Why the hatred of bi-males? - Page 2

Bama0468 · 02-08-2005, 10:59 AM

Well from the wife and I stand point, we have not seen any " black listing " and as for having a bi male couple , or a bi couple in general we may tend to shy away not from Homophobia, but from the fact as we chat with them the guy seems insistant that if he sees a nice "cock" he must suck it ... well I am sorry I don't have an inclination to explore bi .. at least not at this time... so I would say it is the few bad apples spoiling the lot for the rest of yas. SO for you bi guys, be bi, but if you find a couple that you all are interested in, and is interested in a bi-male couple/bi-couple, just practice what is always preached on these forums, be respectful of all involved, don't be pushy .. and things will work out fine

graygo98 · 02-08-2005, 11:43 AM

This morning we had an enquiry on Swing Lifestyle from a couple in which the female is straight and the male is bi. This is the opposite of what we are interested in, so we politely declined, and gave that reason.

Was it about "hatred" of Bi males? Absolutely not. Phobia? No. Years ago I met a woman in a bar that turned out not to be a woman. I found this out up in my room with her later. He/she was surprised I didn't know, the bar I had stumbled into was sort of known for that. I was from out of town, though, and clueless.

It was sort of like the big surprise scene in The Crying Game, if you've seen the movie. In fact, that movie made me curious enough to go with the flow. Well, the flow didn't go very far. Absolute non-interest from points south. Was I revolted, or afraid, or whatever? No. I had been curious. And then I knew. Simply not interested.

I don't think I am unusual. I have seen several references to studies that suggest that women, at least in our culture, are much more predisposed to bi-sexuality than men are. My understanding is that Bi males are actually quite rare. So, I can understand that you might have trouble finding compatible couples, but I sure hope its not due to the sort of discrimination that you are talking about. Of anybody swingers should have a healthy fear of ignorant discrimination on the basis of lifestyle choices.

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02-08-2005, 10:59 AM	#16 (permalink)
Bama0468 Rebel without a Cause :P Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 438 Location: Colorado Status: Ugly half of a beautiful Wife Swing Lifestyle Name:fountaincouple	Re: Why the hatred of bi-males? Well from the wife and I stand point, we have not seen any " black listing " and as for having a bi male couple , or a bi couple in general we may tend to shy away not from Homophobia, but from the fact as we chat with them the guy seems insistant that if he sees a nice "cock" he must suck it ... well I am sorry I don't have an inclination to explore bi .. at least not at this time... so I would say it is the few bad apples spoiling the lot for the rest of yas. SO for you bi guys, be bi, but if you find a couple that you all are interested in, and is interested in a bi-male couple/bi-couple, just practice what is always preached on these forums, be respectful of all involved, don't be pushy .. and things will work out fine
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02-08-2005, 11:43 AM	#17 (permalink)
graygo98 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 395 Location: Toronto Status: Couple	Re: Why the hatred of bi-males? This morning we had an enquiry on Swing Lifestyle from a couple in which the female is straight and the male is bi. This is the opposite of what we are interested in, so we politely declined, and gave that reason. Was it about "hatred" of Bi males? Absolutely not. Phobia? No. Years ago I met a woman in a bar that turned out not to be a woman. I found this out up in my room with her later. He/she was surprised I didn't know, the bar I had stumbled into was sort of known for that. I was from out of town, though, and clueless. It was sort of like the big surprise scene in The Crying Game, if you've seen the movie. In fact, that movie made me curious enough to go with the flow. Well, the flow didn't go very far. Absolute non-interest from points south. Was I revolted, or afraid, or whatever? No. I had been curious. And then I knew. Simply not interested. I don't think I am unusual. I have seen several references to studies that suggest that women, at least in our culture, are much more predisposed to bi-sexuality than men are. My understanding is that Bi males are actually quite rare. So, I can understand that you might have trouble finding compatible couples, but I sure hope its not due to the sort of discrimination that you are talking about. Of anybody swingers should have a healthy fear of ignorant discrimination on the basis of lifestyle choices.

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