Spotlight Interview #27 - Biblonde

[JustAskJulie]

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[littlebit54]

All right! biblonde, do i ever have the questions for you!

What do you find most attractive in another woman?

How old were you when you first realized that inclination (to be with a woman); and how did that first time change you?

In what ways are women better lovers?

Enough sexual stuff.

What kind of music do you like?

Do you have any pets?

Where would you like to travel, if you could go anywhere in the world and have you always lived in the most "traveled to" place in the USA (besides FL maybe)?

What is your favoirite activity when not swinging?

more later....
littlebit54

[biblonde]

Question limit : ask away
Gender (if not a couple): couple
If a couple, which one primarily posts:the female but he reads the posts
Age(s):we are both 38
Birthday(s):mine Aug 12 his March 7
Location:close to sacramento
Relationship status:married
Swinging for how long?:almost 2 years
Prefer to swing with:couples
Favorite food(s):mine: ice cream and chocholate..oh you mean real food..mexican..his: mexican and pizza
Biggest Pet Peeve:STUPID PEOPLE!
Brief Intro:We have been together 22 years married for 16 years.We are best friends and high school sweethearts with as close to the "perfect" marrage as you can get. We have 2 boys. We got into swinging almost 2 years ago and love it.
Picture:I wont put a pic here sorry guys but for those that I have gotten to know through here if you would like to see message me and I'll give you our ID on SLS.
Website : this one of course and SLS

[biblonde]

[quote]What do you find most attractive in another woman?
Lets see...I like a woman that takes pride in her looks. One that does her hair, makeup, and dresses nice. I like one who is confedent in herself with a great personality. As for looks I like women that are close to my size (but not always important) with a sweet looking face.

How old were you when you first realized that inclination (to be with a woman); and how did that first time change you?

I think I have always found women attractive although I was to afraid to let it be know. I grew up in a strick house so that wasnt allowed. I told my hubby 2 years ago and that led us here! The first time was just WOW!!! The lady was so great, she allowed me to go at my pace never pushing anything. Our first time together was 2 hours of pure fun fun fun. (the boys didnt mind watching for sure) After playing for the first time it made me feel more complete ( for lack of a better word) Getting to explore my sexual desires made me fell more like a woman to be truthful.

In what ways are women better lovers?

Now I wouldnt say they are better lovers...that being said ...from a womans point of view I find women more sensual, soft, and sexy. I really enjoy my time with the ladies but still need a man to finish me off. There is just something about playing with women that does if for me although I dont know a good way to put it into words. And of course I love the flirting with the ladies...Much more fun for me than with the men..Guess it is the naughty side of me coming out!!

What kind of music do you like?

I like most kinds of music. Mostly classic rock and country

Do you have any pets?

We have a golden retriever and a turtle. Had a snake but he ran away...yickes

Where would you like to travel, if you could go anywhere in the world and have you always lived in the most "traveled to" place in the USA (besides FL maybe)?

I would love to go to austrailia. I think it would be a facinating place to visit. And the accent...that drives me nuts..I think it is soooo sexy.lol

And Yup lived here forever. We bought a house 5 miles from where we both grew up. (We lived a couple blocks from each other since we were kids!)

As for our favorite activity besides swinging...We love boating with the kids. Hubby and the boys love to fish! NOT ME!! lol We also like to go shooting..Both of us grew up with guns and love to go shoot up paper.

[biblonde]

Okay so I screwed up some of the quote stuff up above..lol blonde moment.. and littlebit dont worry about the sex questions! he he he I dont mind!!

[EvilMJ]

Hi Biblonde!

So how did you get interested in swinging?
Who brought it up?
Do you prefer couples? Singles? where do you go to meet them..

[littlebit54]

great...cause that's where i like to go here...sexy all the way!

So what is your favorite position when doing a FMF? Do you also enjoy MFM?

What is the hottest fantasy you have not fulfilled, yet?

How has swinging made you a better person?

Has any one time since the first stood out as the best?

[biblonde]

So how did you get interested in swinging?

We were playing a game of "what is your fantasty, be totally honest and no one can get upset at what the fantasy since after all it is fantasy" Well, the game went on and I decided to tell him my biggest fantasy of being with a woman. So We discussed it and decided to see if we could make it come true which led us to a swingers site (sls) and well the rest is history!!

Who brought it up?

I was the one who brought it up to start with although we had discussed 3somes and such. I told him I really wanted to live out both our fantasies and lets search the internet to see how to make it happen. Swinging didnt get brought up till we started finding sites for it. Then we both decided that was the way to go.

Do you prefer couples? Singles? where do you go to meet them..

We like couples. It seems to be easyer than finding singles that are honest (nothing against singles)But we have had some not great times with MEN pretending to be FEMALES when doing searches for women..And I really have no interest in single men at this time. Maybe someday we will do the 3 some thing but for now couples. We have meet them through SLS. But beings that I am a naughty girl I have been working on someone from work (who is a single girl and flirts like crazy with me!!) I am just real careful since it is work. He is all for it since she is quite the hottie!

[good times]

Great to see you in the spotlight, I often enjoy your posts.

Do you guys go to clubs?

Do you know of any good clubs in the Sacramento area?

And since you are so close and I'm curious, have you considered coming to the Reno meet up this Saturday (hint, we still have room for more)?

If you could go anywhere for a romantic vacation where would you go?

[biblonde]

So what is your favorite position when doing a FMF? Do you also enjoy MFM?

Well littlebit we havent done the 3some as of yet but when we play with couples it happens. I love it when my hubby is in her and I am licking her! it is such a turn on to watch and play at the same time. I also like it when hubby (either one mine or hers) helps me "take care" of her. I am good at sharing!! lol

What is the hottest fantasy you have not fulfilled, yet?

Well, I would love to take my boat out on Lake Tahoe and have sex right in the middle of the lake! I know it sounds wierd but ya know i am wierd so it fits! I think that would be the sexiest place with all the mountains surounding us and that beautiful lake...yowza! My other one is to go to a bar...pick up a sweet young girl, take her home, have sex all night. I think it would be fun. I have picked up on girls while we are out and did ask one to go home with us but she was chicken. She did flirt back and teased a little but that was all.

How has swinging made you a better person?

I'm not sure it has made me a better person but it has opened up a whole new topic of discussion with hubby. We now talk about everything. It has made me feel sexy and young again and I think that shows to others around us. It has brought me and hubby even closer, which I didnt think was possible. It has made him see that he is sexy to others and he feels more open to flirting with others without worrying that he will upset me although I havent been the jelous type he always worried that I would get upset. I think it has made us both more confident with ourselves. We no longer have the "I wish I could" thoughts in the back of our minds that we are afraid to share with each other. Now it is geez this would be fun lets try it!!

Has any one time since the first stood out as the best?

Well none have been really the best. My first time with a woman is the most memorable. The best is always the hot sex we have once we are alone. It is totally out of this world! So far we havent meet anyone who has just blown our minds..but still looking!!!

[biblonde]

Do you guys go to clubs?

We havent yet. I am still a little nervous about big crowds. We have talked about it though.

Do you know of any good clubs in the Sacramento area?

there is a couple here. I heard that club connections, which is new out here, is suppose to be pretty good.

And since you are so close and I'm curious, have you considered coming to the Reno meet up this Saturday (hint, we still have room for more)?

I really wish we could but we have alot going on here and couldnt get away. I would really like to meet those on this site sometime though!

If you could go anywhere for a romantic vacation where would you go?

Well actually our favorite place to go is Tahoe. In the winter when there are real bad snow storms going on we hop into my Jeep and drive up there. On the North Shore there are these little cotteges that are so cute. Having it snowing outside, with a fire going and no one knowing where we are...nothing better!! We spend most of the weekend ....well you can figure out that one....lol

[ALilOEverything]

Have you kept any of your old toys from your childhood?

How did you meet and fall in love?

Are there any fantasies left you are anxious to fullfill?

[biblonde]

Have you kept any of your old toys from your childhood?

I still have my Ziggy the monkey stuffed toy. He was the popular stuffed toy in the early 70's with his own show and all! He is pretty raggid now but I love him just the same!!

How did you meet and fall in love?

Well like I said we grew up close to each other. We meet in Jr. High and hated each other. Then in high school I was dating his best friend and he was dating my best friend. We became friends and when my best friend stole my boyfriend...we got together and lived happily ever after..lol But to tell ya the truth and yes he knows this ...although I really liked him I mostly got together with him out of revenge on my friend and x-boyfriend. Since she dumped him soon after they got together. We became real good friends and before I knew it I was in Love!! I think we are so close because we started out as friends instead of instant lovers. That friendship became a lifelong love afair. I truly beleive we are soul mates. We rarely fight or even argue. I can count on one hand how many bad fights we have had in 22 years and still have fingers left over. He is the most wonderful hubby anyone could ask for!!

Are there any fantasies left you are anxious to fullfill?

Just the ones that I mentioned before. We have lived out most of our fantasies and as we come up with new ones we try to fullfill as soon as we can. But you can bet I will find a couple who I will be willing to take out on Lake Tahoe!!! facelick

[littlebit54]

It sounds like you and your whole family (soul mate and children) are very close. In parenting, what do you feel is the most important thing to instill in your children?

What is your dream job (if you aren't already doing it)?

What famous person (male or female) would you like to shag?

What legacy (material or otherwise) do you hope to leave behind when you die?

How old do you think is ripe old age?? Don't be afraid to say 55, it may be true for some...lol

littlebit54

[biblonde]

It sounds like you and your whole family (soul mate and children) are very close. In parenting, what do you feel is the most important thing to instill in your children?

Well that is a tough one since there is so many..We have taught our boys that family is most important. We all tell each other we love each other, including me telling my in-laws that I love them since they are the best ever!! We encourage them to ask us about any kind of question they want. We give an honest answer no matter what the question (age apropriate of course) They are 14 and 11 and feel comfortable enough to ask us about sex, drugs, friends and such. I want them to know that being open and honest is the best way to go!! And most important always be yourself, if people dont like you for that, so be it, you really dont want them as friends anyway!! I have to say we both feel real close to the boys, we spend alot of time doing fun things with them. And they seem to enjoy still spending time with us...they do act like teenagers though!! lol They are the most important thing in our life for sure!

What is your dream job (if you aren't already doing it)?

Nope not doing it but maybe some day...I have always wanted to be a crime scene investigator. I find that kind of work so interesting. I like to be nosey so I think i would be good at it...

What famous person (male or female) would you like to shag?

only one??? lol well...Steven Sagal, Alan Jackson, Sandra Bullock, and and and oh yea Shenia Twain she is such a hottie and hubby just loves her too!! My kids always say if there is a steven sagal movie on..."hey mom your boyfriend is on tv!!" lol

What legacy (material or otherwise) do you hope to leave behind when you die?

Hmmmm...Not sure.I'll get back to you on that one.

How old do you think is ripe old age?? Don't be afraid to say 55, it may be true for some...lol

OH hun, 55 is still real young!! I see age as just a number to me your real age is how you feel. That is why I quit ageing...I am staying 30 forever! lol And I dont look my age so that helps. I have meet people my age who acted 100 and some that are in their 70's who act my age. So ripe old age is if you act like you are 100 no matter what your real age is!!