Sweet_Candy - MOTW #19

jennandjamesinm · 12-06-2005, 09:02 PM

This week's Member of the Week is Sweet_Candy. We are glad to have them in the spotlight this week.

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Sweet_Candy · 12-07-2005, 07:18 AM

If a couple, which one primarily post: Sweet (he) does most of the reading and post. Candy (she) reads post and adds commentary on subjects she's interested in.

Age(s): Sweet is 43, Candy is 31

Birthday(s): 03-05-62, 12-27-73

Location: We live in a large suburb west of Houston.

Relationship status: Married for 9 yrs.

Swinging for how long?: We’ve been involved with the lifestyle since Feb. 2005

Prefer to swing with: Couples

Biggest Pet Peeve: People meddling in other's affairs.

Brief Intro:

Candy is 5' 4" tall with dark brown hair, brown eyes, toned, neatly trimmed, and very pretty and extremely sexual.

Sweet is 5' 10" tall with brown hair with a touch of gray, blue eyes, athletic build and neatly trimmed. He is generous, thoughtful, and fun loving.

We are educated, friendly, outgoing, adventurous and open to the world of possibilities. We enjoy stimulating conversation, on any subject or level, and laughter in abundance.

Our kids are top priority; grownup playtime is hard to come by, but highly valued, so planning is required. We both exercise and do family things (pool, walks, antiquing, museums, etc.). We have recently renewed efforts to go out more without the kids, and love listening to live music.

Website (your own or one of your favorites): www.couplestouch.com our personal ad site and online chat. www.swingersboard.com lets not forget these forums. These are the two sites we visit the most. Also visit AP, Reuters, and BBC throughout the day for news fix.

Posted our pic in avatar

**TNT** · 12-07-2005, 10:36 AM

Which one of you brought up the idea of swinging?

What type of live music do you two like to go listen to?

Teresa

BodyScape02 · 12-07-2005, 12:08 PM

Welcome to the spotlight...

What are your favorite movies?

What book (or periodical) is currently on your nightstand?

What one song describes each of you best?

Boxers or briefs?

Thongs or panties?

How do you integrate running a for profit website into your daily life and into your play life?

Does it ever take over your life ( I.e. end up being "the tail that wagged the dog")?

I noticed your faces are displayed on your profile... very brave. It is something many of us would not choose to do, out of fear of being "discovered" by our relatives or children.

What made you choose to be so brave and do you worry about being "outed" as a swinger?

Are there precautions you have taken to hide it from your children that you would recommend to the rest of us?

What is the best thing about swinging?

What is the worst thing about swinging?

What do you think is the biggest misconception about the lifestyle that people outside of it hold?

~Cat

***JustAskJulie*** · 12-07-2005, 12:59 PM

I see that Candy is a Christmas baby. I'm pretty close to Christmas myself, did you often get stuck with combined gifts? Or feel over-looked on your birthday with it being so close to Christmas?

Sweet_Candy · 12-07-2005, 01:31 PM

Wow! Good questions from all. Going to wait until Candy is home and allow her to read before replying. One question does need clarifying...we don’t own a website . . .we are members of CT.

Sweet_Candy · 12-07-2005, 07:20 PM

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Originally Posted by TNT

Which one of you brought up the idea of swinging?

Sweet did. A real surprise to Candy (me), because Sweet does not seem like the type. It had been on my mind before, but I never said anything because Sweet talks the "one-woman man" talk AND he walks the walk. I could wish I'd said something before, but Sweet keeps me happy and satisfied. I wondered why the idea appealed to me, since I couldn't come up with any reason for it other than multiple penetration.

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Originally Posted by TNT

What type of live music do you two like to go listen to?
Teresa

We have enjoyed Blues and/or Jazz in intimate venues, even if they are a little smoky.

Candy

Jamie&Kieth · 12-07-2005, 08:18 PM

Hi,

How many kids? Ages?

Ever been to a nudist resort/camp?

Favorite Sport?
Favorite team?

Funniest Swinging Experience?

Weirdest Swinging Experience?

Favorite Jazz musician
Favorite Blues musician?

Sweet_Candy · 12-07-2005, 08:39 PM

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