Would you husbands let a man blow you?

[two4youinswva]

Originally Posted by WildMiCouple

Nope.....and if it was a buddy of mine that asked me, I'd probably give him a queer look and tell him I hope I misunderstood him Would definately ruin our friendship.

Brett (and Tammy)

Ahem, What kind of look would you give him?

[curiousagain]

I'm not squeamish, just not interested in it. Eveyone has their turn ons and turn offs and not interested in things. Whatever consenting adults want to do that doesn't cause harm to anyone isn't my concern as long as they leave me out.

[Chicup]

The only problem I have with male bisexuality isn't that people do it, just that its a major turn off for both myself and Mrs. Chicup to see it. Were this to become popular at most swingers clubs odds are we would stop going. Its not homophobia or anything of the sort, its just a sexual turn off, and if you are turned off at a club based around sex it sort of defeats the purpose of going.

I'm sure this economic factor is why the clubs we know of don't 'allow' male bisexual activity. Its one of those unwritten rules which is most likely based more around economics than any other reason.

[stupidnewbie]

Really, I wasn't intending to offend with my squeemish remark. I fully understand that bisexuality isn't for everyone. I like it and that's enough for me, acceptance isn't something I have ever placed a great deal of value on. I'm more likely to smile and flip you a bird than to discuss it! (JUST KIDDING!)
As for going to a club.... well I'd rather not do that anyway. There are so many bi guys out there I don't see any need to seek one in a swing club or to place myself on public display, especially to an unwilling audience. (willing is a TOATALLY different story!) Nor would I ever approach someone unless I had a strong indication that he wanted to be approached.

[CandTinLorainCo]

facelick Uh, no. Uh, HELL NO!!!!!!
-C

[kidcleveland]

well if it was in a threesome i would not stop him but one on one would not be that much of a trun on for me. there is also the wife thing if she doesnt know i wont do it. i have had mfm with friends and they're wifes but this has never come up with them but that was a long time ago.my wife knows about the past an know i'd like to get back into the life as she all for it but time is not on our side

[Tantra]

I think my wife and her girlfriends have told me that they would find it totally hot to see guy on guy action. I know that I'm straight (heterosexual activity turns me on the most - more than girl on girl and definitely more than guy on guy). Yet, I'm very interested to try it out sometime. I suppose then that I'm bi-curious. I think that it would be fun and probably very pleasurable.

I'm not really responding to the original question, because I would consider any sexual activity without the consent of my wife as cheating.