Spotlight Interview #25 - Littlebit54

[biblonde]

What is the coolest place you had ever visited?

[biblonde]

Was it wierd discussing this lifestyle with your son? I am not sure I would be able to handle that kinda discussion with either of my boys. Although they do give me way to much info now and they are still real young..lol

[littlebit54]

Originally Posted by biblonde

What is the coolest place you had ever visited?

I would have to give the Bahamas two thumbs up. It was way cool. I also loved Vegas. My b/f is such a gambler that we seldom go anywhere where that's not the most legal activity around. I would love to go back to Vegas since that was probably almost 20 years ago and i know it's changed a bunch since then.

To you other post, let me go ahead and add my post to this one, ok? I guess it is...lol
I have never ever been a good lier and my kids (more than most) have an uncanny way of getting the truth out of me. I mean...

I didn't/don't volunteer the intimate details (much) but when my boys started asking me the "birds and bees" questions, i thought it best to give them as much info as they needed to make good decisions. However, i failed...since both got girls pregnant before they (or their girlfriends) were ready to have children. Now, lest you think me not a good parent; they are both excellent daddies to their daughters. My oldest has been married (not to his daughter's mother); and divorced (thank goodness) and my youngest is still with his babies mama (YUK!!).

I can't say one derogatory thing about my oldest son's girlfriend (the one he swings with) and really hope they tie the knot, as they plan to this fall (in Vegas no less). She is the sweetest, nicest person you could ever choose as a mate for him; and i hope he knows it.

My youngest son's girlfriend is about the last person i would've picked for him...and i mean that from the bottom of the pit of my stomach....lol

I did say my life was full of drama, didn't i?

I do feel blessed though, having two good boys that enjoy life (youngest one at my purse's expence) to it's fullest. Not to mention two beautiful granddaughters..YEA, i always wanted girls!! I get to spoil them without spoiling them if you know what i mean?

(At least the youngest has a job, but it doesn't pay enough to meet his family's needs. So, good thing we (b/f and i) are lucky at other things if not love)!

....yikes i do ramble on, huh?

Always giving a little more info than i need to, aren't we?

littlebit-rambler
jeanne

[biblonde]

naw not to much info! and nope that doesnt make you a bad parent...kids do all the things we tell them not too! Beleive me my two are quite the handfull but I wouldnt trade them for the world!

[littlebit54]

Originally Posted by biblonde

naw not to much info! and nope that doesnt make you a bad parent...kids do all the things we tell them not too! Beleive me my two are quite the handfull but I wouldnt trade them for the world!

Damn straight! My sons are both the light of my life. I did good....lol I wouldn't trade them, either.

Now, i wouldn't hesitate to trade in the youngest one's girlfriend, if i could keep my little red headed angel of a granddaughter. She is without a doubt the "red and delicious" of my eye!!! Plus, she's got my sense of humor and dearly loves to laugh, even at herself. You couldn't help but fall for her, she's so sweet.

She laughed (not from gas either) when she was less than a week old. I was kidding my son about changing her (poopy) diapers and i laughingly said Ammalee, make one for daddy to change and she HONESTLY laughed...lol

Then i didn't see her again until she was about 5 months old when they moved down here and i started giggling so much with happiness to see her, that everyone around me started laughing too and she laughed so much, none of us could stop. I guess it's true, laugher is contagious!

littlebit-lol
jeanne

[biblonde]

I can only hope that when my boys have kids (and it better be a long time from now..lol) that I get at least one little girl! My hubbies family moslty spits out boys so!

So, have you had any experiance at all in swinging or are you just still checking it out and not sure about it all yet? Are you Bi? Bi curious? or straight...I know I am nosey..lol

[littlebit54]

Originally Posted by biblonde

I can only hope that when my boys have kids (and it better be a long time from now..lol) that I get at least one little girl! My hubbies family moslty spits out boys so!

So, have you had any experiance at all in swinging or are you just still checking it out and not sure about it all yet? Are you Bi? Bi curious? or straight...I know I am nosey..lol

Please, nose away!

Hey, girls skipped a generation with me too. My youngest son's father was the end of the line (the Private Ryan), until my son was born. His father had five sisters. I was so sure that our child would be a girl, i scarcely had a boy's name picked out before i delivered. Even the doctors/nurses were sure he was female, as his heart beat was faster than a boys ought to be (before the age of sonography)! He was Jessica until the day he was born. Maybe that's why he's in touch so much with his feminine side or well rounded as i like to say. He understands women more than i ever thought it would be possible for a guy, (that is) to do.

Ok, good back to the topic of sex. I am not as curious about it (the lifestyle) now, as i was at first. I think i get, pretty much, what it's all about. If you hang around here long enough, just about everything you ever wanted to know about the lifestyle in general, and sex in particular, has been asked and answered. I found out a lot about the dynamics of it on the first day i registered.

To me, swinging means loving, trusting, caring, fun-loving, solid relationships where two people want to explore the summate of their sexuality. Am i right?

Here's where i point of view on bi-sexuality. I have had many girlfriends that i love more than myself (and i do have a few good qualities). So, it's not impossible for me to imagine that caring feeling going to a more sexual flavor. It just hasn't happened yet. Do i think it will? I never say never. I always say, i never know what i am capable of, until i'm doing it? I'm not actively seeking a bisexual relationship, but i wouldn't slap a woman for finding me attractive enough to hit on me...lol

littlebit-all ways-curious,
jeanne

[RW1F]

No questions, just wanna say I hope I still have as good of an outlook on life when I'm your age. I love southern women!!!

[EvilMJ]

Hey my little Cajun friend..you're welcome to visit any time!! Just be prepared to be hassled by a very large irate cat on a diet and a three year old with a monster truck obssession.

What is the biggest challange you have ever had to face in your life and what sort of impact has it had on you...

[littlebit54]

Originally Posted by littlebit54

Here's where i point of view on bi-sexuality. I have had many girlfriends that i love more than myself (and i do have a few good qualities).
littlebit-all ways-curious,
jeanne

I have to fix this! I woke up this morning thinking about how concieted the part about loving myself might have sounded. I am not in love with me....lol What i meant was more than my life itself. I have girlfriends i care about that much! Biblond! I hope you know what i meant, didn't you? I know you must have many friends (male and female) you care about that way, too, and not always in any sexual way, huh?

[littlebit54]

Originally Posted by RW1F

No questions, just wanna say I hope I still have as good of an outlook on life when I'm your age. I love southern women!!!

Hey RW1F, Thank you! You must know that we are quite spicey, huh? Since i wasn't born here, it's probably all that food that i've eaten over the last twenty years. Even though i can't call myself a true-GRITS (girls raised in the south), i have gained a lot of it by osmosis, i suppose.

[littlebit54]

Originally Posted by EvilMJ

Hey my little Cajun friend..you're welcome to visit any time!! Just be prepared to be hassled by a very large irate cat on a diet and a three year old with a monster truck obssession.

What is the biggest challange you have ever had to face in your life and what sort of impact has it had on you...

Hey EvilMJ,
Cat's do not scare me! They don't call me the "crazy cat lady" on perpetual diet for nothing...lol and a little boy with a truck obssession is right up my alley! So please! watch for me in an eighteen wheeler....lol

My biggest challange. Now that's a tough one. I guess it was when i first heard the word terminal. Now that's a word that can really scare you, until the doctor tells you the difference between, terminal and fatal. He was talking about MS and how there is no cure, so i would always have it. I have such a mild case or rather the symtoms haven't recurred since i was diagnosed in 1996 that i barely remember i have it most of the time.

However, the impact that word had on me was definitely a challange. I realized that if i had to face any terminal disease i needed to get busy living, unless i was ready to get busy dying.

If i have a good outlook on life, it's because the alternitive to life is not so hot! Plus, a good attitude is healthier in the long run than a bad one, right?

I truly believe in that perscription that laughter is the best medicine; and it keeps the harbingers of anything bad away!

littlebit-harbinger of happy
jeanne

[biblonde]

Originally Posted by littlebit54

I have to fix this! I woke up this morning thinking about how concieted the part about loving myself might have sounded. I am not in love with me....lol What i meant was more than my life itself. I have girlfriends i care about that much! Biblond! I hope you know what i meant, didn't you? I know you must have many friends (male and female) you care about that way, too, and not always in any sexual way, huh?

Yes I have many friends like that! I knew axactly what ya meant. Didnt sound conceted at all...lol And I have lots of vanilla friends that I always hug and Kiss on the cheek and tell um I love um. Dont worry! lol

[littlebit54]

Originally Posted by biblonde

Yes I have many friends like that! I knew axactly what ya meant. Didnt sound conceted at all...lol And I have lots of vanilla friends that I always hug and Kiss on the cheek and tell um I love um. Dont worry! lol

Thank you. I figured you might understand, but it really bothered me that i might have been giving off some kind of "stuck on myself" vibe. I hug all my girlfriends and always tell them that i love them. Sometimes they even say it first...lol

littelbit-luvsya,
jeanne

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