Spotlight Interview #28 - DBL D

[JustAskJulie]

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[DBL D]

Fem D and I thank you for asking us to be a part of the interviews, and also, thank you BiBlonde for warming them up for us!

Question limit: No Limits
Gender: Couple
If a couple, which one primarily posts: Male D
Age(s): M-48, F-47
Birthday(s):In January; Same age for 4 days each year! Party!
Location: N. California
Relationship status: Married
Swinging for how long?: 1 yr.
Prefer to swing with: Couples-same room
Favorite food(s): Homemade lasagne including the noodles; Chicken, onion & sour cream enchiladas with verde sauce. Mmmmm! facelick
Biggest Pet Peeves: We don't tolerate intolerance well. LOL! Lousy Drivers-Which entails alot!
Brief Intro: We are still new to being Sexually Liberated People and learning as we go but we have have good experiences for the most part. In fact we hope to learn alot about you guys as we tell you of ourselves.
Picture: Sorry!
Website (your own or one of your favorites): Too many to chose from but Unysys weather is cool.


Now on with the show! We have our Fire Resistant Suits on so fire away!

DBL D

[biblonde]

OKAY!!!

So what do you guys like to do in your spare time..I know you dont have lots of it but...

I think up above you mean you have been married for 25 years not swinging...so..what are some posotives and negatives you have gotten out of swinging?

and MR.D...how many pair of undies are ya missing?? for those that havent read other posts from us it is a joke between us..he he he

more to cummmm.........

[DBL D]

Originally Posted by biblonde

OKAY!!!

So what do you guys like to do in your spare time..I know you dont have lots of it but...

I think up above you mean you have been married for 25 years not swinging...so..what are some posotives and negatives you have gotten out of swinging?

and MR.D...how many pair of undies are ya missing?? for those that havent read other posts from us it is a joke between us..he he he

more to cummmm.........

Well HI BiBlonde, Long time-no hear.

Well I could write a book and since this might be our only question I just may!

1) We don't seem to have much "Spare Time" anymore. We just recently purchased our own cabin cruiser and it is a pleasure to visit it. We love to just run out away from the dock for an hour or so and just swing off the anchor. That gives us lots of time to relax- in various ways facelick . Haven't atayed out all night yet because we usually have the dog with us, but that is in the plans. You just may see us out in McCovey Cove someday! Other things are to go to the coast with our dog and visit places we've been before. We look for brewpubs and such. Male D is a brewer and enjoys the art of zymurgy more than most in the hobby. For some reason we've been taking ALOT of pictures lately! Fem D loves to garden and futz about the house. The other traditionals like Golf & Live Sports apply also.

2) Gee BiBlonde. Getting a little personal there aren't you? Positives: Much better communication for sure. We seem to have swung over to the area where we both are sensitive to how the other feels about the smallest things. Lot's of "What did you mean by that look?" etc. This really is a positive. The Negative side has involved the same thing. The tough times where the communication leads to serious discussions etc. Those are hard to deal with but we understand that it goes with the territory. Male D loves the feeling that everyone is wanting to have fun in the sexual area. Fem D Loves to chat with people too. We're not shy about saying anything to people after some time goes by. We both love sex with each other and are very happy when others decide to share with us. It's such a personal feeling you get when intimacy happens. So there're some plusses and minuses for you. It's been good so far and we feel it's something worth continuing.

3) I bet you really like the boxers with the power tools on them, don't you!

Good Questions. Thank You!

[JustAskJulie]

Which one of you initially brought up the idea of swinging and how did you do so?

What was the initial fantasy that you wanted to fulfill via swinging?

Did you have any misconceptions regarding swinging when you first started out that later proved to be just that?

[DBL D]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

Which one of you initially brought up the idea of swinging and how did you do so?

What was the initial fantasy that you wanted to fulfill via swinging?

Did you have any misconceptions regarding swinging when you first started out that later proved to be just that?

We are going to assume that the questions get easier after this.

1) I, Male D, was the one who brought it up and that was after being a total ass about my selfish desires. We started to talk about how I was going to fufill my "fantasies" and I finally asked Fem D if she ever had any fantasies that she thought about. When she said she had, then the idea of doing it together was formed. This was a tough one for us to answer as it brought up some unpleasant memories. Surrender

2) Male D had the typical FMF although it initially didn't have two bi ladies in it, just straight ones. Fem D mentioned being with another guy was on her mind and what that might be like because she'd not been with too many before we met (Or After!)

3) Male D worried about someone taking Fem D's attention away-Male or Female! Wrong! (She worried about that too) We worried that No wasn't as strong a word as it is. Wrong! Fem D worried that people would be jerks more often than not. Wrong! On the other hand, we felt that most would have good communication with us about what we wanted. Wrong.
So I guess when we say that it's been good so far we mean that we are learning fast how this world operates.

Thank you Julie.

[littlebit54]

Ok now that the hard sex/swinging questions are out of the way, let me in

You mentioned a dog, what kind of dog do you have?

How would you rate your wine making? Have you ever drank wine before it's time?... Do you prefer wine to other alcohols?

Do you have children? If so, how old are they?

Have you ever almost been "caught" when swinging?

What do each of you like best about the opposite sex and (for MrsD) the same sex?

What is your dream vacation? Besides cruising the coast up toward biblonde's

Do you have any regrets in your life that you would go back and change if you could?

OK more later....

littlebit54

[EvilMJ]

Hi DBL D,

Have you guys done much travelling?
WHere is your dream vacation?

Do you have a favorite book/author?

[DandS]

Do you have any pets other than the above mentioned dog?

What kind of music do you like?

Who is your favorite musical artist?

Who is your favorite artist? (if your into art)

Favorite colors?

What is your dream car?

I'm baking cookies and the timer just went off...more later, D

[biblonde]

Hey I think I already stole those boxers!! he he he he

How did you guys meet?

How long did you date before you got married?

What is your favorite color on Mrs. D when she puts on sexy clothes or lacy stuff???

[DBL D]

Originally Posted by littlebit54

Ok now that the hard sex/swinging questions are out of the way, let me in

You mentioned a dog, what kind of dog do you have?

How would you rate your wine making? Have you ever drank wine before it's time?... Do you prefer wine to other alcohols?

Do you have children? If so, how old are they?

Have you ever almost been "caught" when swinging?

What do each of you like best about the opposite sex and (for MrsD) the same sex?

What is your dream vacation? Besides cruising the coast up toward biblonde's

Do you have any regrets in your life that you would go back and change if you could?

OK more later....

littlebit54

Hi littlebit54,

We were beginning to wonder if you'd taken a dream vacation somewhere.

1) I was raised with Labs and we have continued that pattern. She just turned 6 and is a beautiful sandy color. Goes just about everywhere with us. Backpacking, Boating. We even find pet-friendly hotels so she can go with us on short getaways. We went on a long vacation once where we had to leave her with the vet and it changed her personality. We won't be leaving her that way again, if at all possible!

2) I would rate my wine making as very poor, since I don't make wine.
I make the "Juice of the Barley", as my Irish friends would say. I rate that very highly. Have won several ribbons of all colors. I have made approximately 25 different styles of beer-there have only been a couple that I was so disappointed in that I tossed them. It was like losing a friend watching those suds go down the drain. Generally my beer gets higher reviews than the local products or even regional stuff.

3) We never had children. Wanna take care of us when we get old?

4) The closest we came to getting "caught" was on the boat when we had playtime from 12-3am-right in the slip! Hey, we tried to be quiet but you know how sound carries on the water!

5) Fem D likes solid men with nice hard (and long) cocks. She likes women for the opposite reason. Their softer feel and warmth. Loves the curves. (Ditto that for Male D!) Tough question: Too easy to generalize. We like HWP people.

6) Fem D would like to go to someplace like a Fantasy Island where she could create a place just like she wants. Male D says anywhere he goes with Fem D is a dream vacation. We're going to Yellowstone one of these days.

7) Regrets...I've had a few...Da Da, Da Da. Wow, who doesn't have some. However, if it weren't for some of those same regrets things wouldn't be the same today. We all make choices in our lives that lead us to where we are now. We are in a great place now so it's hard to answer that one. Fem D says she regrets letting some friendships slip. Wishes she's paid more attention in school (Me too!). One of my biggest regrets is that I started smoking when everyone told me that it would be better if I didn't. Now I'm hooked and am trying to quit. It is very difficult to live with the fact that I am hurting myself more and more by not quitting. It will happen cause I'll eventually get so mad about it that I'll just stop. Surrender

[DBL D]

Originally Posted by EvilMJ

Hi DBL D,

Have you guys done much travelling?

Do you have a favorite book/author?

Hi EvilMJ,

1) We have travelled independantly of each other for the most part. Fem D got to go to Florida, Texas, Arizona and Illinois on business and had lot's of fun along the way. Male D got to go to Honduras and Guatemala when he was a teenager. Along the way went to Dallas and saw the location where Kennedy was shot. New Orleans, Vicksburg, Gettysburg, Wash D.C. and lots of other states. Strangely neither of us has been to Oregon or Washington state. Guess we'll have to put that on the list.

2) See above

3) Fem D likes "fix-it" books, "how-to" books, books on herbs and homeopathy.
Male D likes Rex Stout (Nero Wolfe) and E.S. Gardner (Perry Mason) and Photography Books and mags. Probably read some of your stuff in Penthouse Forum. facelick

[DBL D]

Originally Posted by DandS

Do you have any pets other than the above mentioned dog?

What kind of music do you like?

Who is your favorite musical artist?

Who is your favorite artist? (if your into art)

Favorite colors?

What is your dream car?

I'm baking cookies and the timer just went off...more later, D

Hi DandS,

1) We have a great cat that I saved from certain death when he was 5 weeks old. In fact his name comes from that "Near Death Experience". We had to get him declawed because he was ripping up too much stuff but he is wonderful and gets along with the dawg great. Fun to watch them play with each other.

2) Fem D says Classic Rock to the 90's, Blues, Jazz. "Sax Stuff" (That's a good thing because I play the Sax!) Male D enjoys that music and classical piano especially Brahms or Chopin, Latin Salsa. Even, dare I say, Polka music at times!

3) Fem D loves Rod Stewart and likes Madonna's stuff. Danceable material.
Male D Loves Pink Floyd, Santana, Dave Brubek, Jethro Tull, Queen, Sinatra and can't get enough of Mike Oldfield's "Tubular Bells". He can even stand to get into some Country or Rap occasionally. (5 minutes at a time!)

4) Fem D says she likes Georgia O'Keefe. I like those western artists like you find in the Wyoming & Montana states.

5) Fem D- Blues, Pink, Black. But she looks good in any color.
Male D loves greens and blues mostly. We had our colors done once and we both can mix our seasons pretty well and get away with it.

6) Fem D: NO QUESTION A JAG XKE, CONVERTIBLE, MIDNITE BLUE-NO LUGGAGE RACK.
Male D-one of those cosmopolitans....NOT! I want a big fully equipped 4x4 truck-probably a Chevy.

[DBL D]

Originally Posted by biblonde

Hey I think I already stole those boxers!! he he he he

How did you guys meet?

How long did you date before you got married?

What is your favorite color on Mrs. D when she puts on sexy clothes or lacy stuff???

YOU again! Hi BiBlonde!

1) I knew her bro. Was entranced the first time I saw her but we were both involved with others. Developed a friendship and things happened that allowed us to realize our feelings for each other.

2) Dated a year and lived together then got engaged for a year-the rest is mystery! Known each other since '75. Whoever said those that live together won't last must have missed our resume, I guess.

3) She looks great in (or out of) anything but probably a red of some kind.

Dy-No-Mite! facelick

[biblonde]

soooo....Who does most of the cooking in your house?

What is your favorite thing to make?

favorite beer to drink?