Spotlight Interview #34 - XXoticAngel

[JustAskJulie]

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Question limit (as the interviewee you may limit the questions on a per post or per user basis if you wish):
Gender (if not a couple):
If a couple, which one primarily posts:
Age(s):
Birthday(s):
Location:
Relationship status:
Swinging for how long?:
Prefer to swing with:
Favorite food(s):
Biggest Pet Peeve:
Brief Intro:
Picture:
Website (your own or one of your favorites):

[ALilOEverything]

How did you meet and fall in love?

What is the most precious gift you have ever received?

What is your idea of a perfect romantic night?

If you could travel to one city for a weekend, where would you go?

[xxoticangel]

Question limit (as the interviewee you may limit the questions on a per post or per user basis if you wish):
No limit. Let'em fly.

Gender (if not a couple): Married couple
If a couple, which one primarily posts: He does since he's home alone most mornings.
Age(s):She is 33, He is 40
Birthday(s):Hers is in Oct, His is in Aug
Location: Just outside Atlanta
Relationship status: Together 8 years, married almost 5.
Swinging for how long?: A little over 6 years.
Prefer to swing with: Single men and Bi-fem couples
Favorite food(s): Mexican
Biggest Pet Peeve: People that drive slow in the fast lane
Brief Intro: Fit attractive MWC seeking sexual playmates
Picture: The one on the left is really us
Website (your own or one of your favorites): Had one once but it didn't work out. Now we just post at amature sites sometimes.

[xxoticangel]

How did you meet and fall in love?

The first time I (male) saw her I fell in love. She had, and still does, the most delicious ass I have ever seen. She was a single mom going to school and working as a checker for the local Wal-mart and I was working part-time security there. We chatted some but she thought I was an asshole because I was all business. That same year for my birthday my best friend set me up on a blind date with his wife's friend. Guess who was there when I showed up. She pretended to like me through dinner and dancing. Something clicked and she ended up staying at my place that night. Been together ever since.

What is the most precious gift you have ever received?

My wife and step children are the best thing that ever happened to me. I sometimes wonder why she chose me but I ain't complaining.

What is your idea of a perfect romantic night?

Staying home and spending time together. We always try to make out limited time together special and romantic.

If you could travel to one city for a weekend, where would you go?

Denver, CO. Don't ask me why. She wants to go so who am I to argue?

[JustAskJulie]

Has your age difference ever posed a problem (whether in swinging or otherwise)?

You mentioned trying the amateur website thing, and posting pictures still.... is amateur photography one of your hobbies?

DO you take pics with people you swing with?

[DBL D]

Always have loved your name. How did you make it up?

How did the topic of swinging arise in your relationship? 6 years ago would've put her in her late 20's and you in your early 30's, right?

What do you do to stay in shape? Or do you?

What have you had the most trouble overcoming in the lifestyle?

Male D

[xxoticangel]

Has your age difference ever posed a problem (whether in swinging or otherwise)?

Not really. We have the same problems as everyone else but our age difference has never been an issue.

You mentioned trying the amateur website thing, and posting pictures still.... is amateur photography one of your hobbies?

I (male) have always had an interest in photography. I lucked out that I am married to a beautiful woman that lets me indulge my creative side. We have taken several thousand photos over the years. Some are actually quite good most I consider just practice.

DO you take pics with people you swing with?

If the other person(s) don't mind we love to take pics while playing. It gives us a visal reference later when we replay a fantasy. We never post or show the pics with other people.

[xxoticangel]

Always have loved your name. How did you make it up?

With her name being Angel we almost had to encorporate it into our handle somewhere. Her vanilla "handle" uses it and she has it on her tags. XxoticAngel was born because ExoticAngel was already in use on msn/hotmail.

How did the topic of swinging arise in your relationship? 6 years ago would've put her in her late 20's and you in your early 30's, right?

Early in our relationship we were having a "bare your soul" talk about sex, fantasies, and expierences. She told me about how her group of friends in H.S. hung out together and "group date"ed. They did not have boyfriend/girlfriend relationships. They had sex with anyone/everyone as long as they were part of the group. The idea turned me on greatly and it bacame part of our fantasy life. Within two months we our first swap with another couple. We learned the hard way about rules and communication but everything is great now.

What do you do to stay in shape? Or do you?

The nature of our jobs dictates that we maintain a certian level of fitness. We are both in the gym 3-6 days a week depending on our schedules. I like having her as a training partner. Her just being there makes me push harder and try to impress her.

What have you had the most trouble overcoming in the lifestyle?

That feeling in my stomach when I see her being pleasured by another guy. It actually turns me on now but in the begining it bothered me quite a bit.

[xxoticangel]

Now my (Angel) answer to the part that I had the most trouble overcoming in the lifestyle. I would have to say that in the beginning we didn't talk about what our rules or limitations would be. With the first couple we were with the female kissed him and that was not something I ever wanted to see again. I love to see him have sex with a woman and seeing him do oral on another woman turns me on to no end but kissing is to personal. I have now changed my way of thinking but have not had the chance yet to see him kiss anyone else.

[JustAskJulie]

What is/are your favorite holiday(s)?

Do you like Christmas music? If so, what is your favorite Christmas song?

[xxoticangel]

What is/are your favorite holiday(s)?

Christmas because of the kids. They get so excited and everything is so festive.
We also enjoy Halloween for adults and kids because it gives us a chance to act like a kid and get away with it.

Do you like Christmas music? If so, what is your favorite Christmas song?

I like to listen to Christmas music while putting up the tree with the kids but hearing it on the radio ALL the time is a bit to much IMHO. Favorite song would have to be Jingle Bells because of the rhythm. Frosty the Snow Man is our kids favorite song...

[curiousagain]

What was the last halloween costumes you both wore?

[JustAskJulie]

When do you start Christmas shopping?

Do you set a spending limit?

Where do you hide the presents?

[xxoticangel]

The last Halloween costume worn with the children present was Angel as a cat and Adam as a vampire. The last worn without children present was Angel as a genie and Adam again as a vampire.

[xxoticangel]

When do you start Christmas shopping?
We start shopping in late September and don't finish until December.

Do you set a spending limit?
Each child has a limit on how much we can spend. With us having four children this is the only way that it is equal. We have two that live with us full time and we do try to keep the number of presents as equal as possible within the money limit. The other two are only with us part time and the youngest of the two gets a greater number of presents. The oldest gets very few numbers but this is due to the type of presents she wants. She is at the age of wanting cars or major amounts of money..

Where do you hide the presents?
In the attic and some in our closet. We have had to keep some at his sister's house until closer to Christmas time.