Want Husband to try Bi

[passion8]

I'd say it all comes down to communication. You're going to have to talk to the other guy about what your limits are so this is part of that discussion. I wouldn't hold out much hope of anything happening at the club you are going to, as in general male bisexuality at swingers clubs is frowned upon. Judging by this board there are plenty of bi-curious males out there so good luck.

[ionsawmill]

There are more bi-males on this board all the time. I think it's representative of a trend. At least, I hope it is. When we started looking into swinging, we were told that I should keep my bisexuality to myself. I see more and more couples now blatantly advertising their male as bisexual or bi-curious.

For the record, I don't donate blood because I have low blood pressure. I don't see how this matters though. Even the straight couples here don't know if the men they've swung with have ever had sex with another man. Nor do they know how many partners their female playmates have had. If someone is concerned, they should stop giving blood; bisexual, gay or straight.


Welcome to the board, BandJ1968. My advice is to be honest and open about your fantasy. It may take longer to find playmates, but someone out there is looking for you as intently as you are looking for them. Be honest and open with each other and your playmates about your limits and theirs.

[Partycplinfla]

We also would like to do the mm bi thing once it is a very big turn on to us.

[confunktion]

Yeah, it's interesting how times and attitudes have changed. There are so many people out there still uptight about the bi-male thing, but the tide is turning a little, methinks.

It has been said before, but communication is key. If you're honest and open without being pushy, you never know what you'll find. Who knows? Maybe you'll even awaken some desires in a person who didn't find them in the past. Odds are they'll thank you in the morning...

[mf69_98]

Originally Posted by velbuzz

As a curious bi-male I would like to know if those of you bi males still are blood donors. Especially if you r just orally bi? Hope you don't mind my changing the tone of the thread a little.

Bill

We only play with guys who have not done anal with other guys, as wife is a blood donor. The guys & I do oral on each other, but not anal. My wife & I played with a couple where the GF was bi (and had a great time with my wife) & she wanted her BF to try oral with me. He tried it & decided it wasn't his cup of tea (shame, as he was fairly good at it & could really be great with practice). ANy other time, we have only played with experienced bi oral guys so we know they're into it.