BiDryWallChick - New MOTW #4

[BiDrywallChick]

Originally Posted by clit pro poet

"I have been hanging and finishing drywall for about 14 years."
(Male here)
And that ain’t the half of it!
You (and your husband too) must hold a charge really well, or recharge quickly, seems like? Where’s the steady energy and generosity come from? (It's sure appreciated...)

hmmm somtimes I swear we dont have steady energy and at times I feel less than generous. I think that it all comes from or basic core that we treat people the way we would want to be treated. We have always tried to live by a version of the golden rule. I think taht it is also cultural as well. My husband is Native American who tribe focuses on the well being of the whole collected tribe/family/ect first.. then the individual. We have a balance in that.

[Alura]

Which tribe is your husband from?

Mr. Alura

[BiDrywallChick]

Originally Posted by Alura

Which tribe is your husband from?

Mr. Alura

Lumbee - Cheraw. They are currently seeking federal recognition and have been for decades. I believe the web site is Lumbee tribe

[nusofties]

Originally Posted by BiDrywallChick

funny story.. hmm there was the time one of his old gf that we had a 3 some with the weekend before showed up at church. She stood in the parking lot and let everyone know exactly what we did AND the deninsions of my hubby's penis. I found it to be rather funny.. he on the other hand didnt.. i know now what makes the red man red

Why would she such a thing? This is something we've worried about. We need to stay DISCREET. It's scary to think a disgruntled or remorseful swinger would OUT other swingers!

[BiDrywallChick]

Originally Posted by nusofties

Why would she such a thing? This is something we've worried about. We need to stay DISCREET. It's scary to think a disgruntled or remorseful swinger would OUT other swingers!

hmm why would she do such a thing.. i suppose that she liked having a little indian in her... we were young and used poor judgement. In general, you really shouldnt play with an EX. There is a reason they are an Ex

[lovecatspurrv]

hi sassy chick, Mrs purrv here,
My questions for you are:
1 most memorable ways u and your man initiated swinging with others?
2 your best experience with a female?
3 are you going to share any of your swingtimes in stories section?
4 have you found careful selection or opportune circumstance a better selector of swingmates??
5 any situations where the swingmates were confused about what they were doing/ you & hubby were put in the middle of their problems?
6 what have you found to be the best stain soaker for the kids clothes?? ** **

ps. if i lived nearby i would offer to babysit no probs!!! We have 1, plan for eventually a whole tribe like u. Even though i know it will send me round the twist. I dont think any1 will babysit mine by then!
another ps. u are a supermum, studying/working arent the things that prove that. I gave up the study recently and well what do u know, me n hubby have time for each other now, and for pursuing swinging!!

[BiDrywallChick]

Originally Posted by lovecatspurrv

hi sassy chick, Mrs purrv here,
My questions for you are:
1 most memorable ways u and your man initiated swinging with others?
2 your best experience with a female?
3 are you going to share any of your swingtimes in stories section?
4 have you found careful selection or opportune circumstance a better selector of swingmates??
5 any situations where the swingmates were confused about what they were doing/ you & hubby were put in the middle of their problems?
6 what have you found to be the best stain soaker for the kids clothes?? ** **

1) that would have been our first full swap experience. It was with some really good friends of ours and we were just kicked back wating Wild Orchid ( damn good soft core) and he leaned over and said to the other husband " ya wanna see what a cajun feels like ( meaning me) and it just went on from there. We are still very good friends with this couple.

2) best experience would have to be when I went with a church group on a camp out to the Cascade Mountains in Washington. I had a major crush on one of the deacons daughters. I was between my first and second husbands. Anyway... we ended up sharing a tent and a bottle of strawberry hill ( god, i will never drink that again). I think it was the combination of the anticipations, the crush, the wine and the taboo that made it the most memoriable so far.

3) am I going to0 share my stories... I just dont know yet. I may.

4) For me, I have found that more often than not, careful selection works out best. It isnt perfect though. I have found more insane women with the spur of the moment type picking.. Careful selection isnt 100% though. I have managed to pick some really outthere people after thinking that I knew them well

5) OMG I have run into a few that really were trying to fix thier marriage by swinging. Once We were called into a civiliam court for a divorce case and another time into a captains Mast at NAS Whidbey Island for another swing gone wrong. People really do not need to swing to make their marriage better.. it doesnt work that way. You have to fix what is broken before you add some new paint.

6) The best stain remover for white clothes.. Oxi Clean/tide and bleach.. I bleach the hell out of soccer clothes that are white. For colors.. oxi clean and tide. It doesnt always work. What tide doesnt get out... a lit match takes care of.. I like new clothes any way

[FRIENDS1ST]

Originally Posted by BiDrywallChick

6) The best stain remover for white clothes.. Oxi Clean/tide and bleach.. I bleach the hell out of soccer clothes that are white. For colors.. oxi clean and tide. It doesnt always work. What tide doesnt get out... a lit match takes care of.. I like new clothes any way

BiDryWallChick - Thanx a lot for the last point #6 ... some guys like me desperately need that kind of tips. The dry cleaner is just minting money off of me ...lol. And I agree with Mrs. Purvv ...you are a supermum!!!

Take care and have fun!!!