lovedoctor - MOTW # 10

[lovedoctor]

Hey CIO, Let's see if I can answer your excellent questions.

1. Who is more of the Attention Getting in your relationship? I know for me its the hubby hes quite the social butterfly I just sit on the wayside and Wait my turn usually.

-I am more out going, but Mr. LD is HOT so he gets a lot of attention from being a cutie!!!

2. When on a playdate who generally makes the first move you guys or your Playmates?

-We don't have all that much experience yet, but it seems like it's sort of a mutual thing. Like we start out just playing with our partners in side by side play and then end up in the pile up!

3. Please Discribe one sexual Fantasy in Detail that you have Never done but would love to before your threw with this lifestyle?

-You mean besides taking on the entire Tampa Bay Lightning in their locker room post game, in the shower? OK, well I did want to bring home this really cute but not-so-bright yet hot looking 21 year old who works at the gym. I asked my husband and he said ok, but I think it freaked him out. Now he won't even talk to me, he thinks I'm being disrespectful to the hubby! LOL. Anyway, I would have liked to snuck him into the bedroom quietly, gently disrobed him, sucked him til he couldn't take it anymore and then fucked him while I was blowing my hubby. Yum! Then, of course, I would ask him to leave.

4. Twinkies or Ding dongs?

-Neither, sugar is satanic. I would pick something salty like onion rings!

5. Coffee or Tea?

-Coffee, preferably a latte from Starbucks (Starbucks is also satanic! LOL)

[lovedoctor]

Originally Posted by curiousduo30

Welcome to the hot seat, I mean, spotlight...

What is your favorite cuisine?
What is your favorite beverage?

"Can you tell I am hungry?" lol

~Mrs. Curiousduo30

Mr. LD LOVEs sushi. I like seafood, but prefer stone crab with butter. Yum!

Mr. LD favors a manhattan, up. I like Code Red Diet Mtn Dew with a twist of lime. Everything is better with a lime. Especially a margarita with Patron and Grand Mariner! Slurp!!!

[lovedoctor]

Originally Posted by jennandjamesinm

Your best swinging experience?

Your worst swinging experience?

Your first swinging experience?

Your funniest swinging experience?

Jenn (who's mind is on swinging LOL)

Our best is yet to come! It just keeps getting better. Since we are new and a little self conscious yet.

Our worst is the one experience we didn't end up doing. The couple was just not right for us and we knew it... so we politely declined. But we still learned a lot!

Our first was with our friends and we met in the mountains like we always do for spring break. We had talked about doing this ahead of time, so it was pretty tense. But again, we learned a lot. It was a very hot weekend for that time of year!

The last couple we met, who are quite a bit younger than us, were just so funny. We joked about things ahead of time, that helped break the tension and we just kept it going - he did his masters in sexual behavior and so, he was excellent at putting us codgers at ease. We all had a really great experience.

[EvilMJ]

We have a lot of both enthusiasts up here, can’t say that I am one of them but I suspect it is due to the fact that we can’t afford a boat. However, I do love living near the water.
Have you always lived in Florida? What would you say is the best thing about living there?

What type of movie is you favourite?

What falls into the ‘definitely not’ category of swnging for you, and what sort of things do you really want to try?

How do you meet people, in a club, on line? Or other?

I love Rob Thomas too..

[lovedoctor]

Originally Posted by EvilMJ

We have a lot of both enthusiasts up here, can’t say that I am one of them but I suspect it is due to the fact that we can’t afford a boat. However, I do love living near the water.
Have you always lived in Florida? What would you say is the best thing about living there?

What type of movie is you favourite?

What falls into the ‘definitely not’ category of swnging for you, and what sort of things do you really want to try?

How do you meet people, in a club, on line? Or other?

I love Rob Thomas too..

Hi EvilMJ! I love your photo in your avatar, BTW. Very devilish, LOL

Have you always lived in Florida? What would you say is the best thing about living there?

-The Mr and I have lived in FL since the mid eighties. We are originally from the midwest, but escaped there (no offense, please!!) when we realized that the Mississippi River was not the body of water we wanted to play on for our life. Other than a short stint back in the Midwest in the early 90's we have lived in the Tampa Bay area. We do not live right close to the water, but keep our boat in Apollo Beach, about 30 min south of here. We live in the same town we work in, so there is no commute. That way we look FORWARD to our only commute, which is to play on our boat! The water is DEFINATELY the best thing about living here, I know you will agree. We really want to visit your providence some time - we hear it is lovely up there!

What type of movie is you favourite?

-Mr. LD adores Jackie Chan and history movies.
I like movies that have to do with music (Like "Almost Famous" - that's my favorite) and of course, chick flicks upon occasion...

What falls into the ‘definitely not’ category of swnging for you, and what sort of things do you really want to try?

-I don't want to do anal with anyone but Mr. LD, but who knows, that may change. I really want to try a DP and so does Mr. LD- however that is a few lbs away yet!

How do you meet people, in a club, on line? Or other?

-Mostly, since we are still so inexperienced, we have played with friends. But we have also met couples on line. And we are talking about going to a club here in the Bay area.

I love Rob Thomas too..

-Then you know what it's all about!! I am a bit of a freak; when Rob tours, nothing much matters but that. I will see him more than 30 times in a year if I can. But now that I own my business, I am limiting this fall to 6 times. I feel like I am on a Rob-reducing diet!!! And it pisses me off, but that's the way it has to be. OK, and if you REALLY love him, then you also understand the "Ultimate Fantasy!!"

[DBL D]

Hi LD...nice to see you in the spotlight!

Funny thing about a boat isn't it? Something about the combination of smells and the rocking on the water....Are cabin cruisers' captains and his 1st mate allowed to come to your party?

Loved the story about Henley...So speaking of fantasies... facelick
What fantasies are you hoping to fulfill through swinging or is being with other people enough?

How far away is your boat from you?

How far out to sea have you been and have you had any swinging experiences on it?

Male D

[lovedoctor]

Originally Posted by DBL D

Hi LD...nice to see you in the spotlight!

Funny thing about a boat isn't it? Something about the combination of smells and the rocking on the water....Are cabin cruisers' captains and his 1st mate allowed to come to your party?

Loved the story about Henley...So speaking of fantasies... facelick
What fantasies are you hoping to fulfill through swinging or is being with other people enough?

How far away is your boat from you?

How far out to sea have you been and have you had any swinging experiences on it?

Male D

Funny thing about a boat isn't it? Something about the combination of smells and the rocking on the water....Are cabin cruisers' captains and his 1st mate allowed to come to your party?

-Of course you speed freaks are always welcome to join us for a day of warmth and water. We would love to have Cap D and his first mate on board!

Loved the story about Henley...So speaking of fantasies... facelick
What fantasies are you hoping to fulfill through swinging or is being with other people enough?

-I have the occasional rock-star fantasy, but no, I will never be casting anyone's penis in plaster - well, unless I am asked to do so! Then I would have to do the respectful thing and go along with what is asked of me But other than that, I am going into this without a lot of preconcieved notions ~ it works better for me that way. Other way I get way too caught up in the process and get myself all stressed out! It's better if I just go with the flow.

How far away is your boat from you?

It's about a 30 min drive from where we live to where we keep our boat. It would be soooo nice to have a place on the water so we could go spend a few minutes just hanging out or taking a little cruise at night. But we love our little town and don't want to move. We hope eventually to let our daughter and her hubby have our house, and just keep a room for us when we get tired of the constant rocking motion of living on a boat.

How far out to sea have you been and have you had any swinging experiences on it?

-We go down the coast and to the keys with our friends on their 36' Hunter, but so far our boat hasn't made it beyond the Skyway Bridge. It just hasn't been ready for that trip yet. We will be taking some weekend trips out to Egmont Key and up the coast a little this fall. We will "go" for a weekend, anchor for the week, our daughter will pick us up and we will head out again the next weekend. That's our first big sailing goal this winter. We just want to get out of the bay!

We have not had any swinging experience on the boat, but we have played between ourselves. It's the best!!! There's always a first time tho, and that is another goal for this winter! facelick

[Jamie&Kieth]

Have you ever done any swinging on your sailboat ( I know it's tight ... curious )

Ever chartered a sailboat in the Carribean?

Ever go to a nude beach?

If you had a choice what sailboat would you like to have if money was no object?

[lovedoctor]

Originally Posted by Jamie&Kieth

Have you ever done any swinging on your sailboat ( I know it's tight ... curious )

Ever chartered a sailboat in the Carribean?

Ever go to a nude beach?

If you had a choice what sailboat would you like to have if money was no object?

1) No (see above)

2) Not yet!

3) No, and that's not in the cards.

4) I would have a brand new Tartan 37. No question about it!

[lostnwilds]

as a merchant seaman i can realy agree with the sailboat coments welcom to the group

[lovedoctor]

Originally Posted by lostnwilds

as a merchant seaman i can realy agree with the sailboat coments welcom to the group

Thanks! Is it true you merchant seamen have a girl in every port?

[jennandjamesinm]

Ok y'all it's Lovedoctor's last day on the hot seat - so you better get those questions in while ya can!!!

And While I'm at it - here are a few more from me....

What is the craziest thing you have ever done?
Biggest challenge in you life?
What do you fear?
What attracts you to a couple or a single that you swing with?
Top or Bottom?
Sunrise or Sunset?
Coke or Pepsi?
What advice would you give newbies?
Anything else that you would like to share with us that we haven't asked?
Finally - Have you had fun this week????

Jenn

[lovedoctor]

Hey Jenn and James!!

(And thanks Julie for opening up this thread for a moment so I could finish up with last weeks questions...we have been out of town enjoying a business trip to San Francisco, so I have been a bit out of sync with the cyber world the last few days!)

-The craziest thing I have ever done was to forgo my common sense and follow my favorite band (matchbox twenty) on the road for a total of 33 shows in one year. I spent a fortune, pissed off my husband to no end, stressed our marriage financially and learned more about myself than I could have ever imagined possible. And I would do it all again if I could - but I am learning to follow my desires within reason now...I'm sure in my next life I will be a roadie or a musician, but for this life, I will just be a fan!

-I don't know what the biggest challenge will be, since it is still to come. Probably to this point, it has been getting through college, professional school and postgrad training with my marriage and family still intact.

-I fear the perfect storm. Both physically and metaphyscially! But I believe in facing my fears head on. I rarely back down (unless it is to my advantage to do so...)

-We are both very attracted to a couple that is happy between themselves - we watch their interactions closely. I am mostly attracted in a physical sense to someone's eyes - be it male or female, I enjoy that twinkle! Mr. LD is attracted to a person who is self confident and outgoing; but he did say that a nice set of headlights is always good!

-Mr. LD likes to change up depending on his mood. I like to have one knee on the bed and the other on the floor. (LOL, I also order my dressing on the side...)

-Sunset, without a doubt. However, we have been able to manage seeing the sunrise while out here on the west coast.

-Coke, if it's not diet soda, but I rarely do the fully loaded stuff. If it's diet (the usual) - then I prefer diet Pepsi. But I LOVE diet Code Red!!! (I know,that wasn't one of the choices... :rollseyes )

-I would advise the newbies to use common sense and to trust their judgement on things. Know what you want, but learn to avoid overcontrol. Balance in everything!

-Nope!

-We had a blast! Thank you all very much for the opportunity - it was fun to be in the hot seat. And I will now turn that hot seat back over to Intuition !

[jennandjamesinm]

Thanks Lovedoctor for letting us get into your head!! It's been a fun week with ya

Jenn and James

[DBL D]

We love your outlook on life as well, LD, and thank you so much for letting us get to know you better!

DBL D