My fantasy - watch husband with another male

[Kittyphur]

My husband and I have never done this but I feel like I have because I've been looking at swinger websites for years now. My question is about two men getting it on. It seems that the majority of the time any same-sex lovin' occuring is between women. I would love to see my husband get it on with another man. Does this happen at swinger parties or am I a total anamoly? Would other men freak out?

[lovefest04]

You are certainly not alone, my wife and you would get along just fine.

It had been a fantasy of hers for some time and we actually made it come true. For her it was over the top. She was soooo excited. Honestly, I have seldom seen her get as worked up as she did watching and having two men at the same time.

We tend to play together so we invited a male to join us and explained that there would most certainly be male male contact. She actually directed the action a bit. Then the three of us played.

She absolutly loved it and I loved making her fantasy cum true. If only I could bring that kind of joy to every woman in the world.

thinking of that, you ever in California?

[good times]

Originally Posted by Kittyphur

Does this happen at swinger parties or am I a total anamoly?

I don't think you are a total anamoly, but I have never seen it happen at a club and most clubs that I've been to discourage it.

Originally Posted by Kittyphur

Would other men freak out?

Some wouldn't, most would.

For more on this here are a couple recent threads on the subject.

M/M Bisexual Activity

Men swingers and bisexuality

[Dolphins524]

Being a straight as an arrow male, I would't want to see 2 guys together @ a party or club. Doesn't mean I'd freak out though. To each his own. But I think straight women seeing other women together doesn't bother them as much as it would guys seeing guys together. Maybe a little double standard or something. For some reason, I've always felt that all women are, at the very least, a little bi-curious. Maybe that could be one of the reasons two women are more acceptable than two men, although I could be completely wrong (I hope not, the all women being a little bi thing I mean ).

I'd do it for her.

Straight as I am, I want to see her excited.

[NudeDen]

Sounds like a great fantasy to me . I know you are certainly not alone, though there are fewer bi males in swinging than bi females and mm play is very rare at parties and clubs so i've heard. Good luck with your fantasy.

Dennis

[jb3640]

I'd do it just to make her happy.

[sexRus50]

My wife gets super turned on when I join her in sucking off a guy. She licks his balls as I handle his cock. She loves it when he cums in my mouth and I share it with her in a deep kiss while I then fuck her. But, we must be careful in the clubs because of the double standard. It is ok for her to eat another woman but for us to do the above described appears to make many uncomfortable.

[Sweetalker45]

I think this is ojne of those kinds of things that doesn't play well in public swing situations but is very much accepted, and from my experience, engaged in in more intimate settings.

[WyldeCouple]

Never seen it happen in a club. But have heard about it happening while we were at a club. The two guys were laughed out of there. It is a huge double standard. So with that in mind I (Mr. Wylde) am only a str8 player in the clubs and a bi dude in private with our friends.

[GerdOEvert]

There is lots of bi male activity in the "private" rooms of the clubs,and maybe sometimes in the dark public rooms.

But the bi male activity seems to be followed up with a get together at one another's homes.

I would guess there is regular sexual bi mail contact in any large lifestyle club from my experience with six clubs over a number of years.

Otto

[Carol_Danny]

Many of the clubs up here have started Bi nights (usually midweek) for Bi-couples. I have seen Bi-Male action at on-premises clubs here in Montreal, but it's usually done discretely. What is becoming very common is for Bi stuff to happen at private house parties. The last party we were at, out of 9 couples that were there, 5 of the men were Bi. They don't touch the straight guys (unless asked, which happens) but none of it bothers the straight guys in the least.

We've found that the Bi-male thing isn't as taboo as it once was, and many men are finally admitting to their curiosity.

[Dynamar]

Originally Posted by Carol_Danny

We've found that the Bi-male thing isn't as taboo as it once was, and many men are finally admitting to their curiosity.

This has been my experience, as well, and I say... !!!

[Verne]

I wouldn't have a problem acting out that fantasy for my wife. I'm kind of curious anyways. I wouldn't expect my wife to do anything that I wouldn't do myself.

[FlyBiNiter]

OMG !! I have this fantasy all the time ! Sadly, my guy would never, but I sure wish he would ! I would love to see this particular double standard disappear. I don't see it as being any different than two women together, but most men seem to think differently. The closest I've ever gotten with my guy is renting some movies that centered on male bi activity. Wow.... I'll bet the real thing is even better !!!