Spotlight Interview #32 - GSU22

[JustAskJulie]

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[gsu22]

Well, here it goes....

Single Male obviously

23 years old now( should change the gsu22)

Birthday is Sept 27th

Location: Atlanta, Ga

Currently single....a few dates here and there though when I get a chance

Been fortunate enough to swing for about a year now.....was nervous at first as expected but after my first experience, it was easy from there!

Prefer to swing with couples...bi, str8, whatever.....doesn't matter to me

Fav Food: a tie between chicken and seafood

Pet Peeve: Rude, pushy, uncaring people....people who don't think about others

Bascially, I entered swinging through some friends because of my high interest in the lifestyle.....of course, I'm not going to lie....the sex was the major drawing point for me at first....big shock, huh?!? BUT as I've progressed with my small bit of swinging experience, I've come to appreciate it more.....the cool people I've met, the friends I've picked up so far, and the incredible fun I've had doing it. There's never a dull moment because each day is never the same with swinging and thats why I like it.

[LikeMinds321]

Hi gsu22 -

Nice to see you in the Spotlight this week!

• Do you have a preferred age group to swing with?
• What is the oldest age of the people you've swung with?
• Have you ever brought a girl you date into the swinging arena with you?
• Besides the sex, what are the benefits of swinging for you?
• What makes swinging most challenging for you?

LM

[JustAskJulie]

How has swinging affected your dating life?

Is swinging something that is an issue when you look at girls you are interested in? (ie. WOuld you give up swinging for the right girl)?

How often do you swing?

[gsu22]

Not really a preferred age group....the oldest couple I've swung with were both 41. Its mostly been early to mid 30's....

I've brought one girl into the swinging scene and she liked it at first but then changed her tune a little......so it was short-lived.

Besides the sex, the benefits for me would be the wonderful people I've met so far......a few I'm still friends with now...also the different atmospheres I've been around......i love meeting new people and exploring new scenes.

Being a single male has made certain situations difficult for me......some couples I've spoken to have given me a hard time b/c i was single and they assumed I was a jerk like some of the other single men.....when in fact they didn't even try to see what I was really all about. No matter what, I do always try to be nice and outgoing immediately upon meeting a couple.....i know its about first impressions and I want them to know I'm not just looking to bang his wife and move on....life's a journey and the great people you meet along the way are an added bonus....I don't have time to be rude or deal with rude, nasty people......

[gsu22]

Swinging has changed my dating life in somewhat of an odd way...

I find myself searching for couples just as much as single women...Honestly, if I don't score a date with a young lady then I try for a nice couple....I do like my current situation though....with school and work my dating life is somewhat slow at the moment.....if I were to meet the right girl however.....yes I would give up swinging....


I try to swing as much as I can....its been about a month since the last experience.....usually its at least 2-3 months normally though

[JustAskJulie]

How do you prefer to meet people to swing with?

Do you go to swinger clubs? How has your experience been with those?

[ALilOEverything]

Your profile states your a grad student, how much longer do you have to go and what do you hope to do with your degree?

What do you do in your spare time when you aren't studying or swinging?

[20ishCouple]

What is your fantasy?


What do you find most attractive about the opposite sex?


Do you ever get to travel?

[gsu22]

i started swinging through friends of friends.....my experience with swing clubs has been limited....I've been a handful of times to a couple and i did enjoy myself.....and the internet has been a source for me as well


As for my studies: I plan to finish school next August....I do have an undergrad degree in Transportation and my masters will be in political science/policy studies. My first love has always been aviation and I do plan to pursue a career in the airline business either in the coporate side or possibly in flight operations. My masters is a backup in case things don't work out in transportation....politics has always been my 2nd interest

In my spare time I enjoy flying a lot.....both commerically and actually doing it myself....I am an instrument rated pilot currently working on my commercial rating...I try to travel when at all possible but with school and work its hard. Also sports is at the top of my list as well...gotta love the college football!!!

[gsu22]

I find a beautiful smile as one of the most appealing things of the opposite sex..probably the first thing i notice is the smile....also I've been a sucker for blondes.....I love blonde hair on women......not to say darker hair isn't appealing

Two great fantasies I have are:

1.) An all out orgy in the "dark room"(as mentioned in a topic the other day).....everything goes fuck fest....nobody knows who is touching who!!

2.) To experience a MFM or a MFMF where both in the couple are bi so I can possibly try out my bicuriousity with MM oral in front of the wife.

[ALilOEverything]

Where are your favorite places to travel to? Is there one place in particular you're looking forward to visiting? Do you take anyone along with you?

[beigekhakis]

I enjoy NYC and Europe

[gsu22]

I like hitting Miami/southbeach once in a while....anywhere warm is fine with me

[curiousagain]

How do you meet couples usually? Clubs or the internet or through mutual friends?