Would you husbands let a man blow you?

Mike and Jan · 08-24-2005, 02:34 AM

OK, now I know in a group situation or even a threesome with your wife it might be totally different.

But say your wife, for whatever reason, has neglected your needs for a while. You're having a few beers with one of your long-time friends and discussing your being neglected.

Then, out of the blue, and to your total surprise, he offers to help you out. You had no clue that he'd ever consider giving another man head until right then. You know him and his wife, like him, and know you can totally trust him.

He adds that he doesn't expect any reciprocation and it's going to be nothing more than him helping out a friend in need by sucking his cock and swalling all his friends pent-up frustrations. He also mentions that he'll enjoy doing it.

What would you do/say?

spankem69 · 08-24-2005, 08:23 AM

No way! I couldn't even imagine it. Beer or no beer

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Sweet_Candy · 08-24-2005, 08:35 AM

Um...NO!

wiscpl · 08-24-2005, 08:36 AM

Setting aside all homophobic fears the issue here may lye in cheating. No matter how you look at it without the spouses knowledge or permission you are cheating and we all know how that is looked upon in the forum.

Pinmonkey · 08-24-2005, 09:51 AM

In the situation you describe? No way. Not ever. In a room full of hot sweaty naked bodies? Possibly... it depends on the circumstances.

Chicup · 08-24-2005, 11:55 AM

I'm not a bisexual/homosexual and having a buddy blow you, with just the two of you together, is about as homosexual as it gets.

So no, no, no.

I'd much rather have to deal with old Rosey.

Greg & Sheryl · 08-24-2005, 01:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mike and Jan

What would you do/say?

Say, "No, thank you."

LikeMinds321 · 08-24-2005, 02:18 PM

Sounds HOT to me!

You'd never get Mr LM to consider such play. But for me, a fantasy of mine is to see guy-on-guy action one day.

I'd say call your wife up and explain what was just offered to you. If she says, "Wow, go for it honey I think it would be hot!" you've got her consent.

You and she decide the boundaries of play you are open to. As long as you both have discussed it prior to it happening and agree on the terms of play, it would be okay in my book.

If she is comfortable with you playing alone with a male, then you have your answer.

Mike and Jan, would you be comfortable with this? I'd like to hear your views.

LM

twoplayful2 · 08-24-2005, 03:57 PM

Yeah, we'd like to know what you did....uh, I mean what you would do

sweetdelite · 08-24-2005, 05:44 PM

Mike
It sounds like one of your friends just let you know he is gay and wants to know if you would consider leaning to that side of the fence.

Mr. Sweetdelite (STR8)
Mrs. Sweetdelite (Bi with training wheels)....yum

I would say...whatever you enjoy...just let the wife know....be honest.....forthright.....and never chop down a cherry tree. Surrender

Sweet_Candy · 08-24-2005, 06:40 PM

Dito to the cherry tree!

CuriousInOregon · 08-24-2005, 08:13 PM

Well Mike Im gonna have to agree with several comments here, First and foremost with out Permission is is cheating, So do talk to your SO about the situation even if that means poping in a Porn and saying Hey what do you think of that? Second thing to consider is How you would or would not feel about it, and third and final thing would be to see what the Friends intentions are, please let us know if this is a reality or a "what if" I would be interested to know the Conclusion that has come to

BradAndJanet · 08-24-2005, 08:22 PM

I'd have to call my wife first, but I'd consider it.

-B

playmatesinpgh · 08-25-2005, 09:34 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pinmonkey

In the situation you describe? No way. Not ever. In a room full of hot sweaty naked bodies? Possibly... it depends on the circumstances.

I (Mr. Playmate) have to agree with Pinmonkey on this one. We have played with couples where both the female and male were bi but, so far, nothing has happened between me and another male. But under the right circumstance, with others having great sex all around, I can see it maybe happening.

Vespertine · 08-25-2005, 09:43 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BradAndJanet

I'd have to call my wife first, but I'd consider it.
-B

I'd like to get a phone call like that. I'd love to hear every detail after, too... but my husband doesn't think like I do.

My husband's not interested in m/m activity, so if he was in the situation the OP described, my husband would probably thank his friend for being concerned with his sexual welfare and ask if he could fuck his wife instead.

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08-24-2005, 02:34 AM	#1 (permalink)
Mike and Jan Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2000 Posts: 364 Location: Florida (north-central) Status: M. Male	Would you husbands let a man blow you? OK, now I know in a group situation or even a threesome with your wife it might be totally different. But say your wife, for whatever reason, has neglected your needs for a while. You're having a few beers with one of your long-time friends and discussing your being neglected. Then, out of the blue, and to your total surprise, he offers to help you out. You had no clue that he'd ever consider giving another man head until right then. You know him and his wife, like him, and know you can totally trust him. He adds that he doesn't expect any reciprocation and it's going to be nothing more than him helping out a friend in need by sucking his cock and swalling all his friends pent-up frustrations. He also mentions that he'll enjoy doing it. What would you do/say?
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08-24-2005, 08:23 AM	#2 (permalink)
spankem69 Active Member Join Date: Aug 2005 Posts: 16 Location: Florida Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:CentFlCouple96	Re: Would you husbands let a man blow you? No way! I couldn't even imagine it. Beer or no beer .

08-24-2005, 08:35 AM	#3 (permalink)
Sweet_Candy Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2005 Posts: 535 Location: Houston area Status: Couple	Re: Would you husbands let a man blow you? Um...NO!
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08-24-2005, 08:36 AM	#4 (permalink)
wiscpl Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 159 Location: WI Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:wicpl2002us	Re: Would you husbands let a man blow you? Setting aside all homophobic fears the issue here may lye in cheating. No matter how you look at it without the spouses knowledge or permission you are cheating and we all know how that is looked upon in the forum.
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08-24-2005, 09:51 AM	#5 (permalink)
Pinmonkey Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2003 Posts: 650 Location: Buffalo, NY Status: M. Male	Re: Would you husbands let a man blow you? In the situation you describe? No way. Not ever. In a room full of hot sweaty naked bodies? Possibly... it depends on the circumstances.
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08-24-2005, 11:55 AM	#6 (permalink)
Chicup Not a potential *** Join Date: Nov 2001 Posts: 4,091 Location: Under the bed Status: Tired	Re: Would you husbands let a man blow you? I'm not a bisexual/homosexual and having a buddy blow you, with just the two of you together, is about as homosexual as it gets. So no, no, no. I'd much rather have to deal with old Rosey.

08-24-2005, 02:18 PM	#8 (permalink)
LikeMinds321 I'll think about it Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 10,099 Location: With Wild Things Status: Married Female	Re: Would you husbands let a man blow you? Sounds HOT to me! You'd never get Mr LM to consider such play. But for me, a fantasy of mine is to see guy-on-guy action one day. I'd say call your wife up and explain what was just offered to you. If she says, "Wow, go for it honey I think it would be hot!" you've got her consent. You and she decide the boundaries of play you are open to. As long as you both have discussed it prior to it happening and agree on the terms of play, it would be okay in my book. If she is comfortable with you playing alone with a male, then you have your answer. Mike and Jan, would you be comfortable with this? I'd like to hear your views. LM

08-24-2005, 03:57 PM	#9 (permalink)
twoplayful2 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 218 Location: Riverside, CA Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:twoplayful2	Re: Would you husbands let a man blow you? Yeah, we'd like to know what you did....uh, I mean what you would do

08-24-2005, 05:44 PM	#10 (permalink)
sweetdelite Active Member Join Date: Aug 2005 Posts: 31 Location: Illinois Status: Couple ..yum	Re: Would you husbands let a man blow you? Mike It sounds like one of your friends just let you know he is gay and wants to know if you would consider leaning to that side of the fence. Mr. Sweetdelite (STR8) Mrs. Sweetdelite (Bi with training wheels)....yum I would say...whatever you enjoy...just let the wife know....be honest.....forthright.....and never chop down a cherry tree. Surrender

08-24-2005, 06:40 PM	#11 (permalink)
Sweet_Candy Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2005 Posts: 535 Location: Houston area Status: Couple	Re: Would you husbands let a man blow you? Dito to the cherry tree!
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08-24-2005, 08:13 PM	#12 (permalink)
CuriousInOregon Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2005 Posts: 601 Location: Oregon Status: Couple/ Single Female Swing Lifestyle Name:CuriousInOregon	Re: Would you husbands let a man blow you? Well Mike Im gonna have to agree with several comments here, First and foremost with out Permission is is cheating, So do talk to your SO about the situation even if that means poping in a Porn and saying Hey what do you think of that? Second thing to consider is How you would or would not feel about it, and third and final thing would be to see what the Friends intentions are, please let us know if this is a reality or a "what if" I would be interested to know the Conclusion that has come to

08-24-2005, 08:22 PM	#13 (permalink)
BradAndJanet Only slightly cracked... Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 7,071 Location: Seattle Status: Married Couple	Re: Would you husbands let a man blow you? I'd have to call my wife first, but I'd consider it. -B
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