Spotlight Interview #29- Eternally Single

[EternallySingle]

Originally Posted by littlebit54

Speaking of a milion dollars what would you do if you won the lottery or inherited a million from a long lost relative?

Build a 3000 sq ft home on the beach where the living room wall facing the lake was all glass. I've priced it already. $45,000 for the land, $42,000 for the materials to build the house. I only need three rooms:A kitchen, bathroom, and playroom with a king size bed and big screen TV...for now. The rest would go to paying off my bills so I could spend the rest of my time playing video games...er...working on my novel and inventions.

What was your favorite toy as a child?

My favorite toy was my Micronauts collection, especially Space Glider, Galactic Warrior, Acroyer, and Acroyer 2. I had about fifty of them in different colors and would stage some great battles with them.

What is the one thing you have not accomplished in your life (besides that rocket thing) that you would like to do?

Get my novel published. I had to rewrite it twice. The first time was after I bought a book and found the only thing different was the names of the characters. The second time the publisher said it was not complete yet. That was two years ago. Well, after going over my notes and outlines, I realized that it will take three books to finish the story. It took me six years to finish the first manuscript and the rough draft for the second, and I've been working on the rewrite for the last two years. But it keeps me pleasantly insane so...

Who is your favorite author?

littlebit54

Robert Jordon, its seems to take him longer to finish a novel than me.

[ALilOEverything]

Do you want to have any kind of relationship/friendship with couples you swing with? Is it all about you, all about them, or all about all of you? Do you fear the woman becoming attached to you? How has your perception/expectations of swinging evolved since you first thought of the idea?

[EternallySingle]

I would like to have some level of friendship beyond sex with any couples I'd happen to meet. Whenever anything is all about me, I'm alone and not involving anyone else. If the woman is married, I would take steps to make sure she wouldn't become attached to me. I've learned the hard way to make sure the husband doesn't decide to become my best friend as well, unless I have that same relationship with the wife. As far as perceptions, it was not really my idea. I was happy doing the one man one woman thing until my first experience at an impressionable 19-20 years olds. Since then, the only thing that has changed is that I've learned the old saying "Birds of a feather flock together" is very true, especially in underground cultures. There are areas where swinging is more common, and in those areas single men are more accepted and single women interested in swinging are easier to find and more likely to tell you right off the bat that they swing, maybe to gauge your response, maybe to scare you away, maybe just to brag. Or maybe because they don't see it as that big of a thing.

Well, given the fact that I've been called just a couple of hours ago by a woman I was with for six or seven hours each day since last Thursday, I think I'm going to call it a day. Gotta get off the phone so she can call again after visiting her kids tonight. I got yelled at the last time she couldn't get through. Then I spanked her. LOL

[littlebit54]

ES, thanks so much for being the spotlight interviewee of the week. I think i know you a littlebit better than i did before; and will look forward to hearing more/reading more of your opinions on the board.
Do you have any words of wisdom for us now that your time in the "light" is finished?

littlebit54

[EternallySingle]

Originally Posted by littlebit54

ES, thanks so much for being the spotlight interviewee of the week. I think i know you a littlebit better than i did before; and will look forward to hearing more/reading more of your opinions on the board.
Do you have any words of wisdom for us now that your time in the "light" is finished?

littlebit54

Thanks everyone for putting up with me. I know its hard for some people to listen to someone thats always right :rollseyes but you all had some great questions, and a few that actually made me change my mind about a few things by making me look at what I had planned and done in the past.

As for words of wisdom, I just remembered my favorite story from my study of Taoism-

A man was running from a tiger when he made a wrong turn and ended up at the top of a cliff. He grabbed a vine and started to climb down when he saw another tiger at the base of the cliff. While hanging there waiting for one of the tigers to leave, he saw a strawberry growing in the cliff, so he picked it and ate it. "mmmm...This is the best strawberry I've had in my whole life," he said as the vine started to come out of the side of the cliff.

[EternallySingle]

...And your next interviewee:

CuriousAgain. Treat him nice. He has a long weekend ahead of him. LOL

[littlebit54]

Well Wow ES. On the last day of your interview you finally decide to show that elusive, (and dry) sense of humor of yours. Good ending to a great interview.

littlebit-luvs-2-laugh
jeanne