CuriousInOregon - MOTW # 8

[LikeMinds321]

It's good to see you in the spotlight!

1) Name three of your favorite movies.

2) Name three of your favorite books/poems/short stories.

3) Name three of the most memorable moments in your life.

LM

[CuriousInOregon]

my three favorite movies are Threesome, Willy wonka and the chocolate factory the Original and Legends of the Fall

I like Anything written by Beatrice Small (major historical romance fan here) I write my own poetry, and Like most by Poe, Smalls and Whitmore

The Three Most memorable moments in my life is a hard one I have 4 kids so I will roll that into one and of course my Wedding day When he looked into my eyes fighting back the tears of love My heart just melted, And I will have to say that the last thing is my Everyday life, I am surrounded by love life and laughter from my family husband kids and friends Who can ask for more that that?

[CuriousInOregon]

Well I know I am supposed to be the one being asked questions but I have one for all of you. We have had one experience and it was with a couple that we truely "connected" with , We also were talking to them for along time online and worked out almost every single detail down to oral techniques that worked bestfor all of us That being said, Here is my question......... are any of you still nervous to meet new people?

[LikeMinds321]

Originally Posted by CuriousInOregon

Well I know I am supposed to be the one being asked questions but I have one for all of you. We have had one experience and it was with a couple that we truely "connected" with , We also were talking to them for along time online and worked out almost every single detail down to oral techniques that worked bestfor all of us That being said, Here is my question......... are any of you still nervous to meet new people?

Do you mean after meeting so many people does the nervous feeling of a first meet go away?

I think it does. It has for us. There is still the excitement of anticipation, but I've not felt nervous for a long time. Don't know when it disappeared, it just did. With each new meet MrLM and I come away wiser. We gain through each experience. We always note what the lessons are, what we did right, what we did wrong, what red flags we failed to heed, what pleasant surprises we never expected. With each experience our confidence builds and a new calm carries us.

One thing I've found, if we share too much about our likes and dislikes, we are more inclined to worry about performance. If we only clarify the basic rules of play and let each other discover preferred technique while we play, it takes the pressure off us. Discovery is what makes swinging fun.

LM

[EvilMJ]

Hell Curious, I am nervous about meeting people i know..lol.

We don't do a lot of on line meeting, we have parties, dances, etc, and kinda get to know each other that way, but making the first move is always nerve racking.

So who is the person that makes the first move with you guys?
Most adventuous and likely to do those crazy things?

[CuriousInOregon]

Thank you very much LM for your words of encouragement I too hope the nerves will just melt away

[CuriousInOregon]

Originally Posted by EvilMJ

Hell Curious, I am nervous about meeting people i know..lol.

We don't do a lot of on line meeting, we have parties, dances, etc, and kinda get to know each other that way, but making the first move is always nerve racking.

So who is the person that makes the first move with you guys?
Most adventuous and likely to do those crazy things?

I am going to say Mr. Curious is the Go getter, He is an all around Social butterfly, I do have to say that when its just him and I alone in our privacy I have become rather "ravanous" from time to time but its few and far between.

[Jamie&Kieth]

My husband, for all the brains he has he can't figure out the computer, he can read everything on this board but then writes down questions on on stickey pads for me to ask.

He is curious, (feels wierd about this because he claims nobody else works with children & adults on this board) anyway ...

How long has your husband coached football?

What age groups?

Did he play football high school, college?

MY Questions

I think my husband likes your husband (LOL)

Do you like football?

Do you have kids & how many?

OK thats enough ... sorry to bore you

[CuriousInOregon]

He is curious, (feels wierd about this because he claims nobody else works with children & adults on this board) anyway ...

How long has your husband coached football? Technically he has been coaching football for 13 yrs He started when he was 18 I believe He may come back and correct that later, But He has been active in coaching all sports since before we had met. Which was 6 yrs ago.

What age groups? He prefers The middle school age for coaching I belive because he can be more aggressive and teach better tactics but Hes not discrimante of anything, Right now he has 2 teams a Middle school one thats 7/8th grade and one with The BGC 4/5th grade.

Did he play football high school, college? No he did not get that oppertunity He is a small man only 4ft8 and about 100 lbs growing up he never weighed more than 85lbs. I think that His mom was scared for him because of his size again He may come back and correct this hehehe.

MY Questions

I think my husband likes your husband (LOL)

Do you like football? Yes I like to watch the games Its fun to hooot and hollar, We go to alot of Collage games We are in Oregon so we have 2 major universitys there are the Beavers which is OSU and the Ducks which is UofO You see Im a beaver fan and he is a Duck fan so come the end of the year we have someting called Civil war which pits the two teams aginst each other in a kindof play off and winner gets bragging rights for the year. ( If you husband is a football buff he would know what it was)

Do you have kids & how many? Yes we have4 GBGB ages 9,5,4,2

[two4youinswva]

Originally Posted by CuriousInOregon

You see Im a beaver fan

I'm a real big "beaver fan" too!


What's your favorite TV channel?

[dowifes]

beaver tv.

[CuriousInOregon]

Well my week in the spotlight is just about up I just wanted to Thank everyone for saying hi and getting to know me better, I will be sure to repay the favor when your in the Spotlight I am sure, Its been great answering questions. Mr. Curious and I thank you and wish you Happy swinging .

[jennandjamesinm]

Just throwing a bunch of different ones at you - If you have answered these, please forgive me....


Craziest thing you have ever done?

Pepsi or Coke?

Sunrise or sunset?

Top or bottom?

Hard & fast or soft & slow?

What makes your marriage strong?

What are your fantasies?

Dream Car?

If you had to give one piece to a newbies, what would that advice be?

Anything else that you would like to tell us about you?

Have you had fun this week?


Jenn

[CuriousInOregon]

Craziest thing you have ever done? Got Caught gettin busy in a McDonalds Bathroom and got Kicked out for a whole yr.

Pepsi or Coke? Pepsi

Sunrise or sunset? Sunset

Top or bottom? Bottom

Hard & fast or soft & slow? hard and fast Most of the time

What makes your marriage strong? Love, trust, and Commitment are the 3 componants of our marriage, Without any of them we would be filing for divorce in my personal opinion

What are your fantasies? My Biggest fantasy is to Video tape other couples while having sex or Better yet my husband and another woman or couple. Im quite the Vouyer and Dont have much oppertunity to do so, There are not alot of single women out there that are willing to F**K my husband to death and let me watch let alone tape it.

Dream Car? 1964 1/2 Mustang Convertable

If you had to give one piece to a newbies, what would that advice be? My one bit of advice was given to me by a Great friend and that was this : Make sure this is something that you both want to do, Not any amount of swinging in the world will make your relationship better if its already in a bad spot, This is not something that you should do as a last resort to "save" the relationship you should do it to Enhance that already WONDERFUL relationship you have.

Anything else that you would like to tell us about you? Well I think the only thing I have Never touched on this board is my Vouyerism Fetish now that I have told ya about that, I would also like to say that I want a Hood piercing but am not ready to take the step to let someone go after my Vagina with a needle OMG what if he misses NOPE not yet

Have you had fun this week? Yes I have had tremendous fun Actully Thank everyone so much for making me feel so special.

[JustAskJulie]

What has been the biggest question/debate that you and your husband have had regarding swinging? Was there ever really any debate/issues over the topic? Or have you been primarily in agreeance since you brought it up?