Spotlight Interview #25 - Littlebit54

[JustAskJulie]

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[littlebit54]

Question limit: None. I'll be a little surprised if there are any...

Gender (if not a couple): Female (last time anyone noticed)!

If a couple, which one primarily posts: Me, myself and i!

Age(s): 54 (just a hair away from classy senion citizen status at restuarants; and other places that give discounts for such wonderous things)

Birthday(s): February, 23rd

Location: Louisiana

Relationship status: Common law (times 2) except in my state! Wouldn't you know, no strings=no benefits?

Swinging for how long?: Actually not swinging in the true sense of the word. I'm just a curious person, learning the "how to's" for furture reference!

Prefer to swing with: Men, but; never say never, never, never to anything...

Favorite food(s): Cajun of course. Chinese, Italian, Mexican; and whatever is tasty and perferably non-fattening (except that's an oxymoron, isn't it?)

Biggest Pet Peeve: Things that/ people who peeve me. Not many really. I'm not easily peeved, i'm just plain easy.

Brief Intro: Ok, here's the deal. I told Julie that i wasn't really a good canidate for this spotlight, because, first of all i'm not truly a swinger and that i was probably about as interesting as a "bowl of noodles" and if i might add, without the ceyenne pepper. But she finally convinced me that she thought someone might find me at least mildly interesting.

Picture: will post later, if anyone is interested in seeing a little jeanne
Website (your own or one of your favorites):

I guess i have a few others, but, lets face it you probably know this is one and SLS, and as of the last few weeks, these two are taking up all my time...happilly i might add.

[JustAskJulie]

Can you expand on the "Common Law" relationship status?

What got you curious about swinging?

[littlebit54]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

Can you expand on the "Common Law" relationship status?

What got you curious about swinging?

Common law (in most states) is when two people have practiced cohabitation for ten years or more. Louisiana is one of a few states that doesn't recognize it (as in giving it legal status). The federal government does, however.

So, as we were talking about this situation just last night, my youngest son and his g/f were kidding me about how i might have to take my b/f to federal court if we ever broke up; that is if i wanted to get everything he has...The silly old fart that he is, he reached in his pocket and said, Here you can have it all right now....we all laughed so hard we almost p'd our pants.

[JustAskJulie]

Ok, but you said "common law times 2", so does that mean you have two boyfriends living with you?

[EvilMJ]

Okay,

Since I have come to know almost everything about you in the past couple of weeks I will have to think of something that I don't know.

Have you lived in Louisiana all your life? If you could visit somewhere else, where would it be?

[littlebit54]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

Can you expand on the "Common Law" relationship status?

What got you curious about swinging?

Oh yeah, i forgot to answer your other question. I posted in my first intro that the reason i was interested in the lifestyle was because my oldest son and his g/f had gotten into it about 2 or 3 years ago. There had been minor hints that something of the sort was going on and then finally one day when he was on his way home from a "play-date" with their friends, (and i had been trying to get in touch with him on the numerous other occasions when he was out of pocket); he decided to just tell me. Probably so i wouldn't keep bugging him every weekend...
I wasn't really shocked as you might expect, but was really sort of more than happy when he explained their reasoning to me. He gave me what he thought was the url for this site, but it was not the one he wanted me to visit. He really wanted me to visit SLS. However, it was just serendipity that we got it wrong because this is the place to be if you want to find out the "scoop" on the lifestyle.
I must admit that i've been so thrilled reading all the posts of people who like my son feel this is just what is needed in some peoples lives. As he explained it to me from the start, they decided they wanted to "experience all that life has to offer" and if they wanted to play they should not making it cheating but play together. Still sounds good to me.

littlebit54

[biblonde]

So what is your best fantasy that you would like to live out or have lived out?

[littlebit54]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

Ok, but you said "common law times 2", so does that mean you have two boyfriends living with you?

I WISH!!! No, that would be too much for me to handle...all that mess, doing more laundry than the law allows not to mention having to put that damn stool lid down twice as often...lol
What i meant was that we have been living together for 20 years....and that's twice as long as either one of us thought it would last.

littlebit-too-tired-to-handle-four-nuts (anatomically that is)....b/f is one big one! (Nut as in crazy)...lol
jeanne

[littlebit54]

Originally Posted by biblonde

So what is your best fantasy that you would like to live out or have lived out?

Well, honestly i have many. But the longest lasting one that i have never made come true is to have m/m/m/m/m/me. I always wanted to be surrounded by many men all wanting to service me.. Being touched by two people (sexually) was also an electrifying idea to me, too. I guess i have done that one a littlebit, but it was not as good as it could have been.
I got to fulfill one that i didn't even realize was such a big one, when i got to watch this guy jack-off for me. It was so daring of me to do at 49 years old; and i had never done anything like it before or since. I am a late bloomer...lol

littlebit,
jeanne

[LikeMinds321]

I am very pleased to see you in the spotlight this week. You're a great addition to this board. You have a natural sense of humor, made apparent in this thread.

You seem easygoing and patient. I feel relaxed when I read your posts. Do you have this affect on other people?

What is your philosophy on getting through each day?

When life doesn't go smoothly how do you handle it?

LM

[littlebit54]

Originally Posted by EvilMJ

Okay,

Since I have come to know almost everything about you in the past couple of weeks I will have to think of something that I don't know.

Have you lived in Louisiana all your life? If you could visit somewhere else, where would it be?

I have not lived in Louisiana all my life. I was born/raised in Indiana and bred there first too...lol
I have lived here in Louisiana for the last 21 years. We came down here on Halloween, 1984. I said "trick or treat" to my current b/f and he's been doing both ever since.
I came down here with my second husband and he went on back to Indy without me. Didn't really look back on that three year mess of a marriage with any regrets at all. I have a beautiful son and granddaughter from it and that's all i can say for him. Except he did wake me up sexually, for all the good it did him.

I think i would like to visit you. How's that? I would also love to go to Amsterdam, (i hear the Netherlands are beautiful)! Plus, i'm certainly used to low sea levels..lol

[JustAskJulie]

With all that you have learned about swinging in your research, do you think it is something you would want to consider for yourself?

Do you think your guy would ever consider it?

[littlebit54]

Originally Posted by LikeMinds321

I am very pleased to see you in the spotlight this week. You're a great addition to this board. You have a natural sense of humor, made apparent in this thread.

You seem easygoing and patient. I feel relaxed when I read your posts. Do you have this affect on other people?

What is your philosophy on getting through each day?

When life doesn't go smoothly how do you handle it?

LM

Thank you! You are too kind, reallly!

My life has been so dramatic from the day i was born (blue baby), that i just decided one day, that i wanted to live life as if everyday were the last one. So, that's my philosophy if i have one. That and if you can make me laugh you can make me cum....lol Obviously i make myself laugh a lot.

I try to be patient, at all times, unless i want something right now!!!!

When my life isn't going smoothly, i reflect back on when it was more gravelly and i thank my lucky stars i made it here in one piece. Here, being past my own predicted death (of before 21).

I have no idea how my attitudes effect others, i'm just happy when they have done any good for you or anyone else.

<EG>

littlebit,
jeanne

[littlebit54]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

With all that you have learned about swinging in your research, do you think it is something you would want to consider for yourself?

Do you think your guy would ever consider it?

Ok, now they're getting harder (not my nips either). I think. I think. I think, from my research, it might be nice to be in the lifestyle (really nice really really nice) if i wasn't with the b/f--S/O. He is such a mismatch for me in so many ways, that it's a miracle we are still together. I can't even find the words to discribe him.
However, wordy like i am, let me try. He's been into/outof sexual interest in me so many times in the last 8-9 years that i don't know what to think.

His latest thing and i didn't have a term for it, until i was reading a thread on this wonderful board, can best be discribed as wanting a "sexsitter' for me.
He offers so many excuses for not having sex that i tend to get peeved at him....and you know that is bad! I don't get peeved that easy....lol I might just have to do that if i ever want any of my needs met (head on, so to speak).

Aren't you sorry you asked, Julie?


littlebit-just-wants-a-littlebit...lol
jeanne