Starlinn - MOTW #6

[jennandjamesinm]

This weeks Member of the Week is starlinn We are glad to have her in the spotlight this week.

Swingers Board interviews are a way for us to get to know each other better. It is a way to acknowledge just how wonderfully varied a community we are. Every Wednesday, a new interview will start and the old interview will be locked. Be sure to stop in and get to know them better by asking them every nosey, intimate, personal question you can think of.

Every SwingersBoard member is allowed to ask the amount of questions specified by the interviewee in the answers to the default questions. If they discover that they chose too high or low a limit, they may change their choice.

Try to keep this thread about the person being interviewed. If you want to comment about things you discover you have in common or just elaborate on a response, pm them and make a new friend or start a new thread about it. This is intended to be a friendly thread, so please don’t ask anything in a purposeful attempt to get a heated debate. Of course, nobody is required to answer a question that they do not want to.

Also, please keep in mind that any answers you post are viewable to complete strangers. There is some risk in that. Again, all questions are optional.

We'll start each interview with a few overview questions to get things started:

Question limit (as the interviewee you may limit the questions on a per post or per user basis if you wish):
Gender (if not a couple):
If a couple, which one primarily posts:
Age(s):
Birthday(s):
Location:
Relationship status:
Swinging for how long?:
Prefer to swing with:
Biggest Pet Peeve:
Brief Intro:
Picture (if you feel comfortable sharing one):
Website (your own or one of your favorites):

[starlinn]

Originally Posted by jennandjamesinm

This weeks Member of the Week is starlinn We are glad to have her in the spotlight this week.

Swingers Board interviews are a way for us to get to know each other better. It is a way to acknowledge just how wonderfully varied a community we are. Every Wednesday, a new interview will start and the old interview will be locked. Be sure to stop in and get to know them better by asking them every nosey, intimate, personal question you can think of.

Every SwingersBoard member is allowed to ask the amount of questions specified by the interviewee in the answers to the default questions. If they discover that they chose too high or low a limit, they may change their choice.

Try to keep this thread about the person being interviewed. If you want to comment about things you discover you have in common or just elaborate on a response, pm them and make a new friend or start a new thread about it. This is intended to be a friendly thread, so please don’t ask anything in a purposeful attempt to get a heated debate. Of course, nobody is required to answer a question that they do not want to.

Also, please keep in mind that any answers you post are viewable to complete strangers. There is some risk in that. Again, all questions are optional.

We'll start each interview with a few overview questions to get things started:

Question limit (as the interviewee you may limit the questions on a per post or per user basis if you wish):
Gender (if not a couple):
If a couple, which one primarily posts:
Age(s):
Birthday(s):
Location:
Relationship status:
Swinging for how long?:
Prefer to swing with:
Biggest Pet Peeve:
Brief Intro:
Picture (if you feel comfortable sharing one):
Website (your own or one of your favorites):

Question limit (as the interviewee you may limit the questions on a per post or per user basis if you wish):As many as anyone wants to ask
Gender (if not a couple):
If a couple, which one primarily posts:Starlinn posts all the time, starlinnsguy reads...LOL
Age(s):He is 41, She is 39
Birthday(s):His is August 14 / Hers is October 20
Location:Indiana, about 70 miles south of Chicago
Relationship status:Married 20 years, 21 in October
Swinging for how long?:We have been in this lifestyle since October of 2004
Prefer to swing with:Single Bi Females
Biggest Pet Peeve:Right now, people who poke fun of those with disabilities.
Brief Intro:He is in the real estate industry, she is a child advocate, and cares for children. We have 2 grown children and 2 grandchildren. We are a team in everything, and love to make each other happy, which rubs off on those that play with us. We treat each other and others in our life with compasion and honesty. Did I mention that we are quite kinky too? LOL
Picture (if you feel comfortable sharing one):There is one posted of me, I dont know how to put his picture on. BTW the picture I have is 3 years old. We are going to get a couples pic soon
Website (your own or one of your favorites)This one of course, and I am on the Indiana Gov webpage alot, monitoring child issues in our state

[Dynamar]

Originally Posted by starlinn

Did I mention that we are quite kinky too?

Hi Starlinn! ::: waving from SW Indiana :::

Care to share what some of your favorite kinks are?

[starlinn]

Originally Posted by Dynamar

Hi Starlinn! ::: waving from SW Indiana :::

Care to share what some of your favorite kinks are?

mmmm....one is hubby watching while I am being played with by another female...a big turn on for us!!

Another we call tent play. Going camping in a tent, turning the light on in the tent and fucking like mad!! A big turn on during hunting season, and we are camping with 99% male company. (Camping season starts Oct 1 in Indiana)
Can you imagine the smiles I get when going to the bathroom the next morning?

[lonesomedove341]

Hi Starlinn....

Hope you dont mind me jumping in here and asking a question...

What are some of your hobbies and interests? (of course the camping dont count as you have already stated that one... <EG> )

Amy

[starlinn]

Originally Posted by lonesomedove341

Hi Starlinn....

Hope you dont mind me jumping in here and asking a question...

What are some of your hobbies and interests? (of course the camping dont count as you have already stated that one... <EG> )

Amy

I dont mind at all! My hobbies are reading, swimming, gardening, (canning salsa as we speak) and my career choice. His is motorcycles, ebay (recently), real estate, the lawn, and of course me!
Everyone, please ask away! We are not shy..smiles

[jennandjamesinm]

Can you imagine the smiles I get when going to the bathroom the next morning?

I sure can - makes camping sound much more interesting - another thing to add to my to do list

Now for my questions...

Who brought up swinging? What was your first experience like?

Jenn

[starlinn]

I have been bisexual for a long time, and he allowed me to "play" on it a few times. Not all at once, but on a few occations, when the timing was right. I brought up swinging, and of course there was alot of jelousy talk, communication with each other during, how we would handle certain situations. But he was open to it, and currently we are just looking to play with single bi women, so you can imagine, we do not play a whole lot. Swinging has changed us both inside and out. It is wonderful to be able to share everything with each other, and opens the doors of communication on other subjects as well.

[starlinn]

Originally Posted by jennandjamesinm

What was your first experience like?

Jenn

Our first experience together was awesome. Very understanding, non judgemental person, who is a good friend of ours now.

[Miss_Piggy]

Hi Starlinn,

Welcome to the spotlight!
Now, inquiring minds want to know - Have you always lived in Indiana?
I don't know anything about Indiana. Tell me - if I were contemplating a vacation to Indiana what reasons would you give to me for coming?

[starlinn]

Originally Posted by Miss_Piggy

Hi Starlinn,

Welcome to the spotlight!
Now, inquiring minds want to know - Have you always lived in Indiana?
I don't know anything about Indiana. Tell me - if I were contemplating a vacation to Indiana what reasons would you give to me for coming?

You know, I have been asked more then once, "What do you do in Indiana??" I talk to people all over the states, and they will say "Why do you live in Indiana??" and to be quite honest with you, other then being born and raised here, I dont know why I live in Indiana.
But, I will tell you a little secret about where I live. About 10 miles from me, there is a place called Aura, which is a nuddest camp, and a little ways down from there is Ponderosa Sun Club, which I understand is swinger friendly. So when people ask why I live in Indiana, I tell them of the great places to visit! (joking, of course ) So, Miss Piggy, if you are needing directions...

[EvilMJ]

hi guys.

So how did you first meet. Love at first sight? or something that developed over time?

How did you get involved in child advocacy issues?

[starlinn]

Originally Posted by EvilMJ

hi guys.

So how did you first meet. Love at first sight? or something that developed over time?

How did you get involved in child advocacy issues?

We met when I was 12...LOL Our first meeting was when I moved into a new neighborhood and was trick or treating. He came up to me and said "Hey baby, how about a kiss?" Yes, it was love at first sight!

I started to get involved with child advocacy about 6 years ago when I had interaction with a 4 year old boy, who told me, in his own language, that his 15 year old brother was sexually molesting him. He was in my class, and he couldnt talk very well, but because he was with me so much, I knew most of his words. If he had told a stranger what he told me, they would not be able to understand even his basic needs, let alone the story he told me about his brother. When child protective services became involved, I had to translate for him and I could feel his helplessness. I ended up keeping him until he was able to return to his mom, and recieve help with his language disability. Needless to say, because of this experience, I became an advocate for children's issues. I helped create a watch dog group for children, because our state CPS program really stinks. I spend alot of time in Indianapolis with state officials, and have many times, been the voice of a child that has died at the hands of their caregivers. It is close to my heart, and there have been times that I have cried over the death of a child.
Okay, I am rambling here...LOL
Thank you Evil for asking!

[Vespertine]

I applaud you for your work with children.

The world needs more people to stand behind our children and it warms my heart knowing you're helping ones that don't have the protection of their caregivers.

Questions (for both of you):

Favorite color?
Favorite drink?
Favorite position?
Favorite book?
Favorite movie?
Favorite vacation spot?
You've won a million dollars- What would you do with it?

[starlinn]

Originally Posted by Vespertine

I applaud you for your work with children.

The world needs more people to stand behind our children and it warms my heart knowing you're helping ones that don't have the protection of their caregivers.

Questions (for both of you):

Favorite color?
Favorite drink?
Favorite position?
Favorite book?
Favorite movie?
Favorite vacation spot?
You've won a million dollars- What would you do with it?

Favorite color? Him - Earth Tones / Me - White
Favorite drink? Him - Vodka and 7Up / Me - Miller Light
Favorite position? Him - Me Riding Cowgirl / Me - Howling at the moon
Favorite book? Him - Home Blueprints / Me - The story of Queen Gueniver (what a woman!)
Favorite movie? Him - Anything Action / Me - Gone with the Wind and Titanic
Favorite vacation spot? Him - Smokey Mountains / Me - Bahamas
You've won a million dollars- What would you do with it? Him - Stash it and have it buried with him. / Me - Donate most of it to children's charities, and have onehellofa party!

Thank you Ves for some great questions! I am currently working on a case where a 4 year old child died at the hands of her step mother. Between neighbors, friends, and relatives, the total calls to child protective services and the police came to 44 calls! A relative feels so gulity that she couldnt do more for this child, and at one point, considered suicide because of the guilt. It was ongoing harsh abuse that resulted in the child's death. It is heartbreaking.