Want Husband to try Bi

BandJ1968 · 10-09-2003, 03:26 PM

Hi! My husband and I have been reading a lot of the posts regarding bi couples, bi-male/female experiences and it's something new we'd like to try with another bi-couple.

Any suggestions and/or experiences that you'd like to share that might make it a better experience for us -- or help us avoid mistakes?

The whole idea is extremely hot to us, but finding the right couple seems to be difficult as well.

Thanks!

B and J -- in Florida

Elusive BiFem · 10-09-2003, 03:59 PM

First off, Welcome to the Board. I'm glad you've found this place most of us enjoy and also that you've had the opportunity to read the various post on the topics that interest you.

Now as for your question...the first thing I noticed is that your header said "Want Husband to try Bi." Now of course, I would want to know if your husband wants to try bi or if this is something you want him to try. Either way is just fine as long as both are in agreement.

There are quite a few threads on here dealing with bi men and some of the difficulties associated. Have you had the opportunity to look through those? And of course, it won't be long until lots of people have responded to your posts with their thoughts and ideas on the subject...and hopefully resulting in you coming back to visit with us frequently.

Have ya'll been involved in swinging long or is this something you are just finding an interest in?

Looking forward to hearing more from ya'll. - EBF

BandJ1968 · 10-09-2003, 04:18 PM

Hi, and thanks for the nice reply and warm welcome!

I would say he's at that curious stage now and it's something we have talked about for a while.

We've been in this lifestyle for almost 4 years now.

Again, thanks for the nice warm welcome!

J and B

jcbicouple · 10-09-2003, 08:13 PM

Hi B and J. Don't know if we really have any advice to offer, but both of us are bi, we only play with other bi people, and we definitely enjoy it. We find it very erotic to watch the other with a member of the same sex. Also very erotic to both enjoy the same person at the same time. It can be more difficult to find four people that are all bi and attracted to each other, but we would recommend you keep trying. Find a bi couple that you are comfortable with, talk about what you want and don't want, and have fun exploring!

velbuzz · 11-07-2003, 07:48 PM

As a curious bi-male I would like to know if those of you bi males still are blood donors. Especially if you r just orally bi? Hope you don't mind my changing the tone of the thread a little.

Bill

ready2pla · 02-07-2004, 09:37 AM

I am a bi-male but my wife is straight we played with a couple that both were bi. We had a great time wife tried the bi thing twice she said it wasn't her cup of tea. But she did get off on watching the males together. We no longer play with that couple and do miss that play. I would say get to know them and ask what they like communicate. We played with that couple for years and had no idea that the male was bi too think of all the fun we missed by not talking about fantasy's. And why in the heck would you change the tone of this thread to talk about blood donation are you with Red Cross and can't leave your job at work!!! I think you should make your own thread!!!!

fun_pairTX · 02-07-2004, 10:12 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by ready2pla
why in the heck would you change the tone of this thread to talk about blood donation are you with Red Cross and can't leave your job at work!!! I think you should make your own thread!!!!

Sounds like a pertinent question, is it one you always react to in a sarcastic manner?

Brit_Pair · 02-07-2004, 12:17 PM

Given that this thread is about starting out as a bi-male, the subject of complications is surely a pertinent one. After all, BandJ1968 asked for suggestions and experiences to "help us avoid mistakes". The question of blood donation in the context of potential infection (one possible complication of bi-male activity) is one that therefore fits, IMHO. In any case, even if a new thread to discuss the issue was merited, the attack was not.

Let's keep it friendly folks.

IndyGirl2004 · 02-07-2004, 02:22 PM

While the thread had to do with male bisexuality originally, there's been a new thrust (sorry) added to the subject matter of the thread.

To me, if it's a pertinent question then it's pertinent to all and not just to bi-males.

imsnowman · 02-08-2004, 08:38 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by velbuzz
As a curious bi-male I would like to know if those of you bi males still are blood donors. Especially if you r just orally bi? Hope you don't mind my changing the tone of the thread a little. Bill

Why are you asking? Just curious beause the Red Cross asks screening questions and tests the blood.
So what's your point?

hoistsail · 02-09-2004, 11:56 AM

I think a good way to start is with a foursome, and have a little help inserting and getting each other ready to play.

ready2pla · 02-09-2004, 08:39 PM

I am sorry I totally screwed up I should not have been sarcastic and after I sent it I wish I could have taken it back. I didn't understand why you would seperate the Bi-sexual male swingers from any swinging couple. I will tell you that I would not donate blood, not because I am Bi-sexual but because my wife and I have been involved in the lifestyle for many years. Even with condoms the risk how ever slight is more elevated than a couple not involved in the lifestyle. I may have read between the lines and got it totally wrong!! Again I am sorry!!!!!!!!

PrtyinDuo · 02-29-2004, 10:18 AM

Quote:

Find a bi couple that you are comfortable with, talk about what you want and don't want, and have fun exploring!

We know this post has been here for a bit now,along with quite a few others on the subject of male bisexuality.But have to agree totally here with jcbicouple.We too are both bi sexual and really enjoy watching the other with the same sex and sharing one person.It may take awhile to find a cpl who are both bi and are compatible but,when ya do,talk,and ask questions and have fun with it.

Enjoy!!facelick

hoistsail · 03-07-2004, 11:35 AM

Most men have not touched another mans cock so take it slow. Finding little ways to touch another male and seeing how it feels and getting a reaction is best.

If you get together with a bi couple make sure they know you are going to go slowly and want to be comfortable with the experience. Usually men will say they are bi, bi curious, or straight. Most straight guys will not even try a bi experience.

My choice would be bi-curious so you learn and expand your sexuality together

facelick

sdexcalibur · 03-13-2004, 08:14 PM

Another Bi courios guy here, We've talked, fanatizied, and acted it out but never really done it, Going to go to a club soon so maybe something will happen their,

Also what about the cumming part, What is the rules on oral, It it like a unwritten rule. I know I much rather have my wife finish me off with her mouth then to end it in a hand job, I mean I know when I have to pull out, But what if the guy receiving deceides he doesn't feel like telling you.
I guess their is always the condom route.

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10-09-2003, 03:26 PM	#1 (permalink)
BandJ1968 Registered Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 9 Location: Orlando, FL Status: Couple SLS Name:billjill1968	Want Husband to try Bi Hi! My husband and I have been reading a lot of the posts regarding bi couples, bi-male/female experiences and it's something new we'd like to try with another bi-couple. Any suggestions and/or experiences that you'd like to share that might make it a better experience for us -- or help us avoid mistakes? The whole idea is extremely hot to us, but finding the right couple seems to be difficult as well. Thanks! B and J -- in Florida

11-07-2003, 07:48 PM	#5 (permalink)
velbuzz Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2002 Posts: 313 Location: Bradford County, PA Status: MWC 58/55 SLS Name:velbuzz	Question on male bi-ness As a curious bi-male I would like to know if those of you bi males still are blood donors. Especially if you r just orally bi? Hope you don't mind my changing the tone of the thread a little. Bill

02-07-2004, 12:17 PM	#8 (permalink)
Brit_Pair Active Member Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 3,635 Location: UK Status: Couple	Given that this thread is about starting out as a bi-male, the subject of complications is surely a pertinent one. After all, BandJ1968 asked for suggestions and experiences to "help us avoid mistakes". The question of blood donation in the context of potential infection (one possible complication of bi-male activity) is one that therefore fits, IMHO. In any case, even if a new thread to discuss the issue was merited, the attack was not. Let's keep it friendly folks. __________________ *It's not going to be an orgy. It's a toga party . . .*

02-07-2004, 02:22 PM	#9 (permalink)
IndyGirl2004 Here to Stay Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 83 Location: Indianapolis Status: couple; female (bicurious), male (straight)	While the thread had to do with male bisexuality originally, there's been a new thrust (sorry) added to the subject matter of the thread. To me, if it's a pertinent question then it's pertinent to all and not just to bi-males. Last edited by IndyGirl2004 : 02-07-2004 at 03:45 PM.

10-09-2003, 03:59 PM	#2 (permalink)
Elusive BiFem Active Member Join Date: Dec 2002 Posts: 3,400 Location: Texas Status: Single Female	First off, Welcome to the Board. I'm glad you've found this place most of us enjoy and also that you've had the opportunity to read the various post on the topics that interest you. Now as for your question...the first thing I noticed is that your header said "Want Husband to try Bi." Now of course, I would want to know if your husband wants to try bi or if this is something you want him to try. Either way is just fine as long as both are in agreement. There are quite a few threads on here dealing with bi men and some of the difficulties associated. Have you had the opportunity to look through those? And of course, it won't be long until lots of people have responded to your posts with their thoughts and ideas on the subject...and hopefully resulting in you coming back to visit with us frequently. Have ya'll been involved in swinging long or is this something you are just finding an interest in? Looking forward to hearing more from ya'll. - EBF

10-09-2003, 04:18 PM	#3 (permalink)
BandJ1968 Registered Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 9 Location: Orlando, FL Status: Couple SLS Name:billjill1968	Hi, and thanks for the nice reply and warm welcome! I would say he's at that curious stage now and it's something we have talked about for a while. We've been in this lifestyle for almost 4 years now. Again, thanks for the nice warm welcome! J and B

10-09-2003, 08:13 PM	#4 (permalink)
jcbicouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 680 Location: Indiana Status: Happily Married Couple SLS Name:jcbicouple	Hi B and J. Don't know if we really have any advice to offer, but both of us are bi, we only play with other bi people, and we definitely enjoy it. We find it very erotic to watch the other with a member of the same sex. Also very erotic to both enjoy the same person at the same time. It can be more difficult to find four people that are all bi and attracted to each other, but we would recommend you keep trying. Find a bi couple that you are comfortable with, talk about what you want and don't want, and have fun exploring!

02-07-2004, 09:37 AM	#6 (permalink)
ready2pla Here to Stay Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 80 Location: kansas	I am a bi-male but my wife is straight we played with a couple that both were bi. We had a great time wife tried the bi thing twice she said it wasn't her cup of tea. But she did get off on watching the males together. We no longer play with that couple and do miss that play. I would say get to know them and ask what they like communicate. We played with that couple for years and had no idea that the male was bi too think of all the fun we missed by not talking about fantasy's. And why in the heck would you change the tone of this thread to talk about blood donation are you with Red Cross and can't leave your job at work!!! I think you should make your own thread!!!!

02-09-2004, 11:56 AM	#11 (permalink)
hoistsail Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 100 Location: NC Status: Couple	A way to start I think a good way to start is with a foursome, and have a little help inserting and getting each other ready to play.

02-09-2004, 08:39 PM	#12 (permalink)
ready2pla Here to Stay Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 80 Location: kansas	I am sorry I totally screwed up I should not have been sarcastic and after I sent it I wish I could have taken it back. I didn't understand why you would seperate the Bi-sexual male swingers from any swinging couple. I will tell you that I would not donate blood, not because I am Bi-sexual but because my wife and I have been involved in the lifestyle for many years. Even with condoms the risk how ever slight is more elevated than a couple not involved in the lifestyle. I may have read between the lines and got it totally wrong!! Again I am sorry!!!!!!!!

03-07-2004, 11:35 AM	#14 (permalink)
hoistsail Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 100 Location: NC Status: Couple	Take it slowly Most men have not touched another mans cock so take it slow. Finding little ways to touch another male and seeing how it feels and getting a reaction is best. If you get together with a bi couple make sure they know you are going to go slowly and want to be comfortable with the experience. Usually men will say they are bi, bi curious, or straight. Most straight guys will not even try a bi experience. My choice would be bi-curious so you learn and expand your sexuality together facelick

03-13-2004, 08:14 PM	#15 (permalink)
sdexcalibur Here to Stay Join Date: Feb 2004 Posts: 42 Location: Wareham Status: Couple	Another Bi courios guy here, We've talked, fanatizied, and acted it out but never really done it, Going to go to a club soon so maybe something will happen their, Also what about the cumming part, What is the rules on oral, It it like a unwritten rule. I know I much rather have my wife finish me off with her mouth then to end it in a hand job, I mean I know when I have to pull out, But what if the guy receiving deceides he doesn't feel like telling you. I guess their is always the condom route.

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