Spotlight Interview #31 - 20ishCouple

[JustAskJulie]

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[JustAskJulie]

You guys are pretty new to the board here. I really appreciate you jumping in and getting involved right off the bat like this.

How did you find the Swingers Board?

Are you active on other forums?

[20ishCouple]

We are very glad to be here. Thank you.

Well to start off....

We are a couple.

He is 23 and She is 21.

His B-day is Oct. 22nd and Hers is Dec 8th

We are from Indiana

We are engaged and have been together for 8 years as of this coming April.

We have been swinging for about three years now.

We do prefer to swing with Single men

His Favorite food is Taco Salad and Hers is Pepperoni Pizza

His biggest pet peeve is being told what to do and Hers is Bad Drivers


We just want to meet new and exciting people. We want to Learn more about other's experiences in the lifestyle. And of course the most imporant thing, Have a good time.

We actually came across the swingersboard while searching for swingers clubs. We love to get to know new people and hearing about other people's experiences, so I decided I would sign us up. I like posting to forums.


This is the only Swingers forum that we post to. I (female) am active in several different forums, from just about any topic you could imagine.

[ALilOEverything]

Eight years together, that's incredible considering you're both so young. How wonderful is that! I enjoy message forums too from parenting, quilting, to taking care of elderly family members. You know how exciting it is to find a message board that is well run, with daily involvement and comradarie. Anyhow...

What entices you about the single male vs. couples or single females?

Do you have a wedding date set?

Do you have a club picked out that you want to visit yet?

[20ishCouple]

Oh yea. It is definately good to find a board that is well run and there are so many active people. It's amazing.

I think what intices us so much about the single male is that for one, my Mr. 20ish is bi curious, and to find another guy, who is open to the possiblity of us all sharing one another is awesome. It had always been a fantasy of mine to be with 2 guys at once, and when Mr. 20ish Suggested it, we went with it, and since then, we've just kinda been hooked. We wouldn't mind swinging with another couple if we knew them well enough, I'm just not all that bi curious, so I don't know if it would be as much fun if the guys didn't see a lil girl on girl action.

We don't have a date set in stone yet. We are really wanting to get married this coming April 19th. Which is the day we met 8 yrs ago.

We've checked out the websites for the local swingers clubs we have around this area (within a 400 mile radius) and there are lots of them that sound Very intriguing. We really want to check out CLUB 440 in Ohio and Club Utiopia here in Indiana

[ALilOEverything]

We've been to Utopia a couple times and plan to go again, hopefully in the near future.

Do you use online ads or do you pick men from your day to day life?

What do you do for fun when it's just the two of you together?

Any special hobbies?

[JustAskJulie]

I'm thinking that if he hates to be told what to do, and she hates bad drivers, that HE better be a good driver....lol. So is he?

I take it you guys met in middle school (or earlier). Do either of you ever wonder about what it would be/have been like to date other people? Or do you think that that is part of what the swinging is about?

[20ishCouple]

~To answer ALilOEverything

We have used men from our day to day life so far, never went as far as meeting anyone from an ad yet.

When its just the two of us together...we sing karaoke, chat, play video games, watch movies, play scrabble, have lots of sex (of course), and mainly just enjoy the time we have alone together.

Mr. 20ish's hobbies are building computers and working on cars. Mine are painting,drawing,interior design, and working on cars.


~To answer JustAskJulie

LoL yes he is a pretty good driver, but sometimes he scares me.

Yes we did meet when we were in Middle School. Mr. 20ish, says he never really had many girlfriends before me, but wouldn't change it for the world. I had several boyfriends before I met Mr. 20ish, but I wouldn't trade it for anything in the world. He's the best thing that's ever happened to me.

[littlebit54]

Wow like everybody else i'm impressed by how long you've been together from such an early age!

Do you have any pets? If you don't what would you have if you had one?

What is your (both of you) fantasy job? Car?

Do you live in a house or apartment?

Do you like Indiana weather? I used to live in Indiana (still have some family there); and sometimes i miss the fall there...not the snow too much, though!

Where would you live if you could live anywhere else?

What is the most exciting thing you have done up to now (not involving sex)?

Where would your dream wedding take place?

More later....

littlebit54

[20ishCouple]

Originally Posted by littlebit54

Wow like everybody else i'm impressed by how long you've been together from such an early age!

Do you have any pets? If you don't what would you have if you had one?

What is your (both of you) fantasy job? Car?

Do you live in a house or apartment?

Do you like Indiana weather? I used to live in Indiana (still have some family there); and sometimes i miss the fall there...not the snow too much, though!

Where would you live if you could live anywhere else?

What is the most exciting thing you have done up to now (not involving sex)?

Where would your dream wedding take place?

More later....

littlebit54

Yes we do have pets...We have a dalmatian named Sassy, a Blacklab named Snuggles and a Manx Cat named Shady.

Mr. 20ish's dream job would be a computer programmer and Mine is an Interior designer. Dream Cars, Mine would be a 1964 1/2 Mustang GT Mint or completely restored and his would be a McLaren F1.

We just moved out of an apartment/townhouse and bought a New House.

Indiana weather is good in the summer, but terrible during the winter. I hate to drive in the snow. (too many bad drivers)

If we could live anywhere else it would probably be Tennessee...we love it there, its so beautiful and peaceful.

The most exciting thing we have done thus far in life would have to be just meeting each other. Sounds corny...but it's true, since we've met we have experienced so many exciting things for the first time together.

I think our dream wedding would probably take place in a big Cathedral in Italy or France...But I'm an easy goin girl, I'd be just peachy with a small wedding in a lil church.

[4forfun]

Hi 20ishcouple!
Who brought the subject up of swinging, and did it take you long from talking to participating?
What was your best experience doing a mfm?
It's nice to be able to have someone you know to join you, I wish me and hubby could do that but as we are thousands of miles away from the UK it's not going to happen.
How did you approach these people you wanted to join you?
If you met a couple would it be same room or seperate?
That's all for now and thankyou.
Mrs.

[20ishCouple]

Originally Posted by 4forfun

Hi 20ishcouple!
Who brought the subject up of swinging, and did it take you long from talking to participating?
What was your best experience doing a mfm?
It's nice to be able to have someone you know to join you, I wish me and hubby could do that but as we are thousands of miles away from the UK it's not going to happen.
How did you approach these people you wanted to join you?
If you met a couple would it be same room or seperate?
That's all for now and thankyou.
Mrs.

Well Mrs...
We both kinda brought up the idea, in a joking manner, but then the more we discussed it the hotter we thought the idea was.

After discussing the whole MFM thing, it was only a few months later when we tried it.

The best experience we've had was with Mr.20ish's bestfriend/cousin, it was on a whim and it was kinda an "in the heat of the moment thing" that nobody discussed before hand, and after all of us enjoying it so much the first time, we ended up doing it several more times.

Awww I'm sorry to hear that Mrs. Why do you think it won't happen for you?

Well we never really approached any of the people we have been with, they have approached us, or joked around about the idea (even though we could tell they were serious) and so we let one thing lead to another.

If we ever did meet a couple, it would definately be in the same room.

Thank you Mrs.

[curiousagain]

Hello 20ish couple

Do you tend to play more one part of the year than another?

Do you have certain weekends or is it spontaneous?

what would define the "perfect single male" for your situation

Thanks

[curious24]

Originally Posted by 20ishCouple

Mr. 20ish's hobbies are building computers and working on cars. Mine are painting,drawing,interior design, and working on cars.

...

Mr. 20ish's dream job would be a computer programmer and Mine is an Interior designer.

I paint too! What do you paint?

I also do the computer thing for a living! I write programs for the web. I used to do the build computers and sell them but once I graduated I started programming, building web sites, and graphic design.

One other funny thing is my sister is an Interior designer. She owns her own store!

[DBL D]

We've loved hearing from you guys. Thanks for allowing us into your lives.

You guys play any sports?

Musical instruments?

Hobbies in particular?

Male D