Bi guys - hot or not?

[louieone]

My girl and I are both bi. Now I am really into women, and would take woman any day over a guy, but I do like guys--well, cocks actually. My first actual sexual encounter was with my best friend when I was 12 & 13 and we were just discovering sex. We'd steal nude girlie mags and whack off together, which progressed to each of us taking turns playing the girl as we lubed up and pumped between each other's legs and ass. No actual penetration. Then we heard about blow jobs so we tried it out on each other. This lasted for about a year until we read an article on homosexuality. We were appalled. Neither one of us wanted to be queer, so that stopped.

Fast forward a dozen years and I was married, in grad school in NYC and my wife and I became close friends with a gay guy-very nice looking, classy, with money and great sense of humor. My wife was a natural fag hag, and they became close friends. About a year into the friendship, she took off one weekend and left us to fend for ourselves. We had a bottle of scotch and wound up blowing each other. That started a relationship that lasted for almost a year until he got a real boyfriend, who got jealous and turned me in to my wife. I don't know why, but she didn't leave me. In any case, that was my first adult bi experience, and I was liking it, but again it stopped.

About 6 years ago, mired in a sexless marriage, and getting internet savvy, I started hooking up with other a few net tramps (tramp being a good word and bi guys. I was amazed at how many bi guys there were. Finally, out of the marriage. I was introduced to my current girl. She had been into the lifestyle with her husband. She was bi. As the relationship progressed, I confessed that I was bi, too. She was curious how that would go and suggested a 3 way with another bi guy. I loved the idea and set it up. Since then, we've invited numerous bi guys to join us. She digs having two men take care of her and apparently gets turned on by the guys playing and blowing each other.

So after this very lengthy introduction, I'm wondering how many couples like us are out there? How women feel about men doing each other and how many guys have done bi or are curious, and just general reactions to what I've written. There seems to be no problem with the girls getting it on, and I'm wondering if there really is no problem with the boys getting it on also?

[OhioCouple]

Originally Posted by louieone

There seems to be no problem with the girls getting it on, and I'm wondering if there really is no problem with the boys getting it on also?

I, Mrs. O, have zero problem with either sex exploring each other. As long as all sexual acts take place between consenting adults, I find the thought of it highly erotic. While I wouldn't participate in some activities that other enjoy, I don't frown upon those that enjoy it, yet still find it so cool that others are 'allowed' to. (for lack of better words) And isn't that what it's all about?

I also believe that society as a whole, is becoming more open to the concept of 'equal' rights, be it the goose or the gander.

Excellent topic.

[jim-n-nicole]

Although not obvious from the title, this recent thread went off topic and covered this subject pretty well.

[good times]

While we have no problem with people doing anything they want as long as all agree, neither my wife or I are in the least bit interested in bi activity either FF or MM.

[Vespertine]

I agree with OhioCouple's philosophy.

I also think a MFM (with 2 bi guys) would be a major turn-on. It's one of my fantasies. Mr. Vespertine, on the other hand, would NEVER indulge me in it.

[BradAndJanet]

Hot.

-B

[LikeMinds321]

Originally Posted by Vespertine

I also think a MFM (with 2 bi guys) would be a major turn-on. It's one of my fantasies. Mr. Vespertine, on the other hand, would NEVER indulge me in it.

Dito

If this fantasy ever becomes reality for me, it will have to be without Mr LM in the picture.

LM

P.S. I loved reading your story about the innocence of youth.

[jcbicouple]

Well, We're both bi so our answer is "hot".

[fun4usNala]

Fem half here.... I think it is hot... hubby is orally bi. I am not interested in seeing anal penetration between males at all, but watching the oral is very erotic to me. Unfortunately it has been rather difficult for us to find another bi male. It isn't something that is discussed openly. head bang

[gsu22]

I'd say hot; have always wanted to explore while a woman watched and eventually joined in. To me, giving oral looks like so much fun...being in control!!

I loved the youth story also. I think back and wish i had a buddy during my early to mid teen years that I could have jacked off with and explored with as well.

[9167jay]

Yeah this totally sounds hot. Unfortunitly stuff like this or finding a bi-male is not easliy done in this area.

[Miss_Piggy]

Originally Posted by BradAndJanet

Hot.

-B

Dito

-Piggy

[tweedle]

Very nice to read the initial posting.

I grew up near Philadelphia, and (believe it or not) had similar pre-teen experiences...

Liked all of what you had to said.

Have also noted HUGE number of bi-guys on internet, also claiming to suffer from near-to-totally sexless marriages.

It's an epidemic, and if you read this week's Newsweek, there's an article about women in today's world that delves into the general "uselessness" that many women feel towards their men.

Not to get overly controversial !!!

I only wish that I'd met a woman who could openly share everything !!!

[NakedInSeattle]

Well, Vesper, surprised to find that we are one up on you. We love the scene that you are fantasizing about. And yes, HOT. 'Nuff said.

[DBL D]

Total turn off for me...........Don't want to ever see Male D in the act with another guy. I may change my mind in a few years, this is still all so new to us.

Fem D