around the room. They all laughed.

Come on Pin..spill it all!!

I just LOVE it that you are on the hot seat by the way!! I was wondering why my ass was so warm.

[Pinmonkey]

Favorite Sport to watch? hockey with football a close second.

Participate in? Sex is a spectator sport right? If not then I'll have to say trap shooting. It used to be driveway hockey, but now I'm old and out of shape. I used to love bike riding. I will have to try to get out on it more this sommer. The other think I want to try is geocashing.

Were the Seahawks robbed or was it a combo of things? I don't think they were helped by the refs. Infact if you notice, the whole first half of the game showed only promos of steeler players with the trophy. The first seahawk showed up after half time and then there was 3 of them and 4 steelers after half time. Of course the Seahawks had to help themselves alittle too.

The one habit that you have that drives your wife nuts? I'm actually kind of ashamed to admit this, but I bit my nails and then chew on them. My wife hates that. I know it's pretty gross, but it's something I've done my whole life and can't seem to stop myself. Half the time I don't even know I"m doing it.

The one habit that your wife has that drives you nuts? She tends to inturrupt me. I don't think she means to do it, but it pisses me off at time. She also likes to talk over something I think is interesting on tv or the radio. (So I turn it up a bit to hear it, but that only succeeds in making her talk louder to be heard over the radio.)

[WildMiCouple]

Originally Posted by Pinmonkey

[/b]What do you do for fun?[/b]...I shoot trap.

Ahhhhhhh.....someone who enjoys shooting

-What is your favorite shotgun you use and your best score?
-What shotgun would be on your wish list?
-Have you tried sporting clays?

-Were you and others in Buffalo pissed when Dominek Hasek was traded to the Wings and he won the cup?
-Have you ever drank out of the cup?
Tammy and I did Had it in our yard for one hell of a party Our neighbor's son played for the Devils when they swept the Wings.

Oh yeah......swinger question
If it were up to you, would you still be "passive" swingers?

Brett

[Pinmonkey]

-What is your favorite shotgun you use and your best score? I use an old 1100 12 ga that my father used to hunt with. My highest score is a 24. It was in the final week of the league. I missed the last gosh darned bird.

-What shotgun would be on your wish list? I'd like a Browning, but to be honest, I haven't shot anything other than this 1100 and I love it.

-Have you tried sporting clays? Not yet. There is a club a couple of minutes away from me that has them, but just haven't gotten there yet.

-Were you and others in Buffalo pissed when Dominek Hasek was traded to the Wings and he won the cup? I can't speak for everyone in Buffalo, but I remember at the time Dom demanded that he be traded from Buffalo. I personally feel that if you don't like it here, go ahead and leave. Most people thought Dom had run his course anyway and it was time for him to move on. Most people were pissed that the Sabres didn't get anything back for him. As for winning the cup, I can't say I was pissed. He was great for the community while he was here (as long as you weren't a sports reporter, and not on the ice.) There was a lot of tension between him and team, and I feel he let in the Kasperitus goal in the last play offs he played here on purpose.

-Have you ever drank out of the cup? I have not. I've touched it when it made the tour in '99 of the last four cities in the playoffs, but that's as close as I got.

Tammy and I did Had it in our yard for one hell of a party Our neighbor's son played for the Devils when they swept the Wings. That is way cool. I hear that Scotty Boweman had it on his porch for a while after his last cup win. He lives on a golf course around here. And he would let golfers come up and see it and take pictures and what not. He is a very cool guy. Wish he could have won us a cup while he was here, but our ownership was a little screwed up at the time.

Oh yeah......swinger question
If it were up to you, would you still be "passive" swingers? I've seen people on here say that they aren't so much a part of the lifestyle as the lifestyle is a part of them (or something like that.) For me, it's more of an added bonus. I am happy with the way things are in our relationship as it is, but sometimes, I would love to be one of the people going to house parties everyweekend involved in no holds barred orgies.

[Pinmonkey]

Originally Posted by dragonblade

So you and your wife have kids?
~Blade~

looks like I need to update this. I found out on Friday that we have one on the way.