Spotlight Interview #27 - Biblonde

[JustAskJulie]

How did you and your hubby meet?

[biblonde]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

How did you and your hubby meet?

We meet in Jr. High and couldnt stand each other. Then in high school I was dating his best friend and he was dating mine..my best friend broke up me and my boyfriend since she wanted him and me and hubby got together right after that. So we kind of switched. I say I got the way better end of the deal since 22 years later we are as happy as ever and have always been happy together. He was my high school sweetie!! I tell him I got lucky the first time ...never really had to do the dating thing, I got the perfect hubby right out the gate. We married 6 years after we got together and have had a great marrage!!

[Newbies46514]

Hi there Bi-blonde!

I've really enjoyed reading through this interview so far. So I decided to post some questions of my own...

How old were you when you had your first bi experience?

How old were you when you had your first bi experience?

Do you enjoy your time with other men or is it really just all about the women for you?
I ask because I see a lot of similarities between what you've posted and what I'd like to happen in my life. lol

What's your favorite curse word?

[Newbies46514]

You're driving alone at night through a bad part of town. You come to a stop light and see three people waiting at a bus stop. One of them is an old high school buddy that once saved your life. Another is an old woman who looks like she needs medical attention and quick. The third is the woman of your dreams. Who do you help and in what order? How would you spend this night?

Saved the best for last. lol

[EvilMJ]

What would you like to do if you have a whole day to yourself...no work or kid/family pressures at all. (a dream of mine )

[biblonde]

So, how many boats do you have and what kind?

We have 2 right now. One is a 28ft owens cabin cruiser (which we are planning on selling!!) and our favorite is our 18ft glasstron. The little one is the funnest we take it everwhere in the summer.

What kind of movies do you like and who is your favorite actress and actor (s); and since you live in Cali, have you ever seen or met any famous people?

I like Horror or action movies. Sometimes I will go so a "girly" movie but not very often. My favorite actor is Stephen Sagal and my favorite actresses are Julia Roberts and Sandra Bullock. Naw havent meet anyone famous. It would be cool to someday though.

What is your favorite "grown up" toy, if you have any?

Well I now have a new toy...We got a Tahoe this weekend and I think it is going to be alot of fun. The other is my Jeep wrangler...yup I know I have strange toys...other than that I have a great vibrator that I love!! he he he

[biblonde]

How old were you when you had your first bi experience?

Well that was about 1&1/2 years ago. It was sooooo awsome!! She was a great "teacher". She let me go at my pace. And let me know exactly what she liked!! The very first time with her we played for about 2 hours alone while the boys spent part of the time watching and then going downstairs to visit while waiting for us...he he he he...we both thought we had only played with each other about a half hour...oh well...was a blast!!!!

Do you enjoy your time with other men or is it really just all about the women for you?

Yes I do enjoy my time with other men although our main reason for being in this lifestyle is for me to play with the ladies. But as much as I like playing with the ladies I need a man to finish the job. I like that when we have playdates I play with everyone there. I like it when there is 2 or 3 of us on one person and switch around like that...although I am not into the guy/guy thing at all so none of that..to me that is a turn off.

What's your favorite curse word?

hmmmm...lol well I say Shit and f.... when I am annoyed...I know not lady like language!! oh well

[biblonde]

Originally Posted by Newbies46514

You're driving alone at night through a bad part of town. You come to a stop light and see three people waiting at a bus stop. One of them is an old high school buddy that once saved your life. Another is an old woman who looks like she needs medical attention and quick. The third is the woman of your dreams. Who do you help and in what order? How would you spend this night?

Saved the best for last. lol

Well I would put them all in my car and first head for the hospital and take the old woman there. And would stick around there to make sure she is okay. Then I would take my high school friend to where ever they were needing to be and maybe take some time to catch up on old times. Then, oh darn, it is just me and my dream woman. I guess I would have to find a room somewhere and ravage her for hours!! lol

[biblonde]

Originally Posted by EvilMJ

What would you like to do if you have a whole day to yourself...no work or kid/family pressures at all. (a dream of mine )

Well, I would first go have a relaxing bath!! with no one calling out MOM or HUN to bug me. Then I have always wanted to spend the day at a day spa getting pampered all day by someone else...Glass of champain, full body rub, my hair and nails done...ohhhhhhhh I am soooo loving that! facelick

[littlebit54]

What is the most humiliating thing that ever happened to you?

What is the most challenging thing that ever happened to you?

What was the first car you ever drove?

Have you ever surfed?

Have you or would you ever parachute out of a plane?

Have you ever paraglided? Would you like to?

What was the one thing your mama told you that you never listened to?

Hey that's it for me..aren't you glad?

littlebit54

[biblonde]

What is the most humiliating thing that ever happened to you?

hmmm....I cant really think of anything...well maybe getting really drunk and pucking everywhere...lol...brought that one on myself! lol

What is the most challenging thing that ever happened to you?

Well actually there are two that stick out in my mind. The most was watching my father pass away and not being able to do anything for him but be there for him and holding his hand. He had had a bad heart attack and never woke from surgery. I was with him when he passed and I have to say that was the most horrible thing ever and knowing you cant do a thing to help is worse.
the second was going through chemo therapy...I hated every second of it but was worth it. I am now totally healthy!!

What was the first car you ever drove?

My dad's ford pick-up..which one month after I got my licence I wrecked it! totaled it for him...he wasnt a happy camper! I also spent alot of my high school days driving hubbies (was boyfriend at the time) 67 cougar XR7. Now that was a cool car!

Have you ever surfed?

Nope and have no desire too...chicken!!

Have you or would you ever parachute out of a plane?

NOPE NO WAY....funny you should ask...hubby wants to go soooooo bad so him and one of our Playmates are going to do it. Her hubby has no desire to either so I think we will go sit at the bar and drink...lol I cant see jumping out of a perfectly good plane...nope never ever!! bock bock big chicken

Have you ever paraglided? Would you like to?

Now this looks like it could be fun but not sure if I would or not. Hubby would in a heartbeat!

What was the one thing your mama told you that you never listened to?

ohhhhh...I was suppose to listen to her???? lol hmmmm I would say..you always told me to act like a lady and dont do anything unlady like...he he he I was such a tomboy growing up..I wanted to be like the boys... oh well I am now kind of a girly girl now....but I do act like the boys chasing after the girls!! lol lol facelick

Hey that's it for me..aren't you glad?

You are such a sweetie you can ask as much as ya like! After all I asked you a bunch of stuff and really enjoyed learning more about you.

[JustAskJulie]

So, was hubby perfect when you got him? Or did you train him to be perfect since you got him so young?

[biblonde]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

So, was hubby perfect when you got him? Or did you train him to be perfect since you got him so young?

LOL LOL Well he was pretty good when I got him, he had a great set of parents that raised him real good. BUT...I have trained him some to...he he he I improved him...he is gonna kill me for that one..I think he trained me too so we even on that. But he has always been a total gentleman and very sweet!!

[JustAskJulie]

You guys play with couples as well as single ladies right? Do you do full swap?

If so, do you think that some of your interest in/ desire to full swap may come from the fact that you were both young/inexperienced when you got together and this gives you a chance to do some of the things you didn't do before you got together?

[biblonde]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

You guys play with couples as well as single ladies right? Do you do full swap?

If so, do you think that some of your interest in/ desire to full swap may come from the fact that you were both young/inexperienced when you got together and this gives you a chance to do some of the things you didn't do before you got together?

We have only played with couples so far havent found a single woman that interests us both. And yes we are full swap...tried soft swap was bored!

Some of our interest, besides me getting to be with women, was to experiment with others. We both had wondered what it was like to be with others and thought this would be a great way to do that. Now I can say neither one of us will ever have the thought of "I wonder what it would be like to sleep with someone else". It has been alot of fun and we are both enjoying it totally. Yea there has been some bumps in the road but we work through those and look at it as a learning experiance. We dont let to much get us down because this lifestyle isnt worth getting all upset over. We are out to have a great time and well we make sure we find it. It has brought us even closer as a couple and now we have more games to play together..like going to the mall to check out chicks together and hmmmm wonder if they would come home with us...lol