Spotlight Interview #30 - CuriousAgain

[curiousagain]

Originally Posted by LikeMinds321

Hi curiousagain!

• Do you live in an apartment or house? What do you like most about it?
• Do you have a housekeeper or clean it yourself? Are you a "neat freak?"
• If you could rewrite some part of your life, how would you do it?

LM

House, privacy!!! Except for nosey neighbors. They are great to have when I leave on a trip but terrible when I'm trying to have a good time on the deck. Don't ask, you don't want to know, wait being here, you probably do. LOL

I clean it myself. I use to be a neat freak, but I got over it. I clean it once a week and as needed.

I wouldn't rewrite any of it because we are the sum of our experiences and I like myself pretty good right now. Ok, I would like to go back and warn myself about that the stock market crash cause I lost a ton of money. I still don't like to think about that.

[curiousagain]

Hello Curiousagain,

You are a very interesting gentleman & we have enjoyed your responses to this interview. Our questions:

1. What do you look for in a couple?

2. What has been you most favorite ride on your bike?

3. If you could tell the swinging single men one thing you feel is top of the list when meeting couples what would it be besides "no means no"?

explore101 edited because I forgot to hit quote. sorry, been a long day.

#1 I look for compatibility. That means many things, attraction both ways, similar lifestyles, similar types and levels of conversation. Discretion, same likes and dislikes sexually. It doesn't matter much if they are eating tofou while I eat steak but if they have a collection of chains and whips and video cameras, we would pretty much be wasting out time to meet and greet.

#2The dragon!!! followed closely by any other road in the Smokies. I rode my bike nude at night in the smokies one time but details would be too much information.

#3They are a couple, not two people. Never forget it. If you don't understand all that implys, go be in a couple then come back, because until you have been there where two souls become one, where you would kill or die or suffer without hesitation or regret for the other, you can never understand it.

[curiousagain]

Originally Posted by EternallySingle

Which leads me to my question. Have you ever had a woman you've been dating invite you to go visit friends of hers, and things got sexual between the four of you?

ES!! My apologies. I overlooked your question when I messed up the quote thing.

The answer is sorta. Once, a roomate and I had two sisters invite us to a pool party and when we got there were informed we were the only guys there. Seems they had planned on us being the entertainment for everybody. We declined. I know, I know, but remember, I use to be shy. Besides, trust me, some of them just weren't our type so we wound up having sex with first one then another of those we were attracted to, in different parts of the house. Maybe it was a roving sex party but then it was all one on one heterosexual sex.

[curiousagain]

And my last post is why I say youth is wasted on the young.

[DandS]

Hey we need to get busy and start asking you more questions...

Do you like to read? What Genre? Who is your favorite Author?

Ginger or Marianne?

Coke or Pepsi?

What kind of car do you drive? What kind of car would you drive if money were no object?

If you were setting up a romantic evening tell us what it would be like or include?

What 3 words best describe you?

D

[curiousagain]

"Hey we need to get busy and start asking you more questions...

Do you like to read? What Genre? Who is your favorite Author?

Ginger or Marianne?

Coke or Pepsi?

What kind of car do you drive? What kind of car would you drive if money were no object?

If you were setting up a romantic evening tell us what it would be like or include?

What 3 words best describe you?

D "

edited because I forgot to hit quote.

I seem to read mostly technical writings lately and seems most of my pleasure reading is via the internet. No favorite authors right now. I use to read Tom Clancey but don't have time for his books much lately.

Mary Ann. No contest

Coke

Jeep Wrangler. If money were no object I would drive a Ford Mustang convertible with shaker hood. Pure American Muscle Car with present day components. There are others I would like that are more expensive but if I had a garage full of cars, that one would have the most miles on it.

Gee, so many variables. For a generic type, I would first like to do an activity we both would enjoy, This could be a walk or a carriage ride, or a motorcycle ride or a movie. Just something for us to spend time together and get more familiar with each other if we aren't. Then dinner with good conversation and wine either at a good restaurant or at my home, leading to drinks in a room warmed by a fireplace, and strawberry champagne and chocolate dipped strawberries on a platter. Now if she were a big fan of something that would be the tip off. Surprize her with tickets to her favorite show and afterwards with reservations at her favorite hideaway, etc.

Honest, Firm, Fair. I have heard that said about me in so many different ways. Of course, I have heard some other things said about me too. LOL but we won't go over those.

[littlebit54]

Ok this may be my last one, maybe the last one, i just don't know. But, here goes. You say in some of your posts that you used to be shy. Why? Usually when people are shy there's a reason. Where (in your life) was the turning point when you overcame your shyness?

littlebit-used2-B-shy2
jeanne

[curiousagain]

Originally Posted by littlebit54

Ok this may be my last one, maybe the last one, i just don't know. But, here goes. You say in some of your posts that you used to be shy. Why? Usually when people are shy there's a reason. Where (in your life) was the turning point when you overcame your shyness?

littlebit-used2-B-shy2
jeanne

That would be a book, Littlebit.

The thing that got me over my shyness was just life experiences. I don't think I can point to any one thing or instance that caused it. Other than in my present profession, I just learned to work past it and it faded away. So, it would take a listing of many, many experiences and moments of self awareness to explain it all. I know this is a lame answer, but it's the best I can do.

[curiousagain]

Well, it has certainly been interesting being on the hot seat for a week.
Thanks to everyone for the questions and the interest. I have done a lot of thinking because of some of them.
I had expected some questions of a different type since I had not read any of the other interviews.
I believe I will start asking some questions in interviews though. It's "a neat idea" to quote a to be unamed person.

It's been fun "But I have promises to keep, And miles to go before I sleep." I will try to check back in today if possible to see if there are any more questions.

[littlebit54]

Originally Posted by curiousagain

That would be a book, Littlebit.

The thing that got me over my shyness was just life experiences. I don't think I can point to any one thing or instance that caused it. Other than in my present profession, I just learned to work past it and it faded away. So, it would take a listing of many, many experiences and moments of self awareness to explain it all. I know this is a lame answer, but it's the best I can do.

Not a lame answer at all curious. That's more or less what happened to me. It's been "neat" having you in the "hot seat". To quote that unnamed person! I'm sure i'm among the majority that hope to see many more questions and post from you!

littlebit54

[curiousagain]

Checking back in before bedtime. Goodnight everybody, thanks again for your questions and patience.

It's been fun and educational for me.