Spotlight Interview #30 - CuriousAgain

[curiousagain]

Originally Posted by littlebit54

What is the one greatest swinger fantasy you have yet to fulfill?

OK, first correction. LOL After thinking about it, my number one unfulfilled swing fantasy is to find two couples. One to drive the car and the other to sit in the back with me while Hotel California plays over and over and over again.

Gotta work on this for sure.

[curiousagain]

[quote=EternallySingle]I think my first time might have been similar. I've always thought my first tie was when a girlfriend my junior year of college took me to a swingclub, but now I think it might have been my freshman year in college, summer. My roommate was gone for the weekend and a friend stayed in the dorm for the weekend. Two girls came in around 1:30, had sex with them, then they switched. Then we watched. Then they went back to their dorm. They tried that again when my roommate came back, but he wasn't up for it.
QUOTE]

Clearly, you needed to change roomates.

[curiousagain]

Originally Posted by 4forfun

Hi Curiousagain, I haven't asked any questions here before but your sexy pic has brought me out of my shell facelick Hope I haven't offended you in any way.
Have you had any bad experiences in swinging?
Have you always been single?
Do you have a regular couple you swing with?
Would you like to swing with an english couple if you can travel to Canada
Well you said you like to travel
Thankyou Mrs

We've all had bad experiences at swinging. I certainly don't feel like the lone ranger, but I have tried to put a positive spin on it and just chalk it up to experience and life lessons. I've had bad experiences dating, and being a parent, and an employee, and employer, etc. I haven't stopped doing any of those.

I have been married twice. One short one and one very, very long one. LOL
I have a couple of "regular" couples and the others come and go with the occasional new one.

Canada, that's North, right? LOL all joking aside, I have a friend who lives there and if I am ever up that way, would be most honored to share a drink and a few laughs. You can speak with English accents and I will pour on the southern drawl. Is there a downside to this? Of course, in another thread we discussed the mountie, ambassadour, mountain man role playing. This one could be the English ambassadour, her bodyguard, and the Confederate ambassadour willing to do anything to gain her favor and help for the confederacy. I think I know where I can borrow a uniform. <EG>

[curiousagain]

Originally Posted by curious24

I'm a romantic comedy junkie and a John Cusack fan. However, in Serendipity did you happen to notice at the end of the movie when she throws the glove at John Cusack how far she has the thrown it? If you did she has quite an arm! lol

Anyway, you say you've only been swinging for a year. Why did you want to start swinging? What made you curious to give it a try? Have you been curious for a long time?

The couple you met via the internet did you contact them or did they contact you? If you contacted them how did you go about approaching them? If they contacted you how did they approach you and how did you reply? I think many singles can learn from you experience

Also, do you think you being older makes it easier for you to enter the <a href="http://swingersboard.swinglifestyle.com">Swing Lifestyle</a> as a single?

Serendipity is such an unusual movie to me because it's a romantic comedy and a buddy movie at the same time plus the cast of characters and the funny situations the two guys run into in their frantic last minute search. Yeah, with an arm like that, she should be leading a team to the world series, but I can let it slide for the rest of the movie.

I wanted to start swinging out of curiosity, and the feeling that threesome, foursome, or moresome sex would be fun since I had outgrown the shyness that made me turn down offers of it in my youth.

I contacted the couple. I looked back at that email recently and it is so short and bland, it is pathetic, what is most unfortunate, the man said it was the nicest one they had received in months. I think most single guys shoot themselves in the foot before they even get started.

I think being older helps in some ways and hinders in others and all of them are obvious. I am automatically seen as more mature, experienced, and in control of myself, but then some automatically dismiss someone of my age because of their age. If not for discretion needs I would post a pic on my profile and show I am not what their perception is, but alas and alack in a perfect world I would have movie star looks, an olympic body, and Bill Gates money, so I just do the best with what I have.

[4forfun]

Curiousagain I like your ideas Just let us know when you come North and bring that uniform with you facelick
Some more questions for you, Do you have any pets, you also mentioned motorcycles, what one do you own? as hubby has always owned a bike until we came to Canada, he needs a motorcrosser to ride on the roads here
What music do you like?
Thankyou Mrs

[curiousagain]

Originally Posted by 4forfun

Curiousagain I like your ideas Just let us know when you come North and bring that uniform with you facelick
Some more questions for you, Do you have any pets, you also mentioned motorcycles, what one do you own? as hubby has always owned a bike until we came to Canada, he needs a motorcrosser to ride on the roads here
What music do you like?
Thankyou Mrs

I have one dog. She thinks she rules the roost. But some days, if she knew how close she was to being a pound puppy it would frighten her.

I drive a Sportbike. Remember, I don't plan on dying of old age.

I like all kinds of music. the play list I am listening to as I write this has, let's see, Bryan Adams, Kid Rock, the Goo Goo Dolls, Kenny Chesney, Bon Jovi, Keith Urban, Tom cochrane, John Mayer, Johnny Lange, Trick Poney, Delbert McClinton, Otis Redding, Matchbox Twenty, etc. on it. A good mix if you're in the mood for it.

Thank you

[littlebit54]

Since you've mentioned it more than once in this inverview, what do you consider OLD AGE? I mean, hey! Some people have told me and i believe them (most of the time) that you're only as old as you feel. How old do you feel?

Aren't you in a LTR? How would your SO feel about swining? Have you ever asked her about her fantasies? I'm a firm believer that we all have them (of one sort or another). Outside of swinging and being a bomber/fighter what is your greatest unfulfilled fantasy?

I know what you mean about camping in the summer, but have you ever thought about camping in the mountains with some swinger friends? That should keep you warm.

If you won a million dollars what would you do? What is the neatest thing you ever won?

What was your favorite toy as a child?

What is the most "serendipitous" thing that has ever happened to you? Do you believe in fate?

What famous person do you think you (most) look like, since you're unwilling to post a face pic?

littlebit-will-b-back-with-more....

[curiousagain]

OLD AGE is what we often mistake old habits for. Yes, you are as young as you feel.

NO!! I am NOT in a LTR. I have FBs and FWB, but most of them are not swingers per se. A couple are and I have swung with them and a couple.

I can't say I have any other unfulfilled fantasy's. I pretty much do what I want and have time for. I am realistic, I am not going to climb Mount Everest this year. I have a to do before I die list and I am way down that list. So far, it's been a party, I don't have any major complaints.

If I won a million dollars, I guess I would just farm till it ran out (country joke, if you don't get it, there isn't enough room here to explain it.) Seriously, I would put it in the bank and build a small house in the mountains and just enjoy life. I would work a little, play a little, and relax a little. One must strive for balance in all things.

Neatest thing I ever won? MONEY It wasn't much but it spent well.

My favorite toy? Gee, depends on how old I was, I don't think I can answer that one.

most serendipitous thing? I went for a swim and met my ex. It ended badly but we had a few good years and the child from that marriage is a blessing.

I don't think I look like any famous people. I have one of those faces that I am always getting people saying they know someone who looks just like me. None of them are famous though.

[ALilOEverything]

Have you always lived in Tennessee?

How old you were when you had your first real kiss?

Are you a real social person or more of a loner?

Can you see yourself ever getting married again?

[curiousagain]

Originally Posted by ALilOEverything

Have you always lived in Tennessee?

How old you were when you had your first real kiss?

Are you a real social person or more of a loner?

Can you see yourself ever getting married again?

I was born in Tn and have spent most of my life here but have lived in a couple of other states at different times.

First kiss? I am not sure, I remember kissing my third grade girlfriend. Before that, the memory is kinda fuzzy.

I am both. I need my cave time but enjoy the company of friends. I do not care much for large crowds though. I can tolerate it long enough for a concert but to go to some huge function and be shoulder to shoulder with strangers for the whole day is not my idea of fun.

I may get married again but it would take a special person who I had that special feeling for and had pretty much complete compatibility with. To quote the song, "If I ever feel the way I felt. I'll take a chance on someone else."

[curiousagain]

[quote=ALilOEverything]
How old you were when you had your first real kiss?
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Sorry, misread it the first time. My first REAL kiss. You mean french kiss, tongue wrestling, etc. 16, girlfriends house. First time I was there, she led me to a room that had a black light and about 100 pillows and nothing else in it. Actually, there were a lot of first that day. edit: first time for a lot of things for ME. I am pretty sure none of it was her first time. <EG>

[DandS]

Hi Curious,

I love motorcycles, hubby taught me how to ride about 10 years ago...so I gotta ask...Do you wear a helmet when you ride?

If you could own any kind of bike what would you pick?

Whats the longest trip youve ever taken on your bike?

What is your "adult beverage" of choice?

D

[curiousagain]

Originally Posted by DandS

Hi Curious,

I love motorcycles, hubby taught me how to ride about 10 years ago...so I gotta ask...Do you wear a helmet when you ride?

If you could own any kind of bike what would you pick?

Whats the longest trip youve ever taken on your bike?

What is your "adult beverage" of choice?

D

I always wear a full face M2000 Snell level helmet.

If I could keep the bike I have now, I would want an Yamaha R1 in addition to it.

600 miles one way

Corona extra with a slice of lime in it.

edit: A woman that drives her own bike ooozes sex appeal. It's not just me either. I hear so many guys say the same thing.

[LikeMinds321]

Hi curiousagain!

I'm enjoying learning more about you. Good to have you in the spotlight.

I don't believe you have answered these questions yet:

• Do you live in an apartment or house? What do you like most about it?
• Do you have a housekeeper or clean it yourself? Are you a "neat freak?"
• If you could rewrite some part of your life, how would you do it?

LM

[explore101]

Hello Curiousagain,

You are a very interesting gentleman & we have enjoyed your responses to this interview. Our questions:

1. What do you look for in a couple?

2. What has been you most favorite ride on your bike?

3. If you could tell the swinging single men one thing you feel is top of the list when meeting couples what would it be besides "no means no"?

explore101