Would you husbands let a man blow you? - Page 6

Mike and Jan · 08-29-2005, 02:34 AM

Hey Newbie,
Well, I don't think you're so stupid at all! In fact, wish you and your wife were my best friends!

Rich

GatorNaturists · 08-29-2005, 04:49 AM

I would "frown intensly" and say "NO THANKS" and pass on that one. ( However, if one of my friends were around I would recommend that this dude go check him out, just for the laugh !!) :lol

michael

tom&jerri · 08-29-2005, 07:27 AM

Yes - it's been years since I've had a blow job from a man - but I did enjoy in then and I know I would enjoy it now.

Chicup · 08-29-2005, 10:15 AM

<- Is starting to feel like the last straight man left in swinging (cept for spoo)

tracy1878 · 08-29-2005, 10:57 AM

don't worry chicup, my hubby would have a fit if this happened to him, he's extremely against m/m action. Course he loves to watch me and a g/f

curiousagain · 08-29-2005, 11:16 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Chicup

<- Is starting to feel like the last straight man left in swinging (cept for spoo)

No, I'm in the straight category also. I have no interest in receiving a bj from a male.

Captain Passion · 08-29-2005, 01:01 PM

Breath out!-----Deep breath! ----Release! Complex subject involving social, intellectual, political, evironmental (meaning upbringing), peer-group, emotional, religious and personal issues. There is much which I agree with and still things I see differently, but appreciate and respect the other opinion. I was looking for a topic to join the discussion as a newbie to the board, but all I can say to all of you is; "Follow your bliss!"-------as long as it hurts no one else!
It's hot right now in the Virgin Islands and I could use a Corona,
Or, Caribe or Presidente!

Spoomonkey · 08-29-2005, 06:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Chicup

(cept for spoo)

Thank god I've gotten my position across...

Spoomonkey

stupidnewbie · 08-29-2005, 07:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mike and Jan

Hey Newbie,
Well, I don't think you're so stupid at all! In fact, wish you and your wife were my best friends!

Rich

Rich, I'm sure it would be a great deal of fun for all involved! Too bad we're so far apart.
David

Somehow I get the feeling that the straight guys are getting squeemish.

jennandjamesinm · 08-29-2005, 07:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Chicup

<- Is starting to feel like the last straight man left in swinging (cept for spoo)

Nope - James is right up there with ya'll. While he has no issues with homosexuals or bisexual men, he is completely straight and that is not going to change. So there are 3 of ya'll straight swingers

Jenn

jennandjamesinm · 08-29-2005, 07:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by stupidnewbie

Somehow I get the feeling that the straight guys are getting squeemish.

Nope not squeemish - Its just not for James. He says to each his own!!!

Jenn

Spoomonkey · 08-29-2005, 07:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by stupidnewbie

Somehow I get the feeling that the straight guys are getting squeemish.

Nah - I think it is cool. If you want to do it and you find a partner to play with, go for it. It just isn't for me - which experienced bisexuals know means I'd be lousy at it anyway (all the gagging and crying can distract from the eroticism).

Spoomonkey

Sweet_Candy · 08-29-2005, 07:42 PM

I'm with you guys on this. Doing or being done by another guy does nothing for me. But I'm that way about girl on girl...what's the point?

Captain Passion · 08-29-2005, 07:55 PM

In the art gallery I used to have in New York, I once held a private art opening for a naturalist group. Being from the skinny dipping days and having been on stage in a play nude, I had no problem joining in being naked. (That's a whole topic in itself that I will refrain from discussing here) Everyone talked about being comfortable with their body and how healthy it was. It was obvious to me from the beginning that being comfortable with your body was an excuse for something else. The majority were men and somehow the videos always ended up focused on the genital areas. What was coming to light as the evening went on was that the sexual undertones were a constant source of tension and that what was really going on had to do with levels of discomfort, including myself. I had private openings for lesbian and Gay men groups as well and the same tension was present even with the clothes on. What was the difference compared to a "normal" (as in statistical norm?) heterosexually charged opening? Actually none! Except for the clothing worn or not worn. What I am trying to say, is that I feel the tension in this discussion even in some of the jokes. I am not saying that is wrong, simply something to be considered in the way we respond. I do not exclude myself, I am well aware that I have my share of issues.
OOPS- I better be careful,
Oscar Wilde "A man who knows himself is shallow indeed."

WildMiCouple · 08-29-2005, 08:48 PM

Nope.....and if it was a buddy of mine that asked me, I'd probably give him a queer look and tell him I hope I misunderstood him

Would definately ruin our friendship.

Brett (and Tammy)

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08-29-2005, 02:34 AM	#76 (permalink)
Mike and Jan Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2000 Posts: 364 Location: Florida (north-central) Status: M. Male	Re: Would you husbands let a man blow you? Hey Newbie, Well, I don't think you're so stupid at all! In fact, wish you and your wife were my best friends! Rich
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08-29-2005, 04:49 AM	#77 (permalink)
GatorNaturists Registered User Join Date: Aug 2005 Posts: 2 Location: Sanford Status: couple	Re: Would you husbands let a man blow you? I would "frown intensly" and say "NO THANKS" and pass on that one. ( However, if one of my friends were around I would recommend that this dude go check him out, just for the laugh !!) :lol michael

08-29-2005, 07:27 AM	#78 (permalink)
tom&jerri Registered Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 4 Location: Oklahoma	Re: Would you husbands let a man blow you? Yes - it's been years since I've had a blow job from a man - but I did enjoy in then and I know I would enjoy it now.

08-29-2005, 10:15 AM	#79 (permalink)
Chicup Not a potential *** Join Date: Nov 2001 Posts: 4,093 Location: Under the bed Status: Tired	Re: Would you husbands let a man blow you? <- Is starting to feel like the last straight man left in swinging (cept for spoo)

08-29-2005, 10:57 AM	#80 (permalink)
tracy1878 Here to Stay Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 96 Location: Central Ohio Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:tracy1878	Re: Would you husbands let a man blow you? don't worry chicup, my hubby would have a fit if this happened to him, he's extremely against m/m action. Course he loves to watch me and a g/f

08-29-2005, 01:01 PM	#82 (permalink)
Captain Passion Registered Join Date: Aug 2005 Posts: 7 Location: Virgin Islands	Re: Would you husbands let a man blow you? Breath out!-----Deep breath! ----Release! Complex subject involving social, intellectual, political, evironmental (meaning upbringing), peer-group, emotional, religious and personal issues. There is much which I agree with and still things I see differently, but appreciate and respect the other opinion. I was looking for a topic to join the discussion as a newbie to the board, but all I can say to all of you is; "Follow your bliss!"-------as long as it hurts no one else! It's hot right now in the Virgin Islands and I could use a Corona, Or, Caribe or Presidente!

08-29-2005, 07:42 PM	#88 (permalink)
Sweet_Candy Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2005 Posts: 535 Location: Houston area Status: Couple	Re: Would you husbands let a man blow you? I'm with you guys on this. Doing or being done by another guy does nothing for me. But I'm that way about girl on girl...what's the point?
	__________________ Sweet_Candy

08-29-2005, 07:55 PM	#89 (permalink)
Captain Passion Registered Join Date: Aug 2005 Posts: 7 Location: Virgin Islands	Re: Would you husbands let a man blow you? In the art gallery I used to have in New York, I once held a private art opening for a naturalist group. Being from the skinny dipping days and having been on stage in a play nude, I had no problem joining in being naked. (That's a whole topic in itself that I will refrain from discussing here) Everyone talked about being comfortable with their body and how healthy it was. It was obvious to me from the beginning that being comfortable with your body was an excuse for something else. The majority were men and somehow the videos always ended up focused on the genital areas. What was coming to light as the evening went on was that the sexual undertones were a constant source of tension and that what was really going on had to do with levels of discomfort, including myself. I had private openings for lesbian and Gay men groups as well and the same tension was present even with the clothes on. What was the difference compared to a "normal" (as in statistical norm?) heterosexually charged opening? Actually none! Except for the clothing worn or not worn. What I am trying to say, is that I feel the tension in this discussion even in some of the jokes. I am not saying that is wrong, simply something to be considered in the way we respond. I do not exclude myself, I am well aware that I have my share of issues. OOPS- I better be careful, Oscar Wilde "A man who knows himself is shallow indeed."

08-29-2005, 08:48 PM	#90 (permalink)
WildMiCouple Never up.....never in Join Date: Apr 2005 Posts: 732 Location: se Michigan and se Florida Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:wildmicouple	Re: Would you husbands let a man blow you? Nope.....and if it was a buddy of mine that asked me, I'd probably give him a queer look and tell him I hope I misunderstood him Would definately ruin our friendship. Brett (and Tammy)
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