Spotlight Interview #43 - AdventureUS2

[JustAskJulie]

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Gender (if not a couple):
If a couple, which one primarily posts:
Age(s):
Birthday(s):
Location:
Relationship status:
Swinging for how long?:
Prefer to swing with:
Favorite food(s):
Biggest Pet Peeve:
Brief Intro:
Picture:
Website (your own or one of your favorites):

[adventureUS2]

Sorry it took so long to get to posting this, Twas a long day at work

[B]Question limit
243,000.45

If a couple, which one primarily posts:
Me, Mr AdventureUS better known as AdventureUS2. The wife is AdventureUS she doesn't post as often as I do but she will be answering questions for the interview. We weren't clever enough to make our handles Mr/Mrs AdventureUS

Age(s):
I am 31 and the Mrs. is 30

[B]Birthday(s):
Mine Jan 17 Hers Oct 7

Location:
North East Maryland

Relationship status:
Totally 100% head over heals in love!!!!!!.......Oh yeh and married 7 years

Swinging for how long?:
About 5 years

Prefer to swing with:
Anyone who is down to earth and can put up with us for more then an hour

Favorite food(s):
I like anything Italian and she loves Mexician food

Biggest Pet Peeve:
Our pet peeves on the carpet from time to time and it is really annoying

Brief Intro:
HMMM Lets see.........
I have been in the Army for 13 years. She was a Foreclosure Paralegal but now is the Worlds Greatest Mom. We have two beautiful little girls 4 and 2. We started out swinging with a couple that we are very close friends with about five years ago....guess we must have enjoyed it

Picture:
See our profile

Website
You have to ask? SB SB SB SB SB!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[northindycpl]

So did you decide to swing with vanilla friends the first time, or did you meet them as swingers?

Do you travel a lot with the military?

With such young kids...how do you find the time to swing?

[adventureUS2]

We did not consider ourselves swingers at the time. We(the four of us) just knew that there was an attraction. We flirted and made jokes about swapping and the girls always joked about playing with each other. Finally the sexual tention got to hard to ignore. The other couple had never played with anyone but us.....but, that is what convinced Me and the Mrs that we wanted to be swingers when we grew up facelick

Most of my travel is limited to the US for national defense.

And as far as finding time to swing with young ones at home. THANK GOD FOR BABYSITTERS!!!!!. It does slow us down a little but we manage.

[JustAskJulie]

Happy Late Birthday!

How do you typically go about finding new people to swing with?

[adventureUS2]

We usually look for couples on ad sites. We have a few single friends that we play with. One of my really close guy friends is under consideration for MFM. He is very open minded and very descrette. He lives a bit far away so we are just waiting for a good time to get together. My wife also has a "girlfriend" we play with from time to time.

[adventureUS2]

Damn I am so rude......Thanks for the happy birthday Julie

[JustAskJulie]

Have you had any negative experiences with swinging?

[adventureUS2]

Most of our swinging experiences have been great. We have meet Some really wonderful people while swinging. We have formed great friendships. We have had some of our own issues to work through, but I would not call any of them a negative experience. Just growwing pains

The worst experiences we have had would be instant messageing with some people. But they were weeded out before we ever meet in person. Mostly people who want to play right away and not get to know each other a bit first. If they couldn't have sex that night they didn't want to meet at all. Thats not our style not to say we wouldn't play on the first night we meet someone but please do not demand it.

[northindycpl]

What are your favorite Ad sites to visit?
(besides this one of course)

What is your favorite thing about swinging? What is your least favorite?

If you could have a magical, swinging fantasy come to life what would it be?
(share as much or as little as you like)

How does Mrs. Adventure like being a domestic goddess now? Does she miss working?

Boxers or Briefs?
bath or Shower?
left or right handed?
automatic or standard (I like a stick in my hands LOL)
Can a woman have to many tattoo's?

[adventureUS2]

Originally Posted by northindycpl

What are your favorite Ad sites to visit?

We use Swing Lifestyle the most. Swing Lifestyle seems to have the most to offer as far as people in our area. The Swingers Board is the only message board I visit. The Mrs belongs to a bi sexual womens message board. I would drop the name but the women on that board are like some sort of weirdo secret sociaty. And giving away the name of it may result in my death. Just kidding they like to keep the name hush hush so not to many men visit.

Originally Posted by nothindycpl

What is your favorite thing about swinging? What is your least favorite?

HMMM We like the bond it gives us. I feel it has opened up our communication
and we like meeting new people and forming new freindships.

Our least favorite thing: Not having enough time persue it as much as we would like. Our kids are our priority and they limit the amount of time we get to play. But damn they are cute!!!

Originally Posted by northindycpl

If you could have a magical, swinging fantasy come to life what would it be?
(share as much or as little as you like)

We like to do "Host A Murder Parties". For anyone who has never heard of them, you can buy a box that has a roll playing game in it. The game comes with a story line, characters, dinner menu, costume suggestions, party invitations and more. It is sort of like every one dressing up as the characters of a elaborate game of clue.

For the fantacy we would mail the invitations to a few of our swinging freinds. (you need about 3 or 4 couples to play) The costumes from most of the game scenarios are from the 1920's The women dress like flappers and the men would wear pin stripped suits from the 20's. The house would be lit mostly by candle light. We would start the evening off with introductions(as our charactors) over some wine and ordevors. Then serve dinner while playing the game. After dinner the game would evolve into the more adult version facelick while everyone remained in character.

Originally Posted by northindycpl

How does Mrs. Adventure like being a domestic goddess now? Does she miss working?

I think she should answer this one.

[northindycpl]

The Murder mystery game sounds so intriguing. I am going to have to look it up on the internet- I didn't know they made a kit.

Taking the time is hard with youngsters, but it is so important. Gald to see you guys value time together.... I think it makes you better parents.

Speaking of games, What kinds of games do you like to play? Are there any board games or things you have played that could be made adult?

If you could be deserted on an island, what 5 things would you take, how long would you wnat to stay, and why?

[adventureUS2]

Originally Posted by smileytattoo

Boxers or Briefs?

Boxers for both of us

Originally Posted by smileytattoo

bath or Shower?

We both take showers but the Mrs. likes to soak from time to time

Originally Posted by smileytattoo

left or right handed?

We would both be totally worthless with out our right hands

Originally Posted by smileytattoo

automatic or standard (I like a stick in my hands LOL)

We both have had cars with sticks and automatics. As far as the Mrs. having a stick in her hand facelick facelick facelick

Originally Posted by smileytattoo

Can a woman have to many tattoo's?

Never I have a one myself, MrsadventureUS has none, but we would not be turned off at all by anyone who has alot of tattoos

[adventureUS]

Originally Posted by northindycpl

How does Mrs. Adventure like being a domestic goddess now? Does she miss working?

I do miss working although I love being home with my girls more. The thought of someone else raising my kids ...well, I cant even imagine. I loved being a paralegal and the social aspect of getting out, doing lunch and socializing every day..but thats just something I have to look forward to again once my girls are alittle older and in school.