Spotlight Interview #22 - TNT

[Teresa's Ted]

Damn, that picture is old.

[JustAskJulie]

Do you feel that your choice to marry so young and pass on any chances to explore other relationships may have had anything to do with your later choice to swing?

[Teresa's Ted]

No, I think our double dating with friends and doing the deed inthe same car had more to do with it Seriously, I always even at the age of 16 had an interest in group sex. We watched a lot of porn and saw so many things that we wanted to try. For us, it wasn't someone different, it was just we couldn't have DP by ourself. If we could just clone ourselves we would probably never swing again.

Ted (bent from an early age thanks to Bob Guccione)

[NNJBoomers]

I just have to say hello to my birthday "twin", Teresa.

Sagittarius ladies are HOT.

Mrs Boomer
December 2

[TNT]

Originally Posted by NNJBoomers

I just have to say hello to my birthday "twin", Teresa.

Sagittarius ladies are HOT.

Mrs Boomer
December 2

Yes they are Mrs. Boomer .

Teresa

[TNT]

If anyone wants to ask anymore questions, nows the time, we will probably lose power later tonight due to Ivan. Even though we will not be getting a direct hit, we are on the east side of the darn thing . But, we are both home today and will be spending all day on-line. So get your questions in.

Teresa

[biblonde]

them darn storms...do you get hit by many? that would suck! lol
what lessons have you learned from swinging and what advice would you give newbies just getting into it? What do you now do different than when you first started? What are important questions you now ask potential playmates?

[TNT]

Originally Posted by biblonde

them darn storms...do you get hit by many? that would suck! lol

Not many thank goodness. We are far enough inland that we don't have to worry to much about anything but wind, rain and tornadoes.

what lessons have you learned from swinging and what advice would you give newbies just getting into it?

Lessons: Go with your gut feeling, it will never lead you wrong.
Advice: Always remember it is about you as a couple. Don't let anyone talk you into doing something that you don't want to do. Talk about EVERYTHING. And most importantly have a good time.

What do you now do different than when you first started?

We don't exactly do anything differently but WE are different. Our confidence level has risen, we have realized that it's just play and fun and nothing to stress over, which all comes with experience.

What are important questions you now ask potential playmates?

The same questions we always asked, explicit sexual questions...What do you like? Are you homophobic (for the men) ? How Bi are you (for the women)?

Ted and I are very open with our sexuality and we make it a definite point to find out our playmates boundaries as we don't want to over step them, especially since we have no boundaries where sexual play is concerned. Even though we don't like curbbing down our desires in a play session we are respectful of others and will do so as we figure WE are always going to have a good time and come out of any play session with something that we can mind-fuck each other with.

TNT

[JustAskJulie]

For those looking to play with single males, what advice do you have for them?

For single males looking to play what is your #1 piece of advice?

What are your hobbies?

What is you favorite (non sexual) thing to do together?

(from another Sagitarius - Dec. 11)

[TNT]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

For those looking to play with single males, what advice do you have for them?

Go for it . Just take your time getting to know them. Although we have been very lucky in finding great guys for our MFM threesomes, we make it understood that this is just for fun. We let them know that there will be no contact behind anyones back and should it happen we will never play with them again. Look for men that are respectful of the couples relationship and understand this is just play, that there is nothing wrong with the relationship or that the wife "needs" another man.

For single males looking to play what is your #1 piece of advice?

Be respectful of the couple. Talk to the husband, don't ignore the fact that he is there. Don't be over eager. Relax, be yourself. Never attempt to contact the wife without the husbands knowledge. Realize that the couple is a team, they want you there for their pleasure and in return will or should make sure you also have a great time.

What are your hobbies?

Swinging . We read, a lot. We love putting puzzles together, it's something that the kids get into with us as well. Restoring old trucks is a blast. We have gotten into cooking with each other here lately, trying out new recipes is a blast, sometimes they turn out sometimes they don't.

What is you favorite (non sexual) thing to do together?

Traveling and talking. We enjoy road trips where the radio is turned down and we talk about everything under the sun. We also enjoy shopping together, we act like teenagers and will spend hours trying on different outfits and then not buy anything.

(from another Sagitarius - Dec. 11)

Sagitarius ROCKS!

TNT

[JustAskJulie]

Have you ever had a bad experience with a single guy? (or a couple for that matter)?

[biblonde]

do you have a favorite road trip story? We also love just jumping in the car and going where ever the car takes us.

[EvilMJ]

Pinky, Are You Pondering What I'm Pondering?
Umm, I think so Brain, but what if the chicken won't wear the nylons?

Okay Ted, are you going to give me a hint about your plot to take over the world. I would have to be wasting time working on an evil plan only to find out you did it first!

Theresa, I must say I love your choice of books. All favorite of mine, especially the Anita Blake Series. Do you like gothic, dark things?

[TNT]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

Have you ever had a bad experience with a single guy? (or a couple for that matter)?

No we haven't. Some play sessions better than others, but nothing that we consider bad. We have never had a problem with a man trying to contact me without Ted's knowledge or not showing respect for us as a couple. They have all really been good experiences.

I wrote about the bad couple we experienced, but then that wasn't really bad at all, as we never played with them and never saw or heard from them again after we had dinner. Even with couples we have some play sessions that have been better than others, but we consider that to be normal.

TNT

[TNT]

Originally Posted by biblonde

do you have a favorite road trip story? We also love just jumping in the car and going where ever the car takes us.

Actually two

The first and probably the one that makes them so special for us was shortly after we were married, we drove from here to San Diego, CA for our new duty station, we took two weeks to do it and even though there was a stop off for a few days at a hospital for an infection I had contracted, it allowed us to discuss all sorts of things with each other. It was the first time we had totally been with just each other without any family members around, no phones, just two crazy teenagers learning to rely on each other, laughing, loving, and learning there was nothing we couldn't do as long as we kept holding hands.

The second one that always comes to mind was when we took a road trip to meet a very special lady. On the way home it was very late at night, no cars on the roads, we both got naked and I sat on Ted's lap while he was driving. Since that time when Ted has to drive this same road on some of his trips he will always call me, tell me what road he is on and ask if I know what he's thinking about...which I always do. We had a blast that night.

Teresa